Most female genital organs return to normal within 6weeks of childbirth. However, sexual intercourse should be resumed when the woman is psychologically and physically ready/fit for it.

Zoie:

Do they know that one? Small thing and they're looking for means to chook eye outside. Selfish humans.

Even if you give them, they'll still cheat. Sex doesn't keep a man. So, its better you take care of your health and be medically fit again before going into any vigorous exercise.

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Yea, there was more than a wife available during "Their Time" I guess

6 months after child birth

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Shes not asking how long before another pregnancy... she said how long b4 sex!!

Moji12:
It depends on the time you gave birth....
If it is in the morning you can do in the afternoon
If it is in the afternoon you can do the do in the evening n if in the evening you wait till the next morning . Urgent answer and solution.

Oh my dear it is Ramadan or else I would have bought you Star Radler,But let me buy you I bowl of Fura da nono instead.

therajah:

Shes not asking how long before another pregnancy... she said how long b4 sex!!

And... Where did you see me mention child spacing? Please you guys suit yourselves. Make your contributions and leave my comment.

It shows the husband doesn't accompany her to the antenatal clinic. He should have benefited from the counseling/teaching on family planning/child spacing during the antenatal clinic. Men should learn to accompany their wives to antenatal clinic during pregnancy. It helps a lot.

Ndipe:
Ask your Gynecologist not Nairaland.

Who is a Gynecologist?
Reply:A Ghanian Doctor

olabrinks:
she doesn’t know what she’s talking about please. She’s spreading false information on Nl, people will read her comment and will feel it’s necessary to wait one year after birth to have sex, all to remain ‘tight’. It’s a bunch of lies. It all depends on your genetics, your age and how much you tore during delivery. Do your kegels and sits bath, by 6 weeks you are medically and physically okay to resume sex and any healthy vagina should regain its normality. If you have to wait one year just to be normal, then maybe your vagina needs medical attention.

I totally agree with you.

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol

what other ways o, kindly advise

Same time it takes lower animals to be ready for sex and we as an higher animal should do better than the lower animals...

Ok.

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa. Please can somebody advise this uncivil fellow to stop getting herself worked up over a harmless opinion I made since morning and almost forgot I did? Like seriously, what's the hullabaloo all about?

Look, the last time I checked, opinions are like behinds and every body's got one.
If its for the likes you're clamoring, sorry you're ain't getting any with the way you're going about it.

Be civil.
Peace.

Are you a Doctor?

If you are,I'm highly disappointed in your earlier comment

If you aren't,then according to the Nigerian constitution,You have the freedom to err ur views and speak out even if it is complete nonsense or garbage or trash.

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa. Please can somebody advise this uncivil fellow to stop getting herself worked up over a harmless opinion I made since morning and almost forgot I did? Like seriously, what's the hullabaloo all about?

Look, the last time I checked, opinions are like behinds and every body's got one.
If its for the likes you're clamoring, sorry you're ain't getting any with the way you're going about it.

Be civil.
Peace.

Are you a Doctor?

If you are,I'm highly disappointed in your earlier comment

If you aren't,then according to the Nigerian constitution,You have the freedom to err your views and speak out even if it is complete nonsense or garbage or trash.

I am guessing it depends on the woman in question whenever she is ready to submit her vagina for penetration again.

Buy him a flashlight.

that same day but u go swim so no need

jaxxy:

So? Surgery won't heal?

I'm saying the CS has little to do with when the woman can resume sex. Surgical wound would have healed even before the six weeks max recommended.

It does, just ask around you will get.

HarunaWest:

I don't think it ever gets tight again

Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.

are u married? i kno dat wen u get married, u'll kno beta.

olabrinks:
Darling why I’m triggered is because some women after reading your post may start unnecessarily abstaining from sex because they believe your comment is factual. [/b]If you’re going to state your silly opinions on this thread, please make it very clear that it is your opinion,[b] because from the looks of it, you’re typing as if you’re a medical professional who knows what they’re talking about. You probably just made all of that up in your head.

Gbayii...

6 hours

On the advice of my doctor, I refuse to comment.
However, I'd leave that decision to my partner.
I owe her greatly for the birthing of our son, Ezra.

the above would be my opinion in no distant time.

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Lmao ��� �� �� �� ��.... Basically my mom told me she has never stayed up to three weeks ... Her vagina was and is still very tight so please let's hear word abeg...


The walls of the vagina goes back to normal after delivery and only those with toothpick complain of wide p***y

One year fire
If I stay one month let me know why

ednut1:
reasons why i feel monogamy is silly. In this days of sex raging men. The man should self-service for a year or meet side chicks

Communication and understanding is key to solve this


Besides.

Must you PENETRATE to "cure yourself"

There are other creative ways of having fun with madam

Anyways to each his own

Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.

Precisely my point

8 weeks is standard, as you have to let all the lochia go away. Your body needs to heal after some stressful wear and tear. But you could have sex as soon as you feel better and no longer bleeding.