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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by safarigirl(f): 9:22pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eberex:
The power of Exes ehn? Don't take it for granted.

The guy has her mumu button. You come second guy even if the guy no get money, ....

Dont kill yourself. Make sure you bang am so that when she eventually leave you for her ex, it won't hurt you.

Foolish talk.

So, once he bangs her, he will feel better? LOL. Someone he has been pining for all this time, he will just feel better because he has had sex with her.

Are men so empty that five minutes sex is sufficient for you to get over someone? You make it seem like they are beasts, animals without emotions.

I don't believe sex is enough for some men. He invested his time and emotions into this girl, she isn't a fling, this is a relationship, and sex will not magically stop the hurt he will feel if she leaves him.

There is more to life than a wet Womanliness.

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by lilyheaven: 9:22pm On Apr 30, 2020
The ex is a destiny destroyer, he will manipulate her heart to leave you, meanwhile he is not even ready for her.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by MrSly(m): 9:22pm On Apr 30, 2020
Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?
begin to learn how to do away with her. She isn't yours anymore. New car? And probably you have no car. Lol! At least go with your self dignity and that is the only thing that can make her come back after some few digging by her so called ex
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by beeniemccoy: 9:23pm On Apr 30, 2020
Zito95:
Tell her to tell the Ex that she has somebody, make sure your future is bright and make money!

Zito.com.ng
This stuff no go work. The dude seems to be in his second year in school. A lot of doubts still hang over your future. And her ex wey she allow open her eyes don hammer.... You sef reason am na. My advice to you is simple. Focus on your future. Don't allow this put a strain on your education. Many will come before you find the one. To be frank... Just prepare yourself for heartbreak.

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Mreazi121(m): 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
Don't panic yet, what if the ex borrowed the car just to entice her and win her back.. just stay cool, observe but make sure you Bleep her very well from now on and also show her how much you love her, she might just Bleep the ex for money or other things, but if she's a reasonable girl she won't break up with you.
But if she does break up with you, I bet you she will come back when the show off is over
But if she doesn't ,dont take it too hard, life goes on, you can start looking for a replacement now, there are many swt pussy out there...
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Apination(m): 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
hideraoluwa:
She’s gone bro wink
Give him some hope at least small grin

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Poorboy41: 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
But why?
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by enemyofprogress: 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
Small boys everywhere. Pussssies are not meant for cowards.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Shafiiimran99: 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
You are a criminal. Despite the fact that you knew she has a boyfriend still, you want her. Well some evil people like you will advance on what to do
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by humilitypays(m): 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
hideraoluwa:
She’s gone bro wink
I so much love ladies eh, no long talk, straight to the point, op you hear what her sisters just told you ba, consider it done grin

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Trulydude(m): 9:26pm On Apr 30, 2020
GUY FORGET THIS GIRL, SHE IS BEYOND UR CAPACITY. NO VEX FOR MY COMMENT OO, NA TRUE I TALK
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Gordson: 9:27pm On Apr 30, 2020
i even think say the ex came visiting you with cutlass

Mtchewww
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Nobody: 9:27pm On Apr 30, 2020
Its a lost battle. Forgerrit. She never loved you but only used you to pass time plus she didn't enter into the relationship with a clear mind. Forget about this relationship and just watch her naturally connect back to her love.

Never force a girl that just suffered a fresh heartbreak into relationship. Allow her to heal.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by freesoul12: 9:27pm On Apr 30, 2020
Papertrails:


Guy I swear I haven't been myself 4 days now.....what pains me more is that when he broke up with her I battled with her for five months to help her overcome it and now what do I get?......

Sure,that's their nature.. Girls normally find it difficult to move on ..If you want the girl ..move on.Don't be hard on her..Her ex understand d game. .Just focus on something that can add value. The best way to win girls is by not being emotional. They are attracted to guys with that nature .Up your game
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by seanjy4konji: 9:28pm On Apr 30, 2020
Young guns...

You better go and face hustle and study well get good grades and god willing you receive favor and make it big..you can't fight a rich man..he is already knacking her again self..

Let her go and face hustle..you still have time boy..even though that pussy is tight do not jeopardize your life..

GBA fun oga eee.

Money makes women spread legs faster and wider than London bridge and it has no meter.plenty girls deh around.

PS..make I clearnyou,she only spread her Toto for you to clear konji.na DAT boy he deh resin as u deh dig am..okafor,once de be. Always deh be you deh here deh form love.ogbeni u better be having free pussay
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Goldin321(m): 9:29pm On Apr 30, 2020
I luv this commandment!
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by humilitypays(m): 9:29pm On Apr 30, 2020
safarigirl:


Foolish talk.

So, once he bangs her, he will feel better? LOL. Someone he has been pining for all this time, he will just feel better because he has had sex with her.

Are men so empty that five minutes sex is sufficient for you to get over someone? You make it seem like they are beasts, animals without emotions.

I don't believe sex is enough for some men. He invested his time and emotions into this girl, she isn't a fling, this is a relationship, and sex will not magically stop the hurt he will feel if she leaves him.

