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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Genset: 7:06pm On May 04, 2020
BigDick70inch:
See dear KHIA..

shut up there!!!


U r just a BARKING DOG and a STUPID HOE combined!!!

PDUDD..was trying to guide his fellow countrymen not to get trapped ehn..

And..u r on here ranting like the ARROGANT SHAMELESS
BITCH U ARE..

U even have..the effontary to enter naija forum and talk bad of Nigerians without respect...
And..u think they gon support u huh??

Is this all u do huh??
Like spending hour on your ass disrespecting people and been arrogant??

While..your baby daddies are out there working their assess off just to pay you child support hun??

I SPIT IN YOUR WILD PUSSY!!!!
slowpoke!!!! As if u will ever get out of this country. I am very sure that u re a nuisance if not u won't come to a forum like this to insult someone in such a manner. Stupid degenerate like u
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:06pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Statistics say almost 80% of black kids in America are born to single mother homes. That is 8 out of ten black kids are from single mother homes. The remaining 2 out of the 10 who are born in stable homes with both parents are almost always immigrants of African origin.

Single black women without kids, and above 18 is as rare as a bird's tooth.

Many black single mothers rely on the welfare system. That is not saying that others don't rely on it. Whites and Latinos likewise rely on it.

When I went to school over here, majority of my black classmates were from single mother households and were single mothers themselves.

Most of my black female colleagues are single mother with kids from different daddies.

Listen girl, I'm not here to rant. As I see am, na hin I dey talk am.
i think why their system is like that is because women gain more when seperated from their spouses.if their type of system was installed in naija more and more ladies will opt for the single mom angle
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:07pm On May 04, 2020
lefulefu:
i think why their system is like that is because women gain more when seperated from their spouses.if their type of system was installed in naija more and more ladies will opt for the single mom angle
Exactly. It's all about availability of resources.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 04, 2020
STILESGANG:
.They love the white partners because that think it represents wealth grin
and u cant blame dem nau cheesy..many families when money is involved they throw their tribalism and prejudice for diffrent religion out of the window.its just the same way u might see a born again christian girl getting married to an alhaji and being made an alhajja grin grin grin..but that same christian girl will refuse getting married to an average muslim guy cheesy.na money be the coco in naija cheesy.we are ready to throw away our believes when we see money grin grin grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 7:21pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Statistics say almost 80% of black kids in America are born to single mother homes. That is 8 out of ten black kids are from single mother homes. The remaining 2 out of the 10 who are born in stable homes with both parents are almost always immigrants of African origin.

Single black women above 18 is as rare as a bird's tooth.

Many black single mothers rely on the welfare system. That is not saying that others don't rely on it. Whites and Latinos likewise rely on it.

When I went to school over here, majority of my black classmates were from single mother households and were single mothers themselves.

Most of my black female colleagues are single mother with kids from different daddies.

Listen girl, I'm not here to rant. As I see am, na hin I dey talk am.
You need to stop throwing up those same old bogus statistics because they are false. There are many many black Americans families with both parents in the home. The problem with your thread is you paint all black Americans with the same brush.

You posted that black American women were all these negative things which is false information. What you should have posted was **All the Black American women that YOU were attracted to and brought into YOUR life were RATCHET** which gives the reader a better insight to the type of person you are.

You really need to get out of the ghetto and move into a nice Black community so you can meet a better class of women. You have to work on yourself first because a classy woman wouldn't be interested in a boy like you.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 04, 2020
lefulefu:
and u cant blame dem nau cheesy..many families when money is involved they throw their tribalism and prejudice for diffrent religion out of the window.its just the same way u might see a born again christian girl getting married to an alhaji and being made an alhajja grin grin grin..but that same christian girl will refuse getting married to an average muslim guy cheesy.na money be the coco in naija cheesy.we are ready to throw away our believes when we see money grin grin grin
Let me put mouth for inside this talk.

2 Shots talk say, ajebutter don finish for Lagos. Everybody don become sharp man. In retrospect nobody wan dull hinself anymore.

In the past, our older generation were very honorable both religiously and morally. In my opinion, the Babangida regime brought about the "You chop, I chop" mentality which has taken prevalence today. Everyone don become sharp man. A good name is worth nothing now. It is only if you have money that anyone will listen to you.

With that said, everyone looks at oyinbo as having money. So even if your parent are extremely tribalistic, they will see oyinbo suitor as someone with money and status who will take care of their child (and the extended family) financially. That is why they will soften at the prospect.

Even if a wealthy Alhaji comes to a Catholic or RCCG member's house to marry their daughter, because he has money, they will treat him favorable as against a normal guy that is not wealthy.

Money na the Koko as Lefulefu talk am. Anyone who no get money na Monkey cheesy
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 04, 2020
khia:
You need to stop throwing up those same old bogus statistics because they are false. There are many many black Americans families with both parents in the home. The problem with your thread is you paint all black Americans with the same brush.

You posted that black American women were all these negative things which is false information. What you should have posted was **All the Black American women that YOU were attracted to and brought into YOUR life were RATCHET** which gives the reader a better insight to the type of person you are.

