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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by EncourageMe: 2:15pm On May 07, 2020
PHILOMENA, NOW THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE NOW, DO NOT COME HERE TO REPORT TO US THAT MEN ARE SCUM OOO. I WISH YOU A GOOD FALLING..... Well, that was a good joke anyway but why not take him to God in prayers... Very simple lines,,, God is it time for me to fall in love? Is he the real Man you have prepared for me? if he is the one, so let everything be...thank you Jesus... Some people do not know we can ask God questions.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Ngoze: 2:15pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
This anxiousness you have about him, all this questions you are asking this is exactly what he wants and you are already falling for it. The guy is chasing after you but taking is time until he knows you can't take it any longer and you have fallen for him big time. He will make his move, by then you are in deep shit. My question for you is: Are you ready to be in a relationship? Are you ready for all the emotional trauma e.t.c. Have a clear view of what you want, if not you will become a prey.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by CaptainGAGA: 2:15pm On May 07, 2020
He's not a preacher of love
He's a war
He's a lion
He's a a liquid metal
He's indaboski pahose.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by nsiba: 2:16pm On May 07, 2020
Shimzyy:
Even your write up shows you're too young for what you want to Start

Kids now and sex Na 5&6
Rubbish thread
.

Don't blame her but the foolish mod that made this front-page
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by CaptainGAGA: 2:17pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ericmor: 2:17pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

That was the way it all happened with my ex, didn’t even bothered asking for her digit since I noticed the eye contact n her interest in me but she also thought I didn’t want her not knowing I was only taking my time. He likes u I think but don’t just want to rush u I think. Just my thought

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by nsiba: 2:18pm On May 07, 2020
CaptainGAGA:
He's not a preacher of love
He's a war
He's a lion
He's a a liquid metal
He's indaboski pahose.
.

Meet d latest magician in town
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by izzy4shizzy(m): 2:19pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
hahahaaha
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by hisroyalrealnes(m): 2:20pm On May 07, 2020
See as yam dey pursue goat...

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Staru1(m): 2:22pm On May 07, 2020
next time, collect his number...
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Creeza(m): 2:22pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena, You are young. Don't make the mistake we made when we where at your age. I rest my case. But if you say na big preek dae hungry you. Go ahead and do the needful but don't chase him, turn your back on what you want and see the magic. ( Besides most guys go after girl because they have big back sides... irony of life)

I'm a guy and believe me on the theory about turning your back on what you want. Peoplelike attention and when you stop giving it to them, they crave you' more and more until they can't help but day dream about you and having you all to themselves.

This is what the young man in question is doing to you. Spooked your interest, when you became interested, keeps you in suspense and uncertainty... That same uncertainty na im you go remain until the night he finally whispers “ I've always loved you from the first day we met”

Gbam!!! Case closed, Legs opened.... Overwhelmed you are, not ready but too happy to let the opportunity pass by and you start mumbling....“ But... but wait!!... why... Do you really love me?...

Questions!!

by that time his gbola is far inside you and your senses will elude you. Twice he will come over to your place. Three times you will sleep at his. Multiple sessions past before you realise the nigga is a kitten hunter and you just fell into his trap free of charge.


A word of advise. Pick your slippers... Dust it... Yes, dust your immaturity and passion off. Done. Oya run as fast as you can....

Two years from today... Come back and thank me.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by 12345baba(m): 2:22pm On May 07, 2020
It will end in red tears
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by SocialJustice: 2:24pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Young lady, if you like a guy, walk up to him and tell him. He could be shy and afraid of rejection. You don't know the relationship he has with the girl that cooked for him. In university, I didn't cook. Had a plethora of girls doing it for me, if you didn't know me closely, you'd think I had a relationship with them.

Keep your pride and let him know, if he says no, move on, still smile and talk to him whenever you see him. You sound so naive, unpolluted and fresh to the world of dating. I miss this feeling but the world has built me to survive, so stop wasting time.

If he's into you, do not be in a hurry to have sex and make yourself look cheap.

