Richy4:
One of those Corona Virus stories...

you speak freely with your Girlfriend in your wife's presence, your wife did not talk..

After opening a shop for your lover , u still collected your wife's shop keys and gave it to your lover for her birthday, yet she didn't talk..

Hmmmm!!! is this the part two of War Room?

My dear all those thing he narrated happened to my aunt . In fact he(useless husband) even punished her by asking her to kneel down and raise up her hands.

I hate people that does evil with impunity.How the hell?

See the side chick's thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5828816/story-man-neglected-family-train

this is super story.

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

This story is real. There are women that are wired that way.

You should go to your wife and children, don't listen to self and be waiting.
Your wife has forgiven you long before now. So be bold and go back to her.
The reason she has not live all this time is because she Love's you.
Count yourself favoured to have her as a wife because wife are few.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

He prolly may go back to his vomit if the side piece comes back to him or if another suffices. This is not true repentance.

op you are damn wicked man, karma is a bitch whether you like it or not. Whatever you sow so shall you reap. Tueh

You don't deserve your wife's forgiveness. You're too much of a fool. Why marry her when you're not ready to settle? You even beat her.. you're really just a big idiot. You don't deserve that lady you call a wife. You should be alone for the rest of your life

olabrinks:
When I see what some women go through in the name of being a wife, I thank God for my life. God forbid bad thing.

The only reason why you’re going back to your wife is because your side chick has failed you. You are a disgrace please. Your wife will have the last laugh in Jesus name. God will heal her wounds and place her above all her enemies.

Yes, she may forgive you, but you must definitely face the consequences for your actions.

He need to face the consequences of his action....the man fvcked up big time....God forbid I can't take this shit from any woman....he doesn't even worth being forgiven sef

OdenKelechi:
You don't deserve your wife's forgiveness. You're too much of a fool. Why marry her when you're not ready to settle? You even beat her.. you're really just a big idiot. You don't deserve that lady you call a wife. You should be alone for the rest of your life

God bless you brother...

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

Exactly... If he wasn't gilted by the side chick he'd still be doing his wife anyhow

Usorohtheman:


No doubt he did very bad. But on realising himself in one way or the other, don't he have a second chance?

Fvck second chance ...that old bros doesn't worth it....

Donald3d:



What if your family also feels tired of fighting for you ?

Anyway, its going to be hard.
No amount of advice would help you.
I wanted to type a long epistle, but it can be summarized thus : show them love

Just show them love, genuine love and stop womanizing .
Sit down, think and learn to genuinely value what you have.
If you don't enjoy the way your wife has sex with you, communicate and tell her what you want.
Ask God for forgiveness too, because you've messed up big time.
Also go to the hospital for STD tests, don't add STD to the list of troubles you have given that woman.

Just in case you don't know, one of the best way to become unfortunate in life, is treating a good spouse bad..
Please be good, kind and show love

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This is super story.

Goddamn....

BASED ON YOUR STORY, I'M DISSATISFIED WITH YOU

Are you sure this isn't Nollywood, then your wife is called the "VIRTUOUS WOMAN"...

No apologies, you're insane and you don't deserve that family, you're evil man

Skmoda360:
Fvck second chance ...that old bros doesn't worth it....

So wetin d Bros supposed do now? Make he kill himself?

You have to get born again and beg your wife with everything within you for the next one year.

In fact, the life you have now is not yours again, but your wife's.

If she see the godly changes in you for an extended period of time, she may start opening up very gradually.

But it would take the grace of God.

But still he need a second chance,That is why he is here explaining for us to give him a good advise.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

I disagree. I know people who have seen worse things and are still in that marriage. He dated only one lady, I know a lady whose husband currently impregnated 3 married women and they are all going to have the babies. And he is so careless that he leaves all the whatsapp conversation evidence with pics/videos. The woman is so afraid that she can't even speak out. She only consoles herself with the fact that he pays all her bills. No sex for over 2 years and each of the girlfriends are aware

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Get ready your kids are going to payback . Repent from your heart

OdenKelechi:

Exactly... If he wasn't gilted by the side chick he'd still be doing his wife anyhow

That's the problem.

He is not remorseful enough to take the kind of hard steps that would make his wife forgive him.

