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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by talktrue4eva: 6:20pm On May 07, 2020
Most times, its doesn't work to be sweet again when u later meet in life, so move on.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Obioma993: 6:21pm On May 07, 2020
Is obvious he isn't really attracted to u as u are to him although he knows u like him n he also likes u but not the way u fancy him so my advice is dat u just let tins be n move on cos if u go ahead n ask 4 his digits which might lead to u been attached to him emotionally there's a 70% chance dat he will use n dump u but if u can take d risk den is okay for u to make d first move but if u know dat u aren't ready for any heart breaks just forget Abt him
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by jaxxy(m): 6:24pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:


not bad
but then it would be very obvious.
seeing as he might already suspect I have something for him.
thanks still.

If a guy like u he will come for u, especially when uve put urself out there and given him greenlights. If he doesn't he has hes reasons, the best in can do is be cordial and maintain a good frndship with him. He will respect u better bt if u want to be Bleep buddies then give more signals and see him throw it down. U may not like the ending however.

Don't ask for his number!!!!
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Rejoice5000(f): 6:27pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
Honestly

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 6:28pm On May 07, 2020
Still maintain your social and physical distancing to avoid crying later

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 6:29pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Face your studies and allow your sweet pussy to rest

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Gerrard23: 6:30pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by princessConfy(f): 6:31pm On May 07, 2020
My dear, if you can, kill all the feelings you have for this guy... As someone said IT WILL DEFINITELY END IN TEARS.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 6:32pm On May 07, 2020
Filo pls face your studies and good Dicks will locate you soon
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Rejoice5000(f): 6:32pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Go after him then anything you see you take.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by JayJayGee: 6:33pm On May 07, 2020
Semperty:
because it's fun. He probably knows you like him and stare at him so he's enjoying the eye contacts and doesn't want to lose your attention.
I'm a guy and I know what I'm saying trust me
If a dude really has feelings for you he wouldn't want to just lose contact completely with you like that even if it's for a while.. he'd take any slight opportunity to ask for your number or something he could use to reach you.
O girl here is your answer
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by kenny160: 6:38pm On May 07, 2020
If he likes you.. He will definitely come for you later,. If you dont becareful he will use and dump you like condom carton
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Innomoney: 6:43pm On May 07, 2020
Girl, just occupy yourself with something else, because the guy doesn't love you and if you give yourself to him,he wouldn't fail to take. I am a guy,if we love a girl we don't wait as much as that. Don't forget his on looking and smiling, maybe just to reciprocate yours. You have to put yourself together and stop being too emotional, otherwise, just have your friends around so they can comfort you after heartbreak.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Greatfullheart: 6:45pm On May 07, 2020
He doesn't cherish i might want to play with you feelings/emotions. Even if collects your number; what gives u the assurance that he be calling you from time to time? He might be out there to use and dump you 4 gud and pursue and innocent girl. Trust me as a guy i have in similar case i suffer 4 girls hand sha.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by piagetskinner(m): 6:51pm On May 07, 2020
Children’s love... stare and he stared back


The world is standing on the edge of a precipice you’re there talking about one foolish love that is inexistent


You’re still a kid I’m sure.. maybe when you get your heart broken 1 or 2 times you go wise up

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Truthshurts: 7:03pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.


Go and pray about it
The worst place after hell fire is a bad relationship
My best advice

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Zabiboy: 7:04pm On May 07, 2020
Stefenijoan002:
if she ask for now u go first say she too cheap .naa woa for u
..

...
angry ...
How can you be so sure i'll say that when you dont even know me angry...
All guys arent d same...
If they are to you, Then change Your circle of male friends And your Mentality..
GL...

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nwogeh: 7:08pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...

Laugh no gree me as I see this comment, why una wicked like this na.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Zabiboy: 7:10pm On May 07, 2020
sketcherJ:
Op I am a guy but I beg you. Do not do this. Trust me, it won't end well for you. We are in Nigeria. The guy will consider you cheap , he will tell his friends. He will want to sleep with you on your first day. He won't be committed in the relationship, he will dump your sorry ass after two weeks. For all you hold dear, filomena do not do this. You are young still. You might not last a massive heartbreak and this is one of the surest ways to destroy your heart

Really Nigga angry ...?
Are you the guy or is the guy you??
Has any girl asked for your nunber before?? If yes, did you consider her cheap??
Ok you mean all the girls you'v asked for number would also consider you cheap bah...
C'mon bro...Its not about the asking that makes one cheap....ITS HOW YOU ASK..
GL

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Zabiboy: 7:18pm On May 07, 2020
fayded:

My brother.. If a Nigerian girl asks for ur number eh.. It doesn't always end well for you o.
Lemme give u small example.
Had ds girl in my hood, I always say hi to her and she replies and we walk past each other.
One day she just said hello and I said hi and she said she'd like to know my name bla bla bla, we talked, she took my number..
For like one month, I no rest.she would call, and when her airtime finishes, she'll tell me to call her bk. We'll just be talking sumfn dt I don't even know. ..
She texts alot Ehhh.. Whatsapp was d worst. D stalking no be here.
I had to block her oo and tell her my phone Gat stolen, I've changed numbers.God helped me and moved from dt place.
Since dt time, if I hear a girl say "can I have ur number"...my heart just Dey beat.

