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Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

You are lucky you realised your mistakes and seek to make amends.

This is the second time I'm hearing such inhumane act. The first was my bosom friend who is now abroad. His father was a chronic womaniser and exhibits the act regardless of his wife and children's feelings. He thought the world was his and continued wallowing in the wilderness of pussy.

Now my friends and his 3 brothers are all doing well for themselves and have turned to look after their mother leaving the father to die for his self-inflicted predicaments. They all stay in Europe and the eldest has invited their mum to stay with them.

Their father should probably be sick now. The last time I spoke with my friend, he mentioned that him and his brothers are waiting for the day he will give up the ghost so that they will perform the funeral rites and bid him farewell.

Back to you oga, you realised your mistake quite on time. Seek now to impress your family and turn a new leaf. From your story, your wife is one of the most virtuous woman out there. With your incessant abuses on her, she maintained her cool. That woman is a treasure. Seek also to marry God and His Words and be prayerful. There is so much to be done to get your family back which all requires God's grace. In all steps you take to have your family back, please be patient.


Best wishes
Shancca Onyeoma

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

cock and puss.y story..next please

Can a man do all this to his wife without being Bewitched?
I think you were bewitch by your side chick.
Because this can't be ordinary.
Please give me the side chick contact so she can show me the BABA that prepared the charm for her.
You seriously need spiritual cleansing.

Saao:
exactly, my pain is not the side chick, but the wickedness to the poor lady. humiliated her like rags. the trash he wrote provoked me. how can you humiliate your fellow human like that until the irresponsible dumped him. he's wicked and he really need God.

Exactly.

God please don't punish me with this kind of useless horseband.

obibob2020:
Can a man do all this to his wife without being Bewitched?
I think you were bewitch by your side chick.
Because this can't be ordinary.
Please give me the side chick contact so she can show me the BABA that prepared the charm for her.

Bewitched ke, Nigga admitted he was in his senses, any individual under such powers has no consent of what he's doing

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

She used you and dump you when she was tired. I think you were charmed and you should be happy she released you on time, what if she released you when you have finish spending your pension money? Life will have been miserable for you though it almost same now, but you still have time to be happy.
Call a family meeting, don't tell them why, invite them all to your house kneel down in present of all and ask her to forgive you. So doing she will understand you accepted your wrong doing but you will give her a long time to heal while trying your best to please her

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

in summary, you are a useless soul and you want to repent when it is too late, you never love your wife and you will never love her no matter what! You only want to win her back because side chick cut your neck, so if you get another side chick you love, you will still treat her bad, my only advice to your wife ,let her buy poison rat and do the needful for you. Haba you are very wicked worse than boko Haram

I am a proponent of marriage without side chicks.

Oga there are three things involve here.

1. U may have realised ur mistakes after realising that money no longer flows or,

2. Age has indeed sets in and or,

3. The juju they used on u has finally disappeared.

My advice is:
U need to call ur entire family members including her family to apologised to them all for the way and manner u have treated this wonderful woman,I mean this true African mother ur wife.

Oga,u need to resettle ur wife abundantly except of course u are broke now,cos many men usually come back to their senses only when the cash runs dry my uncle was an example.

U need to apologise to ur children,in fact u have indeed rubbed them of their fatherhood and fatherly responsibilities.

And lastly,u need to ask God for forgiveness and start on a clean slate.
Note: don't be angry with me cos I am still thinking how u were able to do all this and still got away without ur wife poisoning u or planning evil for u.

LUCKY U!

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

you have not confess anything here, confessing in a faceless forum is useless. Go and confess in the church and find peace.

no vex oo bro but you"madt"gaan oo..inshort vex all you like...

All dis because of some goddam punany wey you no later fit win laslas..now you turn"ARCHENEMY" to ur own"BLOODS"...

Wat you call ursef Alpha or Beta...
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piece of advice..win ur wife love back and never make her angry again,cos if u boil her anger to the extreme and she curse you...bro you on a looooong tin..


Such a wonderful woman...

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Ibechris2:
I am a proponent of marriage without side chicks.

Oga there are three things involve here.
1. U may have realised ur mistakes after realising that money no longer flows.

2. Age has indeed sets in and

3. The juju they used on u has finally disappeared.

My advice is:
U need to call ur entire family members including her family to apologised to them all for the way and manner u have treated this wonderful woman,I mean this true African mother ur wife.

Oga,u need to resettle ur wife abundantly except of course u are broke now,cos many men usually come back to their senses only when the cash runs dry my uncle was an example.

U need to apologise to ur children,in fact u have indeed rubbed them of their fatherhood and fatherly responsibilities.

