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Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 8:28am On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Lol.. The "racist sexist pucci grabber" was a much better choice over a woman...and now, the person chosen by his haters to take him out, is a sexual pervert with scandals hanging over his head. You can't make this up... @women who do better in leadership positions, examples please? 4 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by xrayj(m): 8:31am On May 06, 2020 |
cococandy:The bold is not true! We have also seen cases of couples wanting a female child, because they have only boys. My neighbour gave birth to five children because the man wanted female, four boys & a girl. He stopped when his wife gave birth to a girl. 2 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 8:33am On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: They already mentioned a few Nigerian women here. But also, look at New Zealand and Germany. Women leaders who have shown true excellence. 3 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by thorpido(m): 8:34am On May 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:Obviously@bold.His attitude is that if he has to take on extra expenditure,then the compensation should be a boy. Op,you have to develop for yourself a strong mental attitude.Going forward may not be a smooth sail.You will have to ignore your husband's tantrums and gain inner peace for your own good. Talk to him about the blessing of having a new baby irrespective of the sex.Remind him that it is the man that determines the sex of the baby and it is what he deposited. Most importantly,get on contraceptives that have high reliability if you don't want more babies. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 8:36am On May 06, 2020 |
xrayj: I said people would want both gender if they could didn't I? I know I wanted one boy in my flock. But the real issue is when you don't get it the way you want, why let that affect your life and the way you treat your wife and kids? We lose a lot of dreams along the way but we don't transfer aggression to our spouses when we do. 12 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 8:38am On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Yea but I was hoping to see what metric of measurement you used to arrive at the conclusion that they do/did better than their male counterparts. Never mind anyway... 2 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 8:44am On May 06, 2020 |
xrayj: Behind every woman holding a leadership position, there is always a man somewhere thinking he can do better. Not necessarily because he can, but because he is a man. Women have to put up with a lot when they are leaders, just because they are not men. I'm talking from personal experience. So when you cant acheive balance you strike out and attack people around you? You think that is acceptable behavior, and the poster should 'understand'? 6 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by Nobody: 8:45am On May 06, 2020 |
xrayj: Only senseless people generalize. Every man indeed. 11 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 8:45am On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Do you know germany has completely defeated Coronavirus? I mean the one western country to achieve that is the one with a woman leader. How poetic! 8 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by xrayj(m): 8:52am On May 06, 2020 |
Plead:Unless u are not normal It doesn't even apply to men alone Which human wouldn't wish for a balance of a male & female child? Even women wish to have a male child too! Every couple wish is to have a male & female child! Because u have only one gender doesn't negate that fact! 1 Like |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by Nobody: 9:28am On May 06, 2020 |
obiekunie2:bit he is the one at fault na 1 Like |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by Gloriagee(f): 9:49am On May 06, 2020 |
Since we are telling ourselves the truth, hope you know that so many men have 'fathered' so many kids that are not biologically theirs while trying to avoid feeling inferior. obiekunie2: 7 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by Nobody: 9:57am On May 06, 2020 |
xrayj:you maybe right but I don't think a white man will agree with you on this. 1 Like |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by obiekunie2: 10:17am On May 06, 2020 |
Gloriagee: damn! you are very wicked gloria! that area is a taboo to mention it. we generally avoid discussing that topic because it drastically kills our moral and make us hate women. pls try not to go to that unspeakable cold truth next time. |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 11:19am On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Well I don't know what you mean by COMPLETELY or where you get your news from...but seeing as there's no country that has completely defeated COVID-19, I can understand how your need to make a point pushes you to twist reality to your taste. Even the health minister says: https://amp.dw.com/en/coronavirus-in-germany-100-days-later/a-53341745 Reading through the link, insiders attribute their reduced death toll (NOT complete defeat) to good timing and goodluck. But nice try though. 3 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by Nobody: 11:45am On May 06, 2020 |
Smh |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 11:53am On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Okay, maybe not completely, but comparatively! 4 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 11:56am On May 06, 2020 |
xrayj: So who dictates who is normal and who is not? 6 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 12:07pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Comparatively to what na? Is Germany the only country recording low death rates? Abeg rest, or look for something/someone else to make your point... 3 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by sysengr(f): 12:21pm On May 06, 2020 |
Kamani8:Oh no! So painful! God will make a way for them and change their fathers heart to realise they are also children 1 Like |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by sysengr(f): 12:41pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Thanks so much for this. Honestly, I was also disappointed when I found out it's a girl again cos I also wanted a boy knowing this is our last baby due to financial constraints. But the joy of meeting my baby soon bring smiles to my face and the privilege of being a mother, am ever grateful to God for it cos many are desiring this precious gift which I pray God will grant onto them. Am happy your husband understands, I pray mine too will come to terms with our girls one day. Thanks a lot, am really encouraged 1 Like |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 12:49pm On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Go and do your research well oga. Of course, it's typical for you men to discredit anything women's achieve. Compare Germany and New Zealand to your precious Nigeria, where a whole man is the President. I'm not even going to talk about the US! I was actually thinking New Zealand initially, not Germany . . . . . You can google their records since you are so good at it. 11 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 12:52pm On May 06, 2020 |
sysengr: I pray he does too . . . but even if he doesn't don't let it stop you from enjoying your blessings. And who knows, your finances can improve tomorrow and you can try again, and do gender selection. 5 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by sysengr(f): 1:07pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Exactly! We want both gender. But it's beyond us to decide. My husband complains of his friends and few family members telling him "your wife must give you a boy this time " as if it's my decision to make. |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 1:13pm On May 06, 2020 |
sysengr: So you are now the one doing the 'giving' 3 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 1:22pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:I don't know what brought Nigeria into this. If you want to compare what female leaders did/are doing, that comparison should be made with male leaders within the same region or former male leaders in that same country, that's how you do an analysis. For example, Theresa May as PM of Britain could not get parliament to agree on a Brexit deal.. yet Boris Johnson came in and got it done. Now that's a comparison... unfortunately, not favouring a woman, so you won't mention it. If you want to use Africa, you will compare former president Ellen Johnson Sirleaf of Liberia with the incumbent president...again not favouring her, yet you won't mention it. Now it's to compare Germany and Nigeria based on what exactly? You did not see Austria led by a man, and with lower and comparatively better handling of COVID-19 to compare with Germany, na Nigeria you mention. It's only Germany and New Zealand the CNN you're watching talks about abi.. You have no argument abeg, go rest. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by johnkey: 1:24pm On May 06, 2020 |
Dande55:you miss road? |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 1:24pm On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: How many women leaders do we have, compared to men? That should guide you in your analysis. |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by sysengr(f): 1:27pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Thanks. Does the gender selection actually works? And please how is it done. For our second baby, we did the ovulation stuff but it didn't work. This third, wasn't planned. We don't intend to try again, our improved finances tomorrow would be used to take care of our present family. Thanks |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by crackkhaus: 1:28pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:So if just one or two female leaders do well, then that statistic alone is enough to say female leaders do better than all the men that have been/still doing well abi. Clap for yourself... 5 Likes |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by sysengr(f): 1:29pm On May 06, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:I just tire ooo |
Re: All Girls And Husband's Anger. by UjuJoan2: 1:38pm On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: IF women, few as they may be, can be outstanding . . . against all odds, then yes they are doing better than men. 3 Likes |
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