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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Enwhen(m): 3:29pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.


Sis. It's 50-50...As an Africa guy in this age, I will advice u not to shoot ur shot, don't try it plsss.... and stop staring at him , no doubt u seems to like him....let him make the move, and stop staring at him which may trigger it, let him do it naturally, and should he make that move, accept him , and study him very well before u allow him into the promise Land let it not be that , thats what he is after ...be very very careful in going into relationship, cos should go into the wrong one, shaiii, as a girl, it would affect your academic performance and whether u are doing well or not it's gonna affect u...good luck girl, best wishes.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Badlimo(m): 3:30pm On May 07, 2020
Let's see your picture first so we can advice
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nobody: 3:30pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:


okay
but why does he keep staring?
Its a game dear, dont fall prey.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by femi4: 3:31pm On May 07, 2020
Zabiboy:


OP
Would you die if you ask for his number??
Nigerian girls and their mentality sha...

In fact ....you have spoken well
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by duduade: 3:31pm On May 07, 2020
Go into a relationship with him


Come back to give us a feedback after two years

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Kaymaxine(m): 3:31pm On May 07, 2020
The guy na the real OG!!!

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by yommen: 3:33pm On May 07, 2020
Semperty:
Truth hurts..
He doesn't fancy you
.
He could be shy
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by cray91(m): 3:35pm On May 07, 2020
You Read my Mind Already!
emae009:
it'll end in tears...

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by KAM3KAZI: 3:36pm On May 07, 2020
I find it funny how everyone is giving different advice,I suggest the op finds out what type of guy this person is before following any advice given on this forum because you can't take any advice given here by any man/woman without knowing whether he is with you or not he is playing with you.
Note that all men are not the same
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by micflo28(m): 3:36pm On May 07, 2020
When the stakes are down, you will know what actually brought you to school and face it. Leave silly love thoughts
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Sparrow0: 3:37pm On May 07, 2020
If you really like him as you said then why not just open up and tell him? it doesn't take anything from you
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by willybaby(m): 3:39pm On May 07, 2020
Everybody saying the guy this the guy that, OP will u die if you ask him for his number ? Or even if you tell him u like him and take him out nigerian girls need wake up telling a guy you lik him ain't a crime
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by boyjo: 3:40pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Whatever happens, DONOT ASK FOR HIS NUMBER!
If he is not worried about not seeing you for weeks ENOUGH to ask for you number, then you are not going to give your number to someone who doesn't need the pleasure of your voice!

No let all these romance section guys wey dey say make you ask for him number, finish work for your body in the name of "bro code o"

#Igentle
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by fayded(m): 3:40pm On May 07, 2020
Zabiboy:


OP
Would you die if you ask for his number??
Nigerian girls and their mentality sha...

My brother.. If a Nigerian girl asks for ur number eh.. It doesn't always end well for you o.
Lemme give u small example.
Had ds girl in my hood, I always say hi to her and she replies and we walk past each other.
One day she just said hello and I said hi and she said she'd like to know my name bla bla bla, we talked, she took my number..
For like one month, I no rest.she would call, and when her airtime finishes, she'll tell me to call her bk. We'll just be talking sumfn dt I don't even know.
She texts alot Ehhh.. Whatsapp was d worst. D stalking no be here.
I had to block her oo and tell her my phone Gat stolen, I've changed numbers.God helped me and moved from dt place.
Since dt time, if I hear a girl say "can I have ur number"...my heart just Dey beat.

Op, the guy doesn't like you or fancy you.. Take like 4 steps back oooo to avoid "he used me, he used me and dumped me"
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Shimzyy(m): 3:43pm On May 07, 2020
zcee:
olofo
Like say if she open for u,u no go enter..

I no fit enter desperate small girl like her
Pussy is not my problem
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by FuckAllTheMODs: 3:43pm On May 07, 2020
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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nyamve1: 3:43pm On May 07, 2020
[quote author=Filomena post=88959173]There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. Young lady, make him feel secured around u, the young man thought u have a boyfriend, if u see him again ask him about his gf, tell him that u dnt a bf indirectly
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Dollabiz: 3:47pm On May 07, 2020
Ok lover
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Irore: 3:48pm On May 07, 2020
[quote author=Filomena post=88959173][/quote]

Spin him,tell him you love him and would want a relationship.I don't know any rule that says a woman should not spin a man. Afterall Ruth sneaked into Boaz's bedsheet while he was asleep. Make the move. Good luck.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by REHOBOTH94(m): 3:53pm On May 07, 2020
you don't need to force your love on anybody..... his actions are clear to u......he doesn't have ur time!
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by NaijadrivaCars: 3:53pm On May 07, 2020
Ereolamide:
Philomena! so this is what you've been doing in school?

Wait let daddy come back from the brothel.

Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ACE1010: 3:55pm On May 07, 2020
Dshocker:


Try and get him some hints,like green light

Chief, I can't you see the "green light" in her post?? lipsrsealed
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by fof1: 3:57pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:


okay
but why does he keep staring?

Don't mind Most of this Charades Posted here as Advise Comments. Follow ur Heart. Build Confidence,wait for him to show true intent but dont Cheap or Sheepish either. Keep ur Cool and Be Focused for Academic Progress...Pls

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Mimiey: 4:05pm On May 07, 2020
Wish you would listen dear....

He may like you but trust me not enough to go into a relationship or get serious with you. Is that what you want as this may never change?

Also, he seems calm, responsible and collected; this, this guy most likely has a girl he is madly in love with. He seems like a deep lover too and is not really into the cheating thing.

If you push further, you will get friend zoned and you may never leave that zone.

Men are hunters, if he wants to love you or even sleep, he will get your number that first day, if not the first day, then the 2nd day but sis u guys met about 3 times or more and he never bothered.

He doesn't want to start anything or raise your hope and u end up getting hurt.

He is saving you, save yourself sis.... Let go

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by cezarman(m): 4:06pm On May 07, 2020
The guy should start getting ready for a hot fvck cheesy
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nobody: 4:08pm On May 07, 2020
Dont worry you will get over him. Face your book, this is not the time to fall in love with your fellow student. It will end in massive tears.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Ryocaj(m): 4:09pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
lol.. I too like u. � u too much
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ogunladeabiodu(m): 4:10pm On May 07, 2020
ednut1:
Won ma do e faya
ha haha, you harsh o, oro yi o fi e lenu rara
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nwaonyishi69: 4:12pm On May 07, 2020
Your father might have spread his seeds here and there. Perhaps he is your undeclared brother. If you know his sun name, you may have to ask your father whether he knows people with such a name. Don't be in a haste to sleep with him, for he may be your blood brother. Thanks.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nobody: 4:12pm On May 07, 2020
all I can say is, use style collect him number, use style follow am talk or chat, use style go h house, use style cook for am, use style bleep am then use style dump am.

The shame of say na u dump am no go gree am leave you again. At this point him don fall like house where no get foundation.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Eberex(m): 4:14pm On May 07, 2020
The op didn't say if she consider herself pretty or just there , shey you know.

You might not be his type but he chose to be friendly with you.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by kiddkash(m): 4:15pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
women have the propensity to insinuate rape or sexual assault at any given turn
so I believe he is trying not to be caught in that web because he doesn't really know you

he does like you and he doesn't know how to approach you so as not to be rejected
he feels you are just being nice

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