HARDDON:

SENSE PILL
When you treat a lady like a celebrity, she would treat you like a fan!

HARDDON:


Could you take a deep breath, collect your thoughts and post this again? Couldn't make you out

Kelvin58:
My girlfriend usually upload pictures of some guys on her whatapp status and on Facebook story and be wishing them birthday... Should I be worried or is just a normal thing

Thanks for your response

Kelvin58:

Not actually but you know girls can pretend..... Just the way she is posting those guys picture sha

reader29:
I need help guys,
There's this gal I've been going out with for some months now, everything was going on smoothly and i was in control of the relationship not until i messed up. all of a sudden the gal that was all over me started giving me altitude and when i asked her what's going on, she said nothing, her altitude got worse and i decided to have a deep conversation with her, there she revealed how she went through my phone and saw a chat of me and my friend (kiss and tell thingy), so since then she's been withdrawing from me slowly. What i told my friend about her was actually bad..i apologized to her and begged for forgiveness, she claimed she forgave me but, things are no longer the same. I don't know how she flipped the switch. she's now in control of the relationship, i find myself apologizing all the time, it's obvious she has lost respect for me and she act as if she's not scared of loosing me..I know walking away is the best option right now, but I'm in love with her. I really want things to go back to how it was, like take control back and make her respect me again. You think it's possible or i should just take my big L and walk away?

HARDDON:
@CaveAdullam

You don't need to be a religious person to realise how big a liability and cheap vjay is.
Every true business man knows that assets bring money to your bank acounts while Liabilities ( like vJays) takes money, sperm, energy, clairvoyance and most preciously, time out of your life's accounts.


Lastly, I'd love to hear about those your logical conclusions.

HARDDON:


does she has Monopoly of madness and mind games?

Stop whining like a wimp and start updating your stats with pictures of hawter gurls than she is too as you shawer them praises.

Whether it's their birthday or not

HARDDON:


3 things alone can make a soft ones do this:

1. she wants to rub your ego on the dust of humiliation or wants to manipulate your emotions and play up her value in your eyes.

2. She doesn't want no guy to control what she does and doesn't do.

3. you are nothing but a side guy. or you are dating yourself. I can bet you that she is riding some of those guys and getting compensated.

She got your balls squarely.

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Ferrocene:
Weldone boss HARDDON and others, I decided to use this girl as a case study though I have no plans for her just to develop myself but I think I lost it then later I began to reason what I should have said.. How did I do and I need corrections

Kalatium:

You were concentrating on the humor too much

Trailblazer93:

Yea.. he was trying too hard... Whatever you want to do let it come natural.

Ferrocene:


Since it's not coming naturally I am trying to acquire it..
Please point my errors in the msg

Millennialaku:

my opinion: your conversation was boring although you had her interested at some point

there is one principle i apply when chattting with women, i reply based on how they reply me. if they reply short, i will do the same, if they reply lenghty i will do the same.

Burchester:
I had a confrontation with my GF yesterday. She told me she was womb problem that I should send her money to undergo the procedure herself. At first I rejected that until we are together, she rejected. I had to agreed with her to not keep arguing. Next morning I sent her text message of her doing it alone, she reply to hell. And was ignoring my call, she pick and was shouting on me. That I’m so inconsiderate, and told her I sent half of the money, she just hissed and said it wasn’t enough for here. Since no she haven’t call me back or text me and even switched off her phone.

Ferrocene:
Weldone boss HARDDON and others, I decided to use this girl as a case study though I have no plans for her just to develop myself but I think I lost it then later I began to reason what I should have said.. How did I do and I need corrections

Burchester:
I had a confrontation with my GF yesterday. She told me she was womb problem that I should send her money to undergo the procedure herself. At first I rejected that until we are together, she rejected. I had to agreed with her to not keep arguing. Next morning I sent her text message of her doing it alone, she reply to hell. And was ignoring my call, she pick and was shouting on me. That I’m so inconsiderate, and told her I sent half of the money, she just hissed and said it wasn’t enough for here. Since no she haven’t call me back or text me and even switched off her phone.