And lastly,u need to ask God for forgiveness and start on a clean slate.
Note: don't be angry with me cos I am still thinking how u were able to do all this and still got away without ur wife poisoning u or planning evil for u.

LUCKY U!

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

word

This is the moment were you wish slapping someone via the internet is possible. Aswear, I would have slapped op blue and black. This is the devil in human form.

I pray your wife poison you, or better stab you in your sleep. If that is not possible, I pray you die a lonely and shameful death.

Your children will disown you, and you'll worth nothing in the eyes of people. Mumu man. As old are you are, you're allowing your third leg think for you.. What then will you teach your children?

Please give me your address.. I seriously want to deal with you.

Evil man. I spit on your grave!

Smhaykins:
When she z asleep, bring out ur tongue n start sucking her pussy... Den she will realize ow much u value n cherish her...from der u discuss every other thing n forgive each other

What is this ediot saying?

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Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

THANK GOD U HV COME TO UR WIT'S END. RETURN TO UR WIFE. SEEK HER AUDIENCE IN HER ROOM, KNEEL B4 HER ALONE AND SEEK FORGIVENESS. BUT B4 HERS, SEEK FORGIVENESS B4 GOD ALMIGHTY. U HAVE MESSED UP BIG AND LONG TIME BUT GOD WILL SURELY FORGIVE A PERNITENT HEART. AFTER U ARE THRO WITH UR WIFE, TOGETHER MEET WITH D CHILDREN AND SEEK THEIR PARDON TOO. THEN HENCEFORTH, BUILD BACK D LOVE AND HARMONY IN D HOME U FOOLISHLY AND SELFISHLY DESTROYED. BUILD THAT WOMAN BACK TO STARDOM, SHE WILL RECOVER HER BEAUTY & YOUTHFULNESS TO EVERYONE'S SURPRISE. GOD HELP U TO FOLLOW D MASTER'S PLEADINGS. TRUE REPENTANCE BRINGS FORGIVENESS.

Irebamie:
God please don't punish me with this kind of useless horseband.

na horseband you go marry las las

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Is Nairaland now a counselling site?

Best time for your wife to leave you, if she forgives you, she is mad.

Marshal9:
Bewitched ke, Nigga admitted he was in his senses, any individual under such powers has no consent of what he's doing

What else do you want me to say. I'm surprise why a normal human being could such to his wife.

Simply be the fool you was when u was dating.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Talk to your pastor if you feel he can help you.
Since you want a new leaf, church is a good ground to turn

bukatyne:
Nope, he needs to win the kids back too individually before attempting a family reunion.

He failed them also. From his post, he didn't care about them either.

Imagine collecting the keys to your wife shop and handing it over to your side chick

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

When you’re not feeling emotional again you’ll go back to your real self and look for another side chick. You don’t like your wife, you pity her. She has lived without you for years. What makes you think she needs you now?

Leave the house for them.
You are shame to all men.
My annoyance is the fact that you realised your mistake when your sidechick left.
Divorce her and make her a free woman,hopefully she will find love again.
She has the right to be loved and happy.
Dammit!!!
Now for that sidechick.
This is for you: Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned. You will see hell.

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Yea some women can endure.they believe there's light at the end of the turnel.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

It pains me a lot when men do this to their wives. A woman plays one of the strongest role in this world but a lot of men pretend not to know this. Your wife satisfied your sexual needs before you started raising kids , there were no distractions and stress but the moment a woman puts to birth she struggles to put a lot of things together including herself ranging from
- 24/7 care for the child
- post partum depression
- pains and sometimes scars from delivery
- gaining excess weight beyond their control and lose their initial perfect shape
- cooking and cleaning
- satisfying her husband sexual needs
- praying for the family against spiritual attacks etc
A lot of women can’t cope, sometimes they nag cos it’s pressurizing doing all these things and instead of men talking , trying to help or even stay put during these times , what they do is run over to side chicks . They now add “disrespect and total neglect “ from their side to the list of their wives trouble and sometimes the woman turn out to look old and worn out.
It pains me cos you don’t deserve forgiveness, you even disrespected your wife and brought in your side chick to your home and she equally disrespected your wife. Even if you beg her and she forgives you, every tears that she shed over the ill treatment that you gave her will cost you pain. They call it Karma

You don't come to NL to ask for advise if to have sidechicks now you are here for advise to win your family love. Well you've realised your mistakes, you also failed as a husband and as father all because of sidechick. Wake her up in the middle of the night and ask for forgiveness if possible cry out your pains. I pray she forgive you and change for good.

You did the right time going for the side chick but ur mistake was being a MUGU for her and giving her money.

Wrong move. No woman deserves ur hard earned money.
Spend it on your children.

Just move on and get another great side chick. Never beg any woman in ur life. It's condescending.