QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

Chairman Go make money's

Sterope:
Women of back then did not care about their sexual health. They are not in the best position to advice a woman on when she should wait. We have medical doctors for that. Anyone in doubt should consult a gynaecologist. Most online articles recommend a month upwards but then body type and birth complications differ. Women are having bigger babies too. There are many factors that would determine when a woman would be ready for sex.

A mother should do what it is best for her sexual and mental health. Her husband should support her, that child is not going to bear her surname.

What does surname have to do with anything here?



The mum should do what's best based on the circumstances and communicate with the hubby (who btw should be understanding)
That's about it

Six weeks.

The blame always goes to the woman as if that child is hers and hers alone. Look at the nonsense beliefs others have expressed over 6 months. No one asked why it would take six months, what could have happened etc.

DexterousOne:


What does surname have to do with anything here?



The mum should do what's best based on the circumstances and communicate with the hubby (who btw should be understanding)
That's about it

Sterope:

The blame always goes to the woman as if that child is hers and hers alone. Look at the nonsense beliefs others have expressed over 6 months. No one asked why it would take six months, what could have happened etc.

Well
Blaming women in that manner is unfair


However

She has to communicate with hubby

Communication is not the problem. Culture and expectations are the culprits.

DexterousOne:


Well
Blaming women in that manner is unfair


However

She has to communicate with hubby

QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

Guy abeg.... Allow her to heal up, don't be inhumane please. Whenever she's ready is when she's ready.

mandate12:


BTW, what do u mean by ''... I'm a telecom engineer, *a rigger* ..'' ? Really need to understand who u r and what u want. Thanks

A rigger is a skilled tradesperson who specializes in the assistance of manual mechanical advantage device comprising pulley, block and tackle or motorised such as a crane or derrick or chain hoists (chain fall) or capstan winch.
But my own is a telecom Rigger I work on the Masts

What I want, I'm really in need of financial assistance to sustain myself for a few days before I'll get paid
Thanks in advance sir

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Then, your fathers had more than one wife

Interesting

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

I am not women, let listen to thier explanation!

missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

husbsnds don't need it to be tight

Phenomenal16:
After 6 weeks puerperium.....u can start if it was a normal delivery

hope you can start nacking after six weeks

zeuss:


up to the parties involved.....if the woman feels like and the man doe not mind the flows following childbirth it can be happen 1 minute after child birth not Cesarean birth

1 minute after child birth, it seems you like swimming in excess impure liquid

QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

. Why not Google it.

missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

Young lady!
I think with the level and years of your experience in the field.. I'm pleased to announce to you that you now have the job.

Congratulations!

Cmon!

Na joke o. . But I agree wit you in toto!

Depending on the size of daddy's Mr. P












Na joke oo..

OP,
Do you know that the pussy is traumatized during child birth? After birth woman no dey fear dick anymore. If you like mount her soon as baby clock 24hrs old, na you go tire because the lips still slack and is numb.

If no be say mods go ban me i for load brand new pussy after birth for you to see.

Sterope:
Some of you are just crazy. You have a mother, go and ask what women go through. Ask her about vaginal tear during childbirth and post partum depression.

I usually just ignore, but somehow I just felt kind of obligated to let you know that there's nothing fulfilling about using insults to pass your message across.

yvelchstores:
[s][/s] with all due respect this makes no sense.

That one na still jjc.

BabaRamota1980:
OP,
Do you know that the pussy is traumatized during child birth? After birth woman no dey fear dick anymore. If you like mount her soon as baby clock 24hrs old, na you go tire because the lips still slack and is numb.

If no be say mods go ban me i for load brand new pussy after birth for you to see.

Baba o�

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

And what will the man be doing within the 6 months or 1 year,,?
Doing soappy

Up to 6 month.wanna teach just 20 pple how they can make persive income online.
Check my signature for my WhatsApp.

No specific time but once the blood stop probably 40days after the birth , if and only if the woman's body is strong and she has libido for it. But I will advice to give space more than 40 days , I have once gave a space of almost a year heaven didn't fall.


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akaahs:

U said ur mother taught you, did you care to hear ur father side of it? How did he managed to stay for that long period if is true ur mum stayed for that period?

She will clearly avoid that or come up with the "he was patient" crap.

Which man will stay 1 year without sex? She'll probably avoid the fact or maybe her mother did not tell her that her father had concubines or even married an extra wife.

After her 6 weeks check up is fine

You mean when to dig?

1stola:

Then you're the most unreasonable person on Nairaland I have ever come across.

I wonder if you people think with your brain some times...

How can you expect a sexually active man to stay without sex for 6 to 12 months?

What kind of unreasonable selfishness is that?
And if such man cheats now, you will start crying fire...

Rubbish

It’s probably the only time you can masturbate without sinning. Yes for 6 month while your wife heals completely.

Mehnnnnn.,.

Women and sex are 5 and 6
But they pretend as if they 7 and 9.

Ishilove:
Ouch.

Ishilove:
Ouch.