ZINIBANKS:

They brought it on their self
Too much over sabi and civilization he dey sometimes cause big problem Walai

khia:


You people couldn't make me cry if I paid you to. Honestly I see you like white people see you as children who needs an old fashion ass beating every now and then and I am very excited and willing to give you the beat down.

pDudd:
Also try not to scold or discipline any of the kids that are not yours because they will tell their daddy . And their daddy is a muscular, tattooed guy who has been to prison several times and he won't hesitate to kill you for laying your hands on his kid

Judybash93:


I understand the angle you're coming from but you shouldn't take him serious. There are good and bad people everywhere. So, don't bother yourself about him or others. I used to generalize but thank goodness for education though..lol

Techcrunchng:
come on "you don't beat a child and expect her not to cry" doesn't literally mean he'll beat you or you'll cry, it's a proverb! Besides I was just advising him to do the right thing.

asanwafo:
This one don fall already. Always masquerading as good guy to look for cheap pussy.

SkinnyDude:
hahaha.. I don't know why they act that way.. very any how people.if na white, she won't mind sending you the money.. so far she don love up

khiaa:


You are so full of crap, marry your Nigerian girls or white hoes and leave black Americans alone they don't need your psychotic behavior.

tiptoe1:


Less than 10% of them are wife material. I believe you got out of that percentage but I hope your not ignoring some few things which you don't like that she does?

Majority of the men who get into the mess say they ignore most things they do at the beginning cause of love and end up regretting it. Fact is that this people won't take any sh!t from you so it's better you do the same thing from the start so she'll get used to it also. Stay safe bro.

khia:


#1 If I were your mom you would be better trained.

#2 Stop stereotyping Black Americans to come from a single parent home. I was raised by both of my parents as was so many of us.

#3 You can't analyze a person just by talking to them on the phone because people aren't always themselves.

#4 All of you people talk badly and rudely towards and about black Americans but want to play the victim when you are treated the same way in return.

#5 Rather I'm married or not I wouldn't be married to an overbearing, possessive, arrogant tyrant of a man like most of you Nigerian men. My husband would reject your pity so keep the pity for your wife. God bless her suffering and oppression..

Techcrunchng:
hey dude! Just one punch line and you're off balance? But she's being castigated left and right while you supported that! Come on, you don't beat a child and expect her not to cry.

fid4fid:
Hello Khia,

I 'm a little curious about what the African American community think of those AA women with kids from different fathers or vice versa?

Do they accept them or think it's morally repugnant ?

From the Nigerian perspective, this is "highly" unacceptable, and nobody would want their children to marry from such a family.

Denique:
Nice read!

Some of Khia 's points are quite valid I had to give her likes

If they are uncouth to us, then we should blame Naija men who marry them for papers. No woman will be happy with you knowing that.

Violence etc like Naija nor get dia own for body�... Abegi

Most of them are hardcore lovers. Love them right and they'll treat you right.

They shoot their cheating spouse, hell yeah cos that shit is disgusting.

How can I be faithful to you and you're not? Did you expect to get a medal from me for making me unwanted? I don't think so...

They are just more expressive than us cos of the freedom they enjoy.
Naija women would do worse if in such environment.
At least we've read about murder cases amongst Naija couples.
They are in a country where polygamy is allowed yet soooo pained.
Tell me they wouldn't do worse in a saner clime

There's no manual as to how a scorned woman should react.

The OP mentioned there are good ones among them. Did y'all bother to find out why they are good? Be good to people ,so, you can get good in return.

Their government needs to find a way to make them go to school- that's like a major problem for the community. Other than that, we are all the same if not worse...

Scoundrel and co, pls you guys should take it easy on her. She feels attacked as she's the only one here. We would do same for our community.
Besides, she could be misinterpreting your write-ups as we type differently.

Cheers to everyone!

khia:


What do the Nigerian society think about theit unmarried women with multiple kids from different fathers?

What do the society think about the fathers who have been raising kids that they thought were theirs but were created by an outside man?

It's sad that your culture has no problem killing innocent babies through abortion.

Petyprincess:
Trust me our shameless Nigerian guys will grab the opportunity No be dem dey marry great grand ma for green card? So marrying a single mother with grown up kids definitely wnt be a problem!

asanwafo:
This one don fall already. Always masquerading as good guy to look for cheap pussy.

ZINIBANKS:
If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria WHY ??

khiaa:


Yes, for goodness sakes use the white girls and leave black American women in peace.

khia:


What do the Nigerian society think about their unmarried women with multiple kids from different fathers?

What do the Nigerian society think about the fathers who have been raising kids that they thought were theirs but were created by an outside man?

It's sad that your culture has no problem killing innocent babies through abortion.

tiptoe1:


We know their type wella, a simp who's always seeking validation from women lmfao

pDudd:
Am I speaking from a place of hate? Nope. I am just speaking from personal experience with mingling in the African American community. This is my subjective observation.

If you don't like the truth, you can go to another thread

khia:


Nobody is as violent as you Nigerians with your cults and rituals. You kill innocent babies for ritual schemes to get rich quick. You take your violent and criminal behavior into every country you invade.

MarNovu:
This is so wrong. The level of stereotype in this thread is so over the top.

Well, they're Nigerians. I don't really expect anything less.

ZINIBANKS:

If I say I understand you it's a big lie it's like you are on both sides
Please do me a favor kindly reconstruct yourself and quotes again
Abeg no big grammar O some of those your grammar I no know am off head I go check dictionary lol