You really need to get out of the ghetto and move into a nice Black community so you can meet a better class of women. You have to work on yourself first because a classy woman wouldn't be interested in a boy like you.
I don't live in the ghetto. I live in Anaheim, close to Buena Park. You be Californian girl and I know you know CA. That isn't the ghetto. I used to live in the hood though but I long moved out. grin

In my neighborhood, I'm the only black person. No Ratchetness for miles around wink

So why don't you tell us what statistics of black homes have both parents since I am throwing bogus statistics around?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by RamessesIV(m): 7:30pm On May 04, 2020
I agree with this,I have met a Fulani Muslim woman who is married to a French man,I was surprised that's when I realized that wealth gives power
pDudd:
Let me put mouth for inside this talk.

2 Shots talk say, ajebutter don finish for Lagos. Everybody don become sharp man. In retrospect nobody wan dull hinself anymore.

In the past, our older generation were very honorable both religiously and morally. In my opinion, the Babangida regime brought about the "You chop, I chop" mentality which has taken prevalence today. Everyone don become sharp man. A good name is worth nothing now. It is only if you have money that anyone will listen to you.

With that said, everyone looks at oyinbo as having money. So even if your parent are extremely tribalistic, they will see oyinbo suitor as someone with money and status who will take care of their child (and the extended family) financially. That is why they will soften at the prospect.

Even if a wealthy Alhaji comes to a Catholic or RCCG member's house to marry their daughter, because he has money, they will treat him favorable as against a normal guy that is not wealthy.

Money na the Koko as Lefulefu talk am. Anyone who no get money na Monkey cheesy
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by lastchild: 7:38pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
I don't live in the ghetto. I live in Anaheim, close to Buena Park. You be Californian girl and I know you know CA. That isn't the ghetto. I used to live in the hood though but I long moved out. grin

In my neighborhood, I'm the only black person. No Ratchetness for miles around wink

So why don't you tell us what statistics of black homes have both parents since I am throwing bogus statistics around?
the first time am reading a thread over 20 pages to the end, very interesting

But I want to ask you a question, I have a Facebook friend who's a Nigerian in America just like you, he's educating people just like you are doing but what he's saying is a bit contrary to what you once said in this thread of yours

He's teaching about Nigerian women in America, he said they are the worst anyone can marry that once you marry them they'll start planning divorce because of the financial gain they will get

But you said different about Nigerian women in America
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:43pm On May 04, 2020
lastchild:
the first time am reading a thread over 20 pages to the end, very interesting

But I want to ask you a question, I have a Facebook friend who's a Nigerian in America just like you, he's educating people just like you are doing but what he's saying is a bit contrary to what you once said in this thread of yours

He's teaching about Nigerian women in America, he said they are the worst anyone can marry that once you marry them they'll start planning divorce because of the financial gain they will get

But you said different about Nigerian women in America
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Prymestrr(m): 7:48pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
My G grin Keep them coming man... We'll blow up all them threads. Maybe after this one na Amanda go come for our jugular next grin grin
Make Khia catch her cruise for here finish first grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 7:53pm On May 04, 2020
Prymestrr:
My G grin Keep them coming man... We'll blow up all them threads. Maybe after this one na Amanda go come for our jugular next grin grin
Make Khia catch her cruise for here finish first grin
Hahahahahahahahahahaha. Ok. I will load that one next.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by otomatic(m): 7:59pm On May 04, 2020
alphaNomega:
Don't you ever say this! Equal chance?! WTF what were our black forefathers doing when the whites were developing their societies and exploring the world?

Have you even read my signature? It is talk like this that inspired it! angry

What the heck do you mean by equal chance? The white people saw large water bodies and built ships, our forefathers saw large water bodies and did what? This was even before both groups ever met, so don't play that slavery card. How was there no equal chance then?

Let me tell you now, geographically white folks got the shorter end of the stick, they were at a disadvantage. They lived in places were year in, year out, the weather system is trying to kill you (think winter) But the lazy race had everything in abundance but were too dull to develop.

"We were enslaved for 400 years" mehn, fúck that! If we had sense then, we would have not been enslaved in the first place.
Thank You! I'm tired of blacks blaming slavery, colonialism, infact everyone and everything but themselves.

Look at the Jews, they've also been through slavery, captivity, Holocaust, economic deprivation, yet, they have overcome.

Blacks need to reflect on their past and learn some lessons else the narrative will not change.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 8:11pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
I don't live in the ghetto. I live in Anaheim, close to Buena Park. You be Californian girl and I know you know CA. That isn't the ghetto. I used to live in the hood though but I long moved out. grin

In my neighborhood, I'm the only black person. No Ratchetness for miles around wink

So why don't you tell us what statistics of black homes have both parents since I am throwing bogus statistics around?
The reason I said those statistics are bogus is there is noway they took a survey/count of all the black American families in the whole United States, they never surveyed me so how do they know, I didn't even fill out the census forms this year? Have you ever wondered why you never see these statistics about whites, it's to keep them looking like they are on top of the world while blacks are always at the bottom.

