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| What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 10:37pm On May 01, 2020 |
Good day Nairalanders, am sorry for any disturbances i may be giving individuals on this forum but this my baggage have pass containment in my room so aff decided to pour part of it here . I am able to share this issue here, (thanks to Seun for creating a faceless forum) due to my anonimity. For somewhile now (abt 3yrs) i have been staying @ my elder brother's place. Sometime last yr, he informed me that he's fiancee was to spend sometime in his place, i was cool with it. As a junior bro to him, i took it upon myself to do majority of the petty house hold chores which i dont see as anything but since his fiancee landed in the house, hell let loose! I don't know if she does it on purpose, whatever i arrange , within minutes, its misplaced. I still do all the cooking in my bro's place not minding that she's a girl but after cooking and cleaning up, she enters the kitchen and sprays heavy amounts of water all over(talk more of if she should cook). Her room is a dump of clothes, she wears rumpled clothes to go out. I'm tired of her. So presently, i am confused .should i leave my bro's house or should i advice my bro against marrying her. I have endured several annoying personalities in the past but a kind like hers , i have never seen. Help!!! 12 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Trueigbo: 10:39pm On May 01, 2020 |
Don't complain to your brotherooo else you will create problem between you and your brother . Allow your brother to see things for himself unless he ask for your opinion. That woman can make your brother hate your family for life 48 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by ikh777: 10:40pm On May 01, 2020 |
Ancientbeing: SIMPLY MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Never tell your brother such because you can not see what he sees. IF YOU MUST, do it in a coded way for example give him books or films or posts that teaches who a real wife should be. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by donbachi(m): 10:44pm On May 01, 2020 |
Hated on arrival...u just don't like her. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by delugajackson: 10:44pm On May 01, 2020 |
Needy19:You are a disgrace to every responsible man out there. When others are thinking of how to better their lives through legit means, all your dead brain could come up with was being a male prostitute. I spit on your shapeless, good for nothing head. Get the hell out of here! 34 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by decatalyst(m): 10:45pm On May 01, 2020 |
Ancientbeing: Bro, she is sending you a clear message! 1. She wants to be the one to call the shots. She wants to be in charge of her man's 'house'! 2. Why should you be cooking when she dey house to cook for the 'love of her life'? Why?? You want to take her place? 3. You want to advise your brother not to marry her? Nah you help am toast her? Your egungun needs to be careful cuz e be like say you don face express o Seems you have never been caught in between two lovers shey? Nah your head dem go take break coconut. Your best option and decision will be to leave that house and maintain a distance. If your brother is smart enough, he will notice and ask for the reason why you took the decision, then you can legitimately air your views. Otherwise, doing so now will mean you are reporting the love of his life to him. Op, use your head make you no go chop poison o 43 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by ibkayee(f): 10:45pm On May 01, 2020 |
It's common courtesy and basic good manners for anyone to pick up after themselves, so she's wrong as far as that goes. Other than that, she isn't under obligation to cook for or clean after anyone, it would be a 'nice' gesture obviously, but she doesn't need to do anything, especially on account of her being a 'girl' which you seem very focused on It's also none of you business, your brother has eyes and can make any decision concerning their relationship himself unless he specifically asks you 3 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 10:49pm On May 01, 2020 |
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| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Kobicove(m): 10:51pm On May 01, 2020 |
Ancientbeing: At this point I do not think there is anything you can do. The best thing you can do is to leave your brother's place so he can see for himself that the lady is very untidy then make up his mind himself  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Olalan(m): 10:52pm On May 01, 2020 |
Guess it's time for you to leave your brother's house if you have an alternative place to stay. BTW how does your brother cope with such a dirty and unorganised lady....... 2 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by fulaniHERDSman(m): 10:58pm On May 01, 2020 |
Disgusting of her to say the least. Solution: Get poison ivy (agbala or akuba) and dust it into her cloths. This will itch the devil outta her for days. Tell her your bro ex threatened that any girl that dates him will suffer, as her pops na reknown native doctor. Wait for say three weeks and repeat the process again. She will not visit that house again. Problem solved. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by rawpadgin(m): 11:03pm On May 01, 2020 |
