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ubcandid:
adetokunbo. He doesn't spell it that way though.

so its Adetokunbo not Antenokumpo? I know his late dad is Nigerian but I never knew the origin story.

Always writing quizzes and marking attendance for her everytime she skips lectures cos of sickness.I suprised her one day and saw her scissoring her roomie

Osek:
54m bro and u let her go like dat... Ahhnn noo na

I guess there weren't receipts for it.

KAM3KAZI:
so its Adetokunbo not Antenokumpo?
I know his late dad is Nigerian but I never knew the origin story.

His dad must have died of recent, because he was featured on CNN and oprah wilphrey show, when the boy hit limelight.

ubcandid:
His dad most have died of recent, because he was featured on CNN and oprah wilphrey show, when the boy hit limelight.

maybe because I remember when he released one of his new shoes,there are a colour way he dedicated to the memory of his father

lamalama:
trained a girl in the university even sponsored her overseas but she dumped me and married a white man

Like seriously? Why would you do that? Jeez!!!!

Techcrunchng:
I have read this before! Were you the one that posted it or you just copied?

He copied it from Twitter probably.

StubbornGENIUS:
Always writing quizzes and marking attendance for her everytime she skips lectures cos of sickness.I suprised her one day and saw her scissoring her roomie

Roomie a male?

Jackossky:
Roomie a male?

Nope a female

Sho oti ya were nih

Russo35:
Was trying to be caring and all,I was arrested (while i was trying to take her to where she was learning some vocational skills), and my dad's car impounded for hours..Thank God he was not around..I had to shell out some coins to get it out that very day, even with the whole scenario she still had the gut to ask me to come take her out for lunch...

Well, who love help?

afribabe:
People live separately before marriage na. You don't even know what prompted her living with her in-laws..... And where did she mention that she was jobless...

And those people condemning her for saying the man won't see his son again( not that I am in support of this or not), I hope you read where she wrote that the man abandoned them because her son was born differently.. (something about serious jaundice and cerebral palsy)...
I refuse to judge either of the parties anyway because I am not a player in the gist.....

Men, take responsibility for your children even if you don't like/want their mothers again. Be part of the child(ren)'s life...... Women, if a man wants to be responsible for his children, do not deny him because you don't like/want the man again. Allow them be part of their child(ren)'s life....
And for those(men/women) who make it clear from the start that they don't want to have anything to do with the child(ren), don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.... Just that life is so funny.. Most of them even reap more than the party that laboured

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Try to knw how to read BTW the lines, one cant express himself fully on forum, she lived bf and after marriage in in law house, she don't have well paid job, she said she struggle to get money and send it for husband before everything leaked


And for the issue of responsibility or not I didn't tink I mentioned that, my concern in this scenarios is that she saw red flags yet she forced herself on the man just in case of marriage sake....... If every woman understands marriage and takes firm decisions bf they venture into it, 75% of marriages will be able to withstand storm.

StubbornGENIUS:
Nope a female

Better
You just get two GFS all to yourself


Wonder who that roomie is scissoring too?

Yea, your crush.

Kennydoc:
You went to Greece to do your masters and you were able to send £125k to your girlfriend in Nigeria after a few months/years.

1. Even if you were playing football part time in Greece, you wouldn't earn that amount in such a short duration.

2. How come you sent Pounds instead of Euro? Were you making Pounds in Greece?

3. Who will be stupid enough to commit £125k to a stranger to expend on a project he hasn't seen? Even an ímbecile won't do that. How much was flight ticket from Greece to Nigeria that you couldn't travel down to see what was going on, after sending the first few thousands of Pounds?

In Summary, you are a cheap liar!

d way he wrote it sef, it's too structured. It's probably just a fiction story written by a literature student

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

julieeni:
yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

May God heal your wound, you will be fine, pls be strong

gaby:
A very bullshiit story.

Greece wey Nigeria get sense pass as we speak.

When did Greece start using Pounds?

Let's even ignore your lies of working part time, you couldn't even make such money on the streets of Greece at the time of your story.

Anybody wey doubt am, go Greece your eye go clear.

Damn,people!una can argue for the whole world......have you thought that you could be into under ground business?don't dismiss or judge people by your own standard.

Some people has the secret key to success in this world.

I for one always pass where others fail ,ther're people like us everywhere ,we make success where others couldn't. He could be telling the truth.

NonsoNathan100:
Served in 2014
Maybe left for Greece in 2015
Came back 2019 (i guess) and she is married with a kid.
Made more than 54 million wethin that space of time.
Bro invite me to your place of worship please

the guy dey lie

Dimex03:
He copied it from Twitter probably.

that's what I was made to understand

Stevecreativex:
Bro, what I goan do man...
Then while I was hospitalized everyday her family keeps coming over disturbing the peace of the hospital I was admitted to....

Begging and disturbing the peace of everyone...
And my mum is this easy woman she just had to console me to let go..

I fit mail u?.....i need better way forward abeg.

SweetDipBenny:
told my ex about my hustle. we had some issues. she snitched up on me. got me arrested. i banged 8 month in jail. Love ain't for me again

U do illegal stuff?

[quote author=Stevecreativex post=89139739]Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I m waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives.. [/quote

54 million. 54 million haba!

Honeydenz:
MEN WITHOUT WISDOM!

No pity for any man here who had been victimized. Some men don't just apply common sence when in love. Women are like babies. They get fund of their mother who gives them food and cry if she goes out of sight, but after sometimes if the mother is still out of sight, gets fund of another person who's now giving them food. It's all boils down to 'Attention' and who's willing to give it at the moment.

How can you train a girl successfully in the university, then instead of impregnating her or wife her immediately after graduation, you decided to send her overseas while you are in Nigeria.

D only thing I got from ur comment is that it's now about love when it comes to women, but about the highest bidder n who gives the most attention.......Thank u for that.

Bleep love officially.

Jackossky:
Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?

Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.

We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

Mehn i was like a house boy all for love...na when the whole thing scatter ma brain enter factory reset...i wouldnt listen to anybody then...she shattered ma world...all is food now though

ubcandid:
While she was in school? Maybe she wanted that guy cos if not, her friends would havd told her what to do - that's if she never jasi go far.

....she's just not truthful.

Observer1:
Damn,people!una can argue for the whole world......have you thought that you could be into under ground business?don't dismiss or judge people by your own started.

Some people has the secret key to success in this world.

I for one always pass where others fail ,there're people like us everywhere ,we make succeed where others couldn't. He could be telling the truth.

Tripe and arrant nonsense.

Make sure not to quote me with your underground business shiiit again.

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

54milion ni..
o di egwu. so u no get family members send the money to for the project?

Osobi32:
Honestly I can't write about it coz I will get loads of insults here...... Each time I reflect on the things I've done for love it breaks my heart. Love is a serious mental illness! God forbid

laughing out loud lol lol lol lol

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steveekeoma:
Relieve ur soul and set ur mind free. Stop bitterness to enable u awake the real human in U

doggedfighter:
I sense bitterness

no bitterness every Nigerian girl at least is a sadist and a fake soul compared to foreign ones

Poverty mentality have destroyed their mind and hypocrisy the most all these are result of lack of parental care from parents also especially mothers

you see them around walking here and there no work they do but have all the things like a high end phone use to facilitate their runs lifestyle ..and have list of sugar daddies and clients

there r few good naija gals just a sprinkle few..

julieeni:
yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

which kind guy be that nah. he can't just marry another while being and still married to u!

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

it's well. as for the son, that is if he cares nah. It will be like a favour to him self cus it would be less stress to him