There is more to life than a wet Womanliness.
oh you don't know that majority of men don't care about loosing any lady, it only hurts them if they didn't bang the lady, u aren't aware


Men hardly love, I mean hardly....most men don't have love, they just profess it for the sake of saying it, deep down their hearts they don't even know what they are saying....forget the money he spends on u, to men, that's how to show care.....they can be spending on several ladies.....the only thing that makes a man feel good when a lady leaves him is if he banged her enough, with that, he will feel okay and not feel cheated or dumped. What hurts a man most is when he is dating a girl, spends on her and he couldn't bang her and the relationship ends, no matter what he will always feel hurt, but once he was able to bed her, it doesn't matter to him how much he spent on her, that is men for you.


That's how men are wired

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by KoolBigk(m): 9:30pm On Apr 30, 2020
Your insecurity is the problem here. Why bother yourself about your gf ex(es) ? Just put yourself together & do you, up your game and/or more stuff to make her loyal the more....

Depends on how she sees you, there're chances of the ex straffing her again but she may decides not to let that happen.

You the sayings : once "debe" is will always "debe"
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by SAYEDADAMADAMS(m): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2020
Experience is the best teacher. I advice u to let go if only ur future is important to u than the gal in question. There are better ones out there. Be a wise man and look for trouble not. Tnx
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by EXLOVER(m): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2020
mimimile93:
Loan money and buy yourself a G5 airplane. That way, she won't go back excpt the ex buys yatch. If he buys yatch. Buy airbus A308. Always be ontop
Op should take this advice, this is the best advice ever. Gosh you too get sense abeg, before you die abeg auction your sense, cause you can't carry it to the grace, we need it. Chai.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Mydazz(m): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2020
Just as your topic says,.....You ain't the only one who thinks she's sweet afterall,...... And as for loyalty, now is the time to find out who she's loyal too.
Do nothing, be yourself!!!
Let's see where the pendulum swings
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by ityP(m): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2020
Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?


You've lost her bro. Remember Okafor's law. Accept reality and be in search for a new babe
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Dirpetaner: 9:32pm On Apr 30, 2020
Going by ur story u er in 200l now and her ex has a car. Lol. Shift first lemme talk to the gal. Sweetheart dump dis mugu. U have successfully used him to whirl away time. His future is uncertain babe japaa.

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Yakenn(m): 9:32pm On Apr 30, 2020
Kezim:


Always have this at the back of your mind

Once there ,always there
If you know ,you know ; smiley
As in old road na old road grin

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Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Paan(m): 9:33pm On Apr 30, 2020
Oga you no fit do anything!!! Go hustle.money speak bull shit walks
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Apination(m): 9:34pm On Apr 30, 2020
Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?
Start Fvcking your last rounds now because it's obvious she wants to return, if not she for Don cut communication with am since.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Papertrails(m): 9:34pm On Apr 30, 2020
freesoul12:


Sure,that's their nature.. Girls normally find it difficult to move on ..If you want the girl ..move on.Don't be hard on her..Her ex understand d game. .Just focus on something that can add value. The best way to win girls is by not being emotional. They are attracted to guys with that nature .Up your game
True, am not really emotional cos am a kind of guy that has trained his mind to accept anything at anytime so trust me I moved already though silently.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by oodua1stson: 9:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Free the babe
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by tomzyELNINO: 9:37pm On Apr 30, 2020
From your story, you are still in 200L.

My Advice, FACE YOUR BOOK, LEARN A BUSINESS, MAKE MONEY!!!

You're too small to be having headache about a girl when you never get any clear path to money/career.

Girls are usually choosy at undergraduate level. This is because they keep meeting several guys every day, guys better and richer than you.
So stop having headache on any girl that is still an undergraduate if u no wan get hypertension.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by ityP(m): 9:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
DrEbubeagunaech:
I just don't know what is wrong with these our men. We will keep on making that same mistake. There,s nothing people like ILEGEND has not done to show u nice guys the way,yet u abuse him and I think he has now focused on only serious ones . I also read one of this guy,s(DPSYCHOLOGISTor whatever)work, where made a comparative analysis of the Jew men(aka nice guys and the alpha male. As a psychologist i no this guys are preaching the true gospel. That guy simplified and microminiaturized his work that it cld be well understood by even a block head. . Its only Jew men(nice guys) that are used and dumped like this. Being a bad guy or alpha male doesn't mean u become stupid and ruthless to women. Most times the alpha males are very caring but they must make sure u,ll be appreciative of whatever they do for u. ....I don't even have d strength.... BUT I ADVICE U,FIND A WAY AND PM, ME, I BET U IN MY HONOUR AS A TRAINED HUMAN PSYCHOLOGIST.,I WILL GIVE U SECRET PIN CODES U WILL USE TO ACTIVATE HER MUMU BUTTON. AND I BET U,U MUST COME BACK HERE BY THIS TIME NEXT WEEK FOR TESTIMONY. IF THE EX LIKE,LET HIM BE FEMI OTEDOLA, I DON CARE....JUST FIND A WAY AND REACH ME. ENOUGH IS ENOUUGHHHH


You're clearly deceiving yourself. That babe has ONLY one mumu button: HER EX
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by BOBELIEVE: 9:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
U can't stop her from going back to her ex, she is already with the ex,: forget the "there is nothing attached" thing.

Just concentrate on making yourself a better you.
Re: She Is Sweet And Loyal But Her Ex Is The Biggest Threat. by Ybaby: 9:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
Megatone:
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Study

Work hard

Make money

More money

I agree!

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