ibkayee:hopefully u will agree that the saint guy isn't under no obligation to spend a dime on the girl especially in the account of him being a guy  12 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by kestolove95(m): 11:16pm On May 01, 2020 |
I know she must be an Igbo girl 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by dingbang(m): 11:18pm On May 01, 2020 |
Leave his house...let your brother know how much of a useless girl she is. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by PureGoldh(m): 11:22pm On May 01, 2020 |
Trueigbo: I so much love dx comment....you are on point 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Tidamsel: 11:24pm On May 01, 2020 |
It's obvious she doesn't want you in the house even though she met you there, she feels you're invading their privacy. And for your brother not to know what's going on, that means she's hiding her character from him and frustrating you to leave. Hence my suggestion: If you just leave the house your brother will be worried why, so let him know what's going on, he should talk to her and if she doesn't change please just leave the house for them for peace to reign. A woman who hasn't been married to her fiance and has started showing her negative character to his family members then she's not a good wife material as far as I'm concerned. That's why your brother should be aware before he finally says I do. Let him be careful his not making the wrong choice. Just be wise in handling the situation. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by timibare(m): 11:25pm On May 01, 2020 |
So we should comma help u beat her abi |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:32pm On May 01, 2020 |
Ancientbeing: This kind of chaotic girl seg, rump clothes ������ |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:52pm On May 01, 2020 |
gaius01:very annoying |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:53pm On May 01, 2020 |
Kobicove:I hope he discovers on time |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by ibkayee(f): 11:54pm On May 01, 2020 |
rawpadgin:His brother isn't under obligation to spend a dime on her either, but would it also be a 'nice' gesture? Sure. She'd be wrong for demanding he spends on her just because he's male. If the OP is to be concerned about her lack of helping out within the household, it should be on account of her being a houseguest alone, not because of his notions on gender roles. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 01, 2020 |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 01, 2020 |
Olalan:Strange things occur in love but my best bet is that he hasn't spent enough time with her to know her indepthly 1 Like |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 01, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman:lol |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 12:01am On May 02, 2020 |
dingbang:Its really upsetting  |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Nobody: 12:03am On May 02, 2020 |
Ancientbeing my guy hits the limelight with yet another  I respek you sire  1 Like |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by chisani(m): 12:10am On May 02, 2020 |
I can relate with your predicament. What I will tell you is to persevered and exercise patient till you get your own apartment. It's always like that, when you are staying with someone. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by MrEazi223: 12:44am On May 02, 2020 |
I'm ashamed to write this but didn't have choice and don't want to do what is not right... Please pardon my write up as I'm not thinking straight right now. My story goes like this, I'm from Osun state but I live and work in Akwa Ibom I have a job I'm a telecom engineer a Rigger to be precise and I've been doing really good for myself, recently I was advised by my mom to start to save out of my salary and invest in case of raining day in which I oblige and I started saving 20k out of my salary I saved for 10 months which is 200k, during the 10 months I derived myself many good things including better clothes just to achieve my aim, my mom said I should buy a new bike and give it out on a higher purchase in which I bought on the 3rd of April with the help of my mom, she helped me find someone in Osun state and we negotiate on how he's going to make the payment to me, to cut my story short the bike was stolen on 10th of April and the said guy is still in the hospital getting treatment from the wounds he sustain during the struggle with those bike snatchers. This is where I need help, as I'm typing this my account is on zero and it has been difficult for me to feed myself for some days now, I didn't eat anything throughout today as I live on ordinary water, please fellow nairalander whoever is willing to help should save me from this hunger before I develop ulcer. Thank you in advance. |
| Re: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Judybash93(m): 2:29am On May 02, 2020 |
Trueigbo:Genius |
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