Now you are posting more false information. Whites have ratchet behavior also especially with their meth and opioid addiction destroying their community.

You may live in Anaheim but you brought your ratchet behavior with you. You are in Anaheim with all those white people (a Nigerian's dream) and you drive all the way to Compton for some puna when you are in Nigerian heaven with your white queens? I just don't believe that story, you live in the hood alright. grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BigDick70inch(m): 8:13pm On May 04, 2020
Genset:
slowpoke!!!! As if u will ever get out of this country. I am very sure that u re a nuisance if not u won't come to a forum like this to insult someone in such a manner. Stupid degenerate like u
Another madman on the loose..
May your madness never get cure..
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:16pm On May 04, 2020
khia:
The reason I said those statistics are bogus is there idy noway they took a survey/count of all the black American families in the whole United States, they never surveyed me so how do they know? Have you ever wondered why you never see these statistics about whites, it's to keep them looking like they are on top of the world while blacks are always at the bottom.

Now you are posting more false information. Whites have ratchet behavior also especially with their meth and opioid addiction destroying their community.

You may live in Anaheim but you brought your ratchet behavior with you. You are in Anaheim with all those white people (a Nigerian's dream) and you drive all the way to Compton for some puna when you are in Nigerian heaven with your white queens? I just don't believe that story, you live in the hood alright. grin
You just want to fight and quarrel. But I won't indulge you in that. I will state my opinion. If you like accept or don't accept, that one is your own bowl of eba. I don't need to prove anything to you cos I don't know you and you don't know me.

I am only stating statistics from several legit websites. If you like accept or don't accept, that one na your own palava.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Damilare65(m): 8:22pm On May 04, 2020
STILESGANG:
You are agreeing with the op and generalizing a whole group and yet you are telling me not to do the same for Nigerians .What kind of logic is that undecided
It's called freedom of speech bro, ask a typical white person what he thinks about Nigerians, you will hear what he will tell you, and of course they cant be right about all of us ,

I'm sure there are other threads on nairaland that discuss flaws of Nigeria in diaspora,

Of course not all black ladies are like that, but there is an element of truth in what he is saying
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by rs172(m): 8:22pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
Baba no forget me oo, when you wan open this thread oo..
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by smadav(m): 8:36pm On May 04, 2020
Bro, thanks for making my day, my opinion is I don't really believe all u said, there must be exception in everything. U thread was entertaining keep the good work
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Auladimeji1: 8:38pm On May 04, 2020
I read this thread from page 1 to page page 23 and I'm laughingcheesy
Op God bless you
keep it coming
As for that KIA motor,You're an Akata and you are exhibiting the natural of Akata
As for those Useless simps giving her moral,Iyalaya yin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by lastchild: 8:43pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
Please do, because I have something going on
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by otomatic(m): 8:45pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
Abeg drop the link here when you start.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 04, 2020
otomatic:
Abeg drop the link here when you start.
I have started already. Check romance forim
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Umorosky17(m): 9:00pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
Thanks.

As for Nigerian women in America, I have to open a separate thread for that one because the story is very long. It is similar to this one but different in some ways. Maybe I will do that after this one.
Don't forget me when you want to open that thread, I'm your die hard fan.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by otomatic(m): 9:06pm On May 04, 2020
pDudd:
I have started already. Check romance forim
OK. Thanks.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:20pm On May 04, 2020
Brother how about your 3rd experience that almost landed you in jail? You've not written on that one.
pDudd:
I have started already. Check romance forim
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 04, 2020
Illuminated993:
Brother how about your 3rd experience that almost landed you in jail? You've not written on that one.
There was no 3rd experience. Only 2 experiences
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 04, 2020
Alright brother.
pDudd:
There was no 3rd experience. Only 2 experiences
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Americanboy35: 9:39pm On May 04, 2020
Blurr:
Hmm noted..some of the points are corret but they far better than the lying pretending b**tches we've got here in Nigeria. An AA would love you even if youve got nothing I'm pretty sure only about 5% of Nigerian girls would do the same.
If your with an AA and y'all really inlove it would be easier to bear each others weaknesses
Oil dey your head bro, bless you......
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 9:46pm On May 04, 2020
STILESGANG:
Every woman worship whiteness to a certain extent,women are hypergamous and would naturally drift towards the society that symbolizes power and wealth(white men).

But I agree that Asian women take the cake for being the biggest white worshippers on the planet because their culture celebrates it..In America they marry out at a 52% rate,leaving their men with no options...Sickening!
I find white men repulsive and so do many women. grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Americanboy35: 9:47pm On May 04, 2020
drezzyx:
So what about d serial killers in your country that kills just for fun and wicked reasons
And your type of people commits d most violent heist, and deal in drugs.
Them ted bundy's of this world grin
drezzyx:
So what about d serial killers in your country that kills just for fun and wicked reasons
And your type of people commits d most violent heist, and deal in drugs.
Them ted bundy's of this world
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Goddey1000(m): 10:03pm On May 04, 2020
Reading this thread from the first page to the last. Nice thread, learn alot. I hope our brothers can learn from it. Thanks.
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