I wish you the best.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Wiifesnatcher(m): 2:24pm On May 07, 2020
Op should be around 19,20,21 and I can bet it she's still intact


please keep your virginity safe, you duo might be having infatuation for each other without you knowing



face your study and open your heart to many suitor while you chose the best one at the appropriate time. don't let any guys take advantage of your naivety


na the thing I go tell my sister be that if I've one

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by donMIG(m): 2:26pm On May 07, 2020
Straight from the players book
My guess
He ain't gon b loyal
He gon b fun to b wit

Take the risk u might b d one to change him
Just like my babe wei I call dei apologize to yesterday change me
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by EjaikreTheViper(f): 2:26pm On May 07, 2020
things dey happen sha
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by BecomeALandLord(m): 2:26pm On May 07, 2020
Face your studies and stop this
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Stevyne: 2:27pm On May 07, 2020
gideonvalor98:

O fe je ise e ni...lol bad boy
Abi now..
No time
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Roon9(m): 2:28pm On May 07, 2020
She has never heard of Yoruba demon before grin
Keep smiling Auntee
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by LordShiva97(m): 2:29pm On May 07, 2020
90% of the advise on this thread are senseless, it seems like this forum is being overrun by immature teenagers undecided

OP, if you really fancy this dude, then request for his number first, girls shouldn't always be waiting for the guy to make the first move. Show subtle interest in him, make it clear that you like him, and watch his reaction. Some guys are just shy or plainly clueless when it comes to girls. Maybe he likes you or maybe he doesn't, and there's only one way to find out, if he responds, hit it from there, if he doesn't, then move on. Maybe he likes you too but doesn't know how to go about it. Show him signal that you like him but never be desperate about it or it won't end well.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by donifez(m): 2:30pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:


lol and the first thing on your mind is big gbola.

The truth is that he is shy.

Forget what they are telling you. I am like that.

He knows the feeling is mutual but don't know how to proceed, that was why he wanted to know the church you will attend. You can create an avenue to let him express his feelings. Let it not be daring, yet obvious.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ghettochild4u(m): 2:30pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Hes got a gf... And save ur likes n lust for someone else...
Cos guys no dey slack.. He would have asked for ur number..
But he didn't.. To show hes only attracted to u but not in love with u...
And he really likes u enough to not want to chop ur ponmo oo since he has no sincere interest..
Change ur bearing, carrying ur affection go front

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Roon9(m): 2:30pm On May 07, 2020
Skmoda360:

Should we tell her? grin

E no concern you na grin
Leave hear
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Blackicegold(m): 2:31pm On May 07, 2020
[quote author=emae009 post=88959610]it'll end in tears...



Chilled Premium lager tears
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by nonny400(m): 2:33pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Don't listen to everything you read here. Do you, the world will adjust. If you have to ask for his number, it's not bad. Just be careful and ensure you don't get heartbroken.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Fidelismaria: 2:34pm On May 07, 2020

what can I say

it has all been said









Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by oyewale0001(m): 2:36pm On May 07, 2020
Emmizay12:
This story looks like a guy wrote it,
I've had similar experience with girls who I catch them staring at me, they quickly hide their faces when we make eye contact,,na so I go just smile the look them, when e do me I go just stroll go collect number.... the thing the funny me sha becos no be say I fine sef.. I go just the wonder wetin the go through those their pretty heads







Dem dey imagine say na human being wowo like this. grin

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Numerouno94(m): 2:36pm On May 07, 2020
grin
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Goalnaldo(m): 2:37pm On May 07, 2020
Tumbulum:
story formulated by s nairaland mod to generate traffic. I'm out
Na their way cheesy
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Skmoda360(m): 2:37pm On May 07, 2020
Roon9:


E no concern you na grin
Leave hear
I don leave her already now grin

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by BREYZ: 2:37pm On May 07, 2020
This was exactly what I did to a girl about 2 years ago but today, we are just friends, i hardly ever chat her up, its more like once in three months.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by squad03: 2:38pm On May 07, 2020
Awwww...OP is lovestruck!
While I was in uni,there was this guy I had unspoken chemistry with.In lecture halls, we said a zillion things with our eyes only-was often awkward but I always looked forward to lectures just because of him.
This went on for 4 while years-i think we only spoke once at an event.
Fast forward to final year,I asked for his number from a course mate and sent him a message,he replied in less than a minute and that was it.
It was the first time I made a move on a guy but it was totally worth it.I've checked that off my bucket list.

See ehn,if you like him go for it,just have at the back of your mind that it could go smoothly or otherwise and be emotiinally prepared to handle the aftermath-good or bad.

P.S:if somebody is cooking for this guy, he's probably not naive with the ladies so don't fall for it if he tells you he doesn't know how to wear a condom because the thing that will burn you is if you get a STD after shooting your shot embarassed

kiss

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