Zabiboy:


Wow....just wow...
Bro, one thing you should know is that it takes time to change someone's( both males and females) perspective about you and most times, it cannot be done by chatting..Face to Face does the trick faster.....
Now, i noticed that you and her do chat before and so she's alredi used to your boring chats..So, no matter how much humor you add, she already has a simp and boring view of you...

Whats my advice??...

When i mastered this whole stuff back then, i went through all my chats and marked those who i constantly had boring chats with and i stopped texting them. Why, because they already had a boring view of me in mind and what made it worse was that they are people i dont know when next we'll meet( most esp. the female's)...

So i refreshed my contacts, got new contacts and started practicing with people who had barely knew me before and it was a lot easier for me...

I advice you to do the same...

anytime any of the old contacts texts me, i also make sure i make my mark...But i dont push it too much so it wont look like i'm trying hard to impress..Most times, i even walk out of the chat anytime i like simply bcz I no longer give a fvck about what they still see me as...

I hope this helps..

GL

Harddon would talk more

Ferrocene:


Since it's not coming naturally I am trying to acquire it..

Please point my errors in the msg

Millennialaku:

my opinion: your conversation was boring although you had her interested at some point

there is one principle i apply when chattting with women, i reply based on how they reply me. if they reply short, i will do the same, if they reply lenghty i will do the same.

Ferrocene:


LOL not ditching I am just using her to learn besides she's just forming since she's a corper and Mann still dey school


And @ bolded you must be one hell of a bad guyy

Ihenzy:
Approach this lady before going for Siwes. This was the first lady am approaching since I came into the university. Though am not good with ladies I have feelings for. Am so calm around ladies but generally am bold and not shy when it comes to being in public but among ladies I have a big headache that I just feel a new me. I lack what to say, how to start conversion e.t.c. I called her on one fateful evening to meet with her. When we met I lost what to say, she was insisting I tell her my mind but I have to postponed to about 4hrs later. When I came back I still couldn't air my mind so I told her to come online. She requested for airtime because she don't have data. I bought it and transfer to her. She came online and boom I drop it. Her only reply was hmmmmmm but she's dating told her no problem as far as she the guy ain't her fiance. The next day I meet her and ask about the chat, the told me to take her reply on the chat as she can't double date. I just went about telling her to just create a space for me.
At that time she didn't even give me a chance or hope. She kept telling me she has a boyfriend and cannot double date. After then She even threatened to stop picking my calls at a point because I do call her often.

During my Siwes I kept calling her but though I never talk about the proposal again. We finally resume and got along with her. We do call and chat until she demanded for 600 airtime to offset her debt with airtel. She was also demanding I take her out for lunch which I pay deaf attention to anyway.

She even flash me with a new number one day only for her to say, she just wanted to say hi and remind me of her airtime.

I bought the airtime for her when I call her to come her first statement was if am not here with the airtime I shouldn't disturb her.
On new new she called but I missed the call, call her like 2day later, she said she only wanted to greet me.
Resumed and we got along, she was demanding for new year gift which I shun her. I called her oneday to ask about my proposal again and she still brought up her former reply.
Well it been long and I've already gotten over it but I still love her. Although we still meet and gist but I don't give her attention like before.
What are my mistakes to avoid in getting a dream girl.
Modified: I don't have sense of humor when am with a girl except when we are in class. Infact you will laugh and get tired but with girls na yawa ooo.
Mind you too the girl am talking about is in year 3 now whereas am in year 5
Cc HARDON
Trailblazer93
Ferrocene

Ferrocene:

;DAbove?? No with all the drills from HARDDON no but has hav said earlier I have no plans for her just using as a case study