First of all. Repent. Ask God for Mercy.
Call a family meeting. Both families.
Apologize to them all.
Kneel down and beg your wife in presence of everyone. People will join you. She will forgive you.
Apologize to your children too.
Still on your knees. Beg your wife and kids to pray for you, from their heart of hearts. God will answer.
And bless you. You will be rich again. But this time around.
'GET SENSE' WISE. Amend all your mistake s.
Good luck Oga.

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He who found a good wife, found a good thing, or lemme say found everything sef!!! Aswear that woman is an angel, and u are nothing but a chronic devil!

To say the fact, no woman can forgive this kind man aswear. You're a disgrace to manhood ogbeni. So thrashed your wife on top 1 punna that even sidelined you

My blood is hot right now Oloun, feel like choking u right now...

Well the truth is, nemesis hasn't catch up with you yet and you can't escape it even if your wife claims she forgives you wholeheartedly, you will still surfer d punishment. No be curse o, na karma.


You need to find favor with God first, and go on your kneels every now and then, beg your wife and your kids, make up your heart to be a father henceforth...

And if you're lucky, you might have them back. Mind you IF!!!!

GOODLUCK BRO

Dear, weather your story is true or not, in all you went too far because of a stranger.
Thank God you said that you have realized your mistakes and is ready for a change. Traditionally it could be said you were bewitched, religiously you were possessed, socially you are proud and see you wife as not your match and befitting. To some you were either wicked, fool, careless, weak or anything else. Thank God you have come to your senses.
What you should do is this.
Start showing care to your children first and wife too seriously now.
If you show care to your wife first, she may misunderstand you.
Show care to your children, pet them, play with them, chat with them joke with them, make them feel you.
As you are doing this, you are bringing your wife very close to you, extend such care immediately to your wife.
They will not respond immediately, it will be gradual.
God buy clothes and tell them you want to have family uniform. You talk as someone that is well to do.
The clothes can be two of three different types. Have a family photograph and put the enlargement in your sitting room
Take you wife picture as your screen saver, and even put her full picture (enlarged picture) at your bedroom where you can see her all the time.
Gradually, her anger will be melting down.
Have a very private meeting with her where you will narrate all you did to her yourself, don't let her tell the story, tell it yourself. Tell her you remember you did all these to her. There and then apologize to her, if you can cry, cry. If you can't show deep remorse for your action and promise not to do such again. The promise must not be political.
Next thing you do is to take the whole family out. You can take them to a hotel for a weekend and make them feel loved.
Make it a decision to visit your friends and relatives regularly with your wife. You will do this just to tell her that you have given her back her position in your life. Try and ensure that she eat with you whenever she serve you. In the middle of the meal, feed her especially if you are eating with spoon.
As things unfolds, take shower with her and in the process, bath her.
Try as much not to make her remember the sad past for a year and you will win her back.
She has shown you maturity, submissiveness and understanding, you owe her love, protection and care.
With this you will win her back. She will be the one giving testimony of what God did for her.
Take care

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

This is quite pathetic.

Your wife loves you so much.

The truth is that she would have taken you serious if the girl was not pregnant for another man.

Keep on doing the right thing at home. Your church can be of help.

Get her closest sibling and use that to convince her.

Gift of a man makes ways for him. Give her a lot of gifts. Teach her how to drive if she doesn't, then give her a car if you can afford one.

Leave the rest to God

Are you now broken? Or you are here remorseful cos your girlfriend abandoned you? If your gf decided to come back today, will you still accept her? There is always room for forgiveness when you truly repent from your numerous sins. If just like the prodigal son, you have sincerely realised your foolishness and stupidity, go back to your family and apologise. You have wronged them all. It may take some time, years perhaps, before you can be trusted again, but patiently wait to be served the dish you deserve,( anger, vengeance, etcetera).
You may not be able to endure the pain you will get except you sincerely repent and allow God to work in you and through you.
If your wife truly loves you, she will forgive you.

Seems like you were jazz by that side chick..

Usorohtheman:


So wetin d Bros supposed do now? Make he kill himself?

I'm I the wife?....let him go and try his luck now

Oooiin, you are doing well. Whatever goes around comes around. Be ready to dance to the beats of the music you have been playing all these years. Now it's time for you wife and kids to watch how you move body. Nonsense!

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

believe it dear... A lot of women suffer in marriage... I have seen it. This lady issue is less to what some pass through.. D lady is fortunate.. Some ladies die because of this issue... Pray u get a good spouse,so as not to experience this

TroubleMaker47:

Happy birthday,

Aww... Thank you!