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Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Filomena:
not bad
but then it would be very obvious.
seeing as he might already suspect I have something for him.
thanks still.

emae009:
it'll end in tears...

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Semperty:
because it's fun. He probably knows you like him and stare at him so he's enjoying the eye contacts and doesn't want to lose your attention.
I'm a guy and I know what I'm saying trust me
If a dude really has feelings for you he wouldn't want to just lose contact completely with you like that even if it's for a while.. he'd take any slight opportunity to ask for your number or something he could use to reach you.

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Stefenijoan002:
if she ask for now u go first say she too cheap .naa woa for u

...
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How can you be so sure i'll say that when you dont even know me ...
All guys arent d same...
If they are to you, Then change Your circle of male friends And your Mentality..
GL...

emae009:
it'll end in tears...

sketcherJ:
Op I am a guy but I beg you. Do not do this. Trust me, it won't end well for you. We are in Nigeria. The guy will consider you cheap , he will tell his friends. He will want to sleep with you on your first day. He won't be committed in the relationship, he will dump your sorry ass after two weeks. For all you hold dear, filomena do not do this. You are young still. You might not last a massive heartbreak and this is one of the surest ways to destroy your heart

Really Nigga ...?
Are you the guy or is the guy you??
Has any girl asked for your nunber before?? If yes, did you consider her cheap??
Ok you mean all the girls you'v asked for number would also consider you cheap bah...
C'mon bro...Its not about the asking that makes one cheap....ITS HOW YOU ASK..
GL

fayded:
My brother.. If a Nigerian girl asks for ur number eh.. It doesn't always end well for you o.
Lemme give u small example.
Had ds girl in my hood, I always say hi to her and she replies and we walk past each other.
One day she just said hello and I said hi and she said she'd like to know my name bla bla bla, we talked, she took my number..
For like one month, I no rest.she would call, and when her airtime finishes, she'll tell me to call her bk. We'll just be talking sumfn dt I don't even know. ..
She texts alot Ehhh.. Whatsapp was d worst. D stalking no be here.
I had to block her oo and tell her my phone Gat stolen, I've changed numbers.God helped me and moved from dt place.
Since dt time, if I hear a girl say "can I have ur number"...my heart just Dey beat.

Op, the guy doesn't like you or fancy you.. Take like 4 steps back oooo to avoid "he used me, he used me and dumped me"

Wtf did i just read @emboldened..
Your balls deserved to be taken off you man...
You did not know what you were talking about yet she'll tell you to call and you did??...
Mehnn....See ehnn...In situations like this, you are in full control and so you set the rhythm and you decide how you want the relationship/friendship/FWB to go....But you goofeed it...
The Ball was in your court....
Anyways...Truth is, not all girls that ask for your number would pester you..
Some might just do it to increase their Whatsapp Status views...
Read that last line again....ITS TRUE..
GL

Zabiboy:

Really Nigga ...?
Are you the guy or is the guy you??
Has any girl asked for your nunber before?? If yes, did you consider her cheap??
Ok you mean all the girls you'v asked for number would also consider you cheap bah...
C'mon bro...Its not about the asking that makes one cheap....ITS HOW YOU ASK..
GL

placeofallure:
No guy who's really into you will allow an opportunity of getting your number slip.

He may like you but is committed to another within the same cycle. He could be holding back because of that. It's enough reason to hesitate if you ask me.

He may not really be into you, could be all the small talk is just him being civil.

Your age (I don't need to ask you) is when you mistake infatuation for love. You have to be careful and leave men out of your curriculum for now. Use this time to build your GPA.

If you still feel you wanna go ahead then
don't collect his number if he doesn't ask for yours. Don't offer yourself on a platter of gold for him. He should work for it.

If he's yours, Providence will sort it out. Facebook, that's top priority now.

MrCuteking:
Bros if girl ask for man number, the guy go fvck her die.

Skmoda360:
Should we tell her?

sketcherJ:
hey bro come off it, and be fu*king realistic. Those stuffs you say only applies on paper and maybe in foreign countries. In reality, any girl that woos a guy here and asks for number is mainly seen as cheap . Even if the guy don't consider her like that, his friends will and that is God's truth .

Same friends that would be fantasizing about her, Wishing she was theirs ....
Its all down to you as a guy tho...
If sex and vjay are not your problem, you'll giv her the number and turn her requests( for a relationship) down if you'r not interested...

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

toprealman:
Nne just make your studies your priority. Most likely you are a fresher . This is the best time to build your CGPA.
He is playing a post COVID-19 psychology game on you.....dont ask for details OK.
You don't need to bother yourself that much.....focus on your studies.