khia:
Mo sis, there isn't a misinoyin lol llllernyrt

Techcrunchng:
that's the power of proverbs bro

pDudd:
She has 4 kids from 3 different men and the oldest of her kids is a few years younger than you are. She may or may never have been married. And if she was married, it is obvious she had a failed marriage because here you are .

And be prepared to live with grown kids that are not yours. Her youngest child may be 2 or 3 years old while her oldest may be 15 or 16. So the choice is yours

Also in this dynamic relationship you now find yourself, be prepared to have those other men in your house from time to time, and unannounced, because they have every right to see their kids that they had with the woman. Also try not to scold or discipline any of the kids that are not yours because they will tell their daddy . And their daddy is a muscular, tattooed guy who has been to prison several times and he won't hesitate to kill you for laying your hands on his kid

ZINIBANKS:

Ok proverb that am right abi

you still dey Nigeria? ofcus lmao

Petyprincess:
Trust me our shameless Nigerian guys will grab the opportunity No be dem dey marry great grand ma for green card? So marrying a single mother with grown up kids definitely wnt be a problem!

1Sharon:



Why call them names you bastard?

tiptoe1:

This is who you are

khiaa:

Why would black American women want Nigerian boys, you don't have anything to offer? Stick with your sisters....oh wait a minute, they don't even want you. The only advice I can give you is to go where you are wanted.... Old White Grannies.

Yxxx:


Some Nigerian ladies just act stupid. Wetin she gain?

Prymestrr:

If you weren't such a useless laibility, why will your biyfriend leave you for an akata woman Lefulefu...na your type deh make guys deh insult women up and down for this forum.

Zoie:

The Nigerian chick that is jealous and cooks good food for you, is a clingy bitch but the foreigner is in love with you.
Nigerians will never ever appreciate their own.

lefulefu:
how? i dont get u?

tiptoe1:


Majority of them ends of being a victim of domestic violence and file for I-360. Not everyone can survive that journey trust me, my close friend didn't

A guy posted his story here on NL. I'll find it out

Prymestrr:

Sorry bro... Lefulefu is igbo for a "very nonsense" person. Didn't mean to mention your moniker. Just bashing that nonsense broke one room squatting girl running her mouth here.

fid4fid:
Hello Khia,

I 'm a little curious about what the African American community think of those AA women with kids from different fathers or vice versa?

Do they accept them or think it's morally repugnant ?

From the Nigerian perspective, this is "highly" unacceptable, and nobody would want their children to marry from such a family.

MarNovu:
This is so wrong. The level of stereotype in this thread is so over the top.

Well, they're Nigerians. I don't really expect anything less.

pDudd:
Ok let's get back on track with my tips for Dating AA women.

PS: I am not here to bash AA women. Far from it. I gain nothing from bashing them. I am just talking about my observations from being with them and the countless "anomalies" which you will encounter and have to tolerate when dating them as a Nigerian guy. And those anomalies are plenty.

So if you don't like what I am saying, simply open your own thread to dispute the facts. Thank you.

pDudd:
Next tip: Prepare for your mind to be blown.

You will have lots of fun, depending on what you call fun. If you use sex for fun, you will get that in plentiful supply. If you see clubbing and partying as fun, you will get that. If you find large family gatherings with lots of food and drama as fun, then you will get that. Akata women are generally fun to hang out with. You will go on vacation trips to places you never knew you could go. And don't worry about spending money. They will spend their last cent on you.

If you like other outdoor activities like hunting, fishing, shooting, car racing, etc, then Akata is not for you.

pDudd:


Y'all aren't listening. Many of our men will do it to escape Nigeria just for green card. But that green card has many things attached. These are a few of the things that are attached until you can break free from that relationship.

ZINIBANKS:

Continue
But one thing I want to say is have you by chance live with them before

lefulefu:
ohhh ok u mean eefulefu

pDudd:


I am talking from FIRST HAND/PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

YES! I have lived with them before.

odinga1of:


Boss, what are the few things attached before u can break from that Akara and get a green card??

And what's the duration of the few things?

Kindly elucidate on that.

pDudd:
Next relationship tip: Get used to the fact that deep inside, she has a weird type of hatred/jealousy for Nigerian females.

From time to time when dating an Akata female, you will discover that she greatly dislikes Nigerian girls. This is probably due to the fact that Nigerian females in the US are extremely successful especially in the healthcare field. Nigerian females most times are Registered Nurses or Nurse Practitioners and make loads of money, drive nice cars, have a stable relationship and home, and may be married or engaged.

This characteristic of the Nigerian female is totally opposite of the akata's lifestyle and because your AA woman knows it, she will hate Nigerian females for that. She will try to aspire to be a Nigerian female without actually becoming a Nigerian female (I hope this makes sense).

pDudd:


Chai. See as Akata use this one brain fry akara. Na dem. Mentally unstable.

alphaNomega:


Ah! This thread is straight from the horse's mouth

You have lived with them? Interesting. You have become the voice calling in the wilderness. A philosopher. Lol. That bítch don show you pepper

tiptoe1:


Statistics says Nigerian immigrants are the most educated ethic group in usa and according to the Migrations Policy Institute 29% of Nigerian-Americans have graduate degrees (compared to 11% of the overall American population) so Nigerians there with a college degree tend to get a good job in the health sector and also in the tech field.

So you mean these akatas even hate on them for being successful

pDudd:


Errr....she didn't show me pepper. I actually showed her the pepper. I'm a very successful man. I have my own shit. I am not a simp. I am actually part of the successful Nigerians in the US. The chick was having high hopes but had plenty of baggage for me to handle. I had to drop her like a bad habit.

I'm just telling Nigerian men about the countless baggage you will have to encounter or tolerate if you meet an Akata.

Prymestrr:

What is I-360?