Ihenzy:
Approach this lady before going for Siwes. This was the first lady am approaching since I came into the university. Though am not good with ladies I have feelings for. Am so calm around ladies but generally am bold and not shy when it comes to being in public but among ladies I have a big headache that I just feel a new me. I lack what to say, how to start conversion e.t.c. I called her on one fateful evening to meet with her. When we met I lost what to say, she was insisting I tell her my mind but I have to postponed to about 4hrs later. When I came back I still couldn't air my mind so I told her to come online. She requested for airtime because she don't have data. I bought it and transfer to her. She came online and boom I drop it. Her only reply was hmmmmmm but she's dating told her no problem as far as she the guy ain't her fiance. The next day I meet her and ask about the chat, the told me to take her reply on the chat as she can't double date. I just went about telling her to just create a space for me.
At that time she didn't even give me a chance or hope. She kept telling me she has a boyfriend and cannot double date. After then She even threatened to stop picking my calls at a point because I do call her often.

During my Siwes I kept calling her but though I never talk about the proposal again. We finally resume and got along with her. We do call and chat until she demanded for 600 airtime to offset her debt with airtel. She was also demanding I take her out for lunch which I pay deaf attention to anyway.

She even flash me with a new number one day only for her to say, she just wanted to say hi and remind me of her airtime.

I bought the airtime for her when I call her to come her first statement was if am not here with the airtime I shouldn't disturb her.
On new new she called but I missed the call, call her like 2day later, she said she only wanted to greet me.
Resumed and we got along, she was demanding for new year gift which I shun her. I called her oneday to ask about my proposal again and she still brought up her former reply.
Well it been long and I've already gotten over it but I still love her. Although we still meet and gist but I don't give her attention like before.
What are my mistakes to avoid in getting a dream girl.
Modified: I don't have sense of humor when am with a girl except when we are in class. Infact you will laugh and get tired but with girls na yawa ooo.
Mind you too the girl am talking about is in year 3 now whereas am in year 5
Cc HARDON
Trailblazer93
Ferrocene

Ihenzy:
Approach this lady before going for Siwes. This was the first lady am approaching since I came into the university. Though am not good with ladies I have feelings for. Am so calm around ladies but generally am bold and not shy when it comes to being in public but among ladies I have a big headache that I just feel a new me. I lack what to say, how to start conversion e.t.c. I called her on one fateful evening to meet with her. When we met I lost what to say, she was insisting I tell her my mind but I have to postponed to about 4hrs later. When I came back I still couldn't air my mind so I told her to come online. She requested for airtime because she don't have data. I bought it and transfer to her. She came online and boom I drop it. Her only reply was hmmmmmm but she's dating told her no problem as far as she the guy ain't her fiance. The next day I meet her and ask about the chat, the told me to take her reply on the chat as she can't double date. I just went about telling her to just create a space for me.
At that time she didn't even give me a chance or hope. She kept telling me she has a boyfriend and cannot double date. After then She even threatened to stop picking my calls at a point because I do call her often.

During my Siwes I kept calling her but though I never talk about the proposal again. We finally resume and got along with her. We do call and chat until she demanded for 600 airtime to offset her debt with airtel. She was also demanding I take her out for lunch which I pay deaf attention to anyway.

She even flash me with a new number one day only for her to say, she just wanted to say hi and remind me of her airtime.

I bought the airtime for her when I call her to come her first statement was if am not here with the airtime I shouldn't disturb her.
On new new she called but I missed the call, call her like 2day later, she said she only wanted to greet me.
Resumed and we got along, she was demanding for new year gift which I shun her. I called her oneday to ask about my proposal again and she still brought up her former reply.
Well it been long and I've already gotten over it but I still love her. Although we still meet and gist but I don't give her attention like before.
What are my mistakes to avoid in getting a dream girl.
Modified: I don't have sense of humor when am with a girl except when we are in class. Infact you will laugh and get tired but with girls na yawa ooo.
Mind you too the girl am talking about is in year 3 now whereas am in year 5
Cc HARDON
Trailblazer93
Ferrocene