Op, the guy doesn't like you or fancy you.. Take like 4 steps back oooo to avoid "he used me, he used me and dumped me"


Wtf did i just read @emboldened..
Your balls deserved to be taken off you man...
You did not know what you were talking about yet she'll tell you to call and you did??...
Mehnn....See ehnn...In situations like this, you are in full control and so you set the rhythm and you decide how you want the relationship/friendship/FWB to go....But you goofeed it...
The Ball was in your court....
Anyways...Truth is, not all girls that ask for your number would pester you..
Some might just do it to increase their Whatsapp Status views...
Read that last line again....ITS TRUE..
GL cool

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by sketcherJ(m): 7:20pm On May 07, 2020
Zabiboy:


Really Nigga angry ...?
Are you the guy or is the guy you??
Has any girl asked for your nunber before?? If yes, did you consider her cheap??
Ok you mean all the girls you'v asked for number would also consider you cheap bah...
C'mon bro...Its not about the asking that makes one cheap....ITS HOW YOU ASK..
GL

hey bro come off it, and be fu*king realistic. Those stuffs you say only applies on paper and maybe in foreign countries. In reality, any girl that woos a guy here and asks for number is mainly seen as cheap . Even if the guy don't consider her like that, his friends will and that is God's truth.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Dybala11(m): 7:22pm On May 07, 2020
placeofallure:
No guy who's really into you will allow an opportunity of getting your number slip.

He may like you but is committed to another within the same cycle. He could be holding back because of that. It's enough reason to hesitate if you ask me.

He may not really be into you, could be all the small talk is just him being civil.

Your age (I don't need to ask you) is when you mistake infatuation for love. You have to be careful and leave men out of your curriculum for now. Use this time to build your GPA.

If you still feel you wanna go ahead then
don't collect his number if he doesn't ask for yours. Don't offer yourself on a platter of gold for him. He should work for it.

If he's yours, Providence will sort it out. Facebook, that's top priority now.
Facebook ko, Twitter ni. Ion totally agree with your first statement though, every other statement in your comment is spot-on I think.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Zabiboy: 7:23pm On May 07, 2020
MrCuteking:


Bros if girl ask for man number, the guy go fvck her die.

...

Mehnn....Every Sensible/Reasonable/Hot guy knows sex and vjay are cheap...
So you saying "The guy go fvck her die" says alot about you...
I hope you change that mentality soon bro
GL

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Khassidy(m): 7:24pm On May 07, 2020
Skmoda360:
Should we tell her? grin
leave am make she jam first
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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Zabiboy: 7:31pm On May 07, 2020
sketcherJ:
hey bro come off it, and be fu*king realistic. Those stuffs you say only applies on paper and maybe in foreign countries. In reality, any girl that woos a guy here and asks for number is mainly seen as cheap . Even if the guy don't consider her like that, his friends will and that is God's truth .

Same friends that would be fantasizing about her, Wishing she was theirs grin grin....
Its all down to you as a guy tho...
If sex and vjay are not your problem, you'll giv her the number and turn her requests( for a relationship) down if you'r not interested...

Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Keketu(m): 7:33pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Tinuke ?? undecided undecided undecided
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by rhames(m): 7:36pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Make the move and show him positive body language. Thats how it works.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by kenoxzy(m): 7:48pm On May 07, 2020
Why don’t you approach him and tell him how you feel about him
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Hebrave(m): 7:58pm On May 07, 2020
Nigerian girls and their mindset eh.
will it hurt if u make the first move?? how about collecting his number, even asking him out
girls what a man can do u can do better, remember?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by MOnkeyBabe(f): 8:03pm On May 07, 2020
toprealman:

Nne just make your studies your priority. Most likely you are a fresher . This is the best time to build your CGPA.
He is playing a post COVID-19 psychology game on you.....dont ask for details OK.
You don't need to bother yourself that much.....focus on your studies.
which one is POSt COVID-19 PSyChOlogy Game?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by khalifa15: 8:04pm On May 07, 2020
diz bae pussy de scratch her

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