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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Prymestrr(m): 7:51pm On May 07, 2020
pDudd:
Ok this thread is done.

I have educated everyone who wants to listen.

Lastly this thread was not about Khia.

I'm moving to educate Nigerian men about what to expect from US Nigerian women.


Thanks for reading folks
You've done noble bro. Adieus to a beautiful thread cry
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by dianchi(f): 7:51pm On May 07, 2020
odinga1of:
Kingsteve of Buckhead, Atlanta

Na Warri bros now. Married man forming cool guy here .
Yep @ Kingsteve is married and I am disappointed in his wicked posts here
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Prymestrr(m): 7:53pm On May 07, 2020
totomustwide:
See them at the end of the day they are all begging for Pus.sy, Dollywood Jadden, RamessesIV etc
even the Pdudd was worse, I was dissappointed. You all are her Beeeetch

First and Only Rule: Always Ignore Trolls and Pi.gs Khiaa

That's why I like my Brethrens in the Ashewo Thread, You go tire, cos you will be ignored.

Shoutout to Prymestrr
Thumbs up bro... I hail you too cheesy
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Americanboy35: 7:55pm On May 07, 2020
rs172:
Na scam, except you're his accomplice
Accomplice ke, God forbid
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Americanboy35: 7:55pm On May 07, 2020
rs172:
Na scam, except you're his accomplice
Accomplice ke, God forbid
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Flyingngel(m): 7:58pm On May 07, 2020
ok
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:00pm On May 07, 2020
pDudd:
Hahahahahahaha. I'm Khia's bitch? Lol. You have no idea.

Most of you have boring lives and come on Nairaland to troll and fight. I have a very exciting life and spend little time on here. If I write something on Nairaland and someone takes offense, it is my responsibility to explain to that person that my post was never to offend and I WILL APOLOGIZE IF I CAME ACROSS AS OFFENSIVE. THAT IS HOW CIVIL I AM.

I don't come to Nairaland to troll, fight or cure my boredom. And most especially I don't come here to seek pussy. There is plenty of real pussy around me for several miles if I need one. I don't need virtual pussy from Khia. grin grin. Khia is a provocateur and is just here to have fun and seek attention and many of you simps are falling for it.

Khia thrives off virtual attention. It is like a life giving serum to her. Like a life force to her, and sadly enough, there are enough Simps on Nairaland ready to refill her veins with the attention serum.

Khia kept blowing hot and spewing all manner of invectives my way. I needed it to stop and I apologized. AFTER MY APOLOGY, SHE INSTANTLY STOPPED. SHE BECAME NON PROVOCATIVE AND SETTLED TO ENJOY THE THREAD grin. Am I not a smart one? Khia tried to mindfuck me for days and started derailing the thread. A simple apology thrown her way ended that shit.

Telling me I'm seeking pussy on Nairaland. Mtscheww. When did pussy become so rare that I come on Nairaland to seek it. Nonsense.

Many of you are just idiots. angry
Don't throw me under the bus because they are calling you out, do you want this shit to start all over again?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by dederocs(m): 9:49pm On May 07, 2020
most are bitter and angry, not worth it.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by abidex0z(m): 10:21pm On May 07, 2020
pDudd:
Now this is an important message I want to send to many of the people trying to bunch me with the Simps who are looking for favor and possible romance/pussy/immigration to US with Khia.

Make you stop that rough play o. It's not funny anymore.

I don't need Khia for anything. I don't even know who she is and I don't want to know. Someone said something in the lines of "I should send Khia a DM". Hahaha. Send her DM for what? Err, nope. Sorry. But thanks for the proposal.

For those desperate Simps and others trying to bunch me with with the Simps, I have a message for you. Khia is a troll and a provocateur.

Khia is unattractive and bored. Why do I say that? Cos I know that. grin

Attractive American ladies don't spend most of their free time on a razz website like Nairaland. Attractive ladies are on Instagram showing off their assets. Any American lady coming to Nairaland for 9 years now and making loads of virtual friends is unattractive and thrives off the attention she gets here. Khia doesn't stand a chance on Instagram when it comes to attractiveness.

Khia says she lives in Palms Springs, CA. Hahahaha. That's a hot, desert, boring town full of old people and people who want to just retire in peace. The only attractive thing about Palm Springs are the mountain trails and the cable car. I visited there once and I'm not going back. Too far, too hot and too boring.

Khia lives in a boring old town and the only entertainment for her is coming on Nairaland to seek attention. Also there are no black people in Palm springs grin grin so you Simps online are the only black boyfriend she has around her for miles.

So stop grouping me with Simps. I don't need pussy from Khia or anyone on here. With that said, keep my name out of y'all mouths grin

Nonsense.
bro, you dnt need to feed in to any trolls....you did the right thing with your various analysis and afterwards you and khia have it all settled.....that's juss being civil enough....you dnt need to come at khia again, which is what those insipid cretins want.....you don't need to prove a point to anyone....juss let it slide....let the matter die a natural death and leave the dogs barking so loud while you enjoy every blessed day with serenity...
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by odinga1of: 10:39pm On May 07, 2020
dianchi:
Yep @ Kingsteve is married and I am disappointed in his wicked posts here
Kingsteve is from Edo or Delta State from my observation.

He is a certified idiot or clown on Instagram
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by odinga1of: 11:04pm On May 07, 2020
Jadden:
Big man like you. Food no suppose be problem na.
Come naija, make you see the true meaning of looking for what to eat.
lol

Entertaining thread sha.
Khiaa well done ooo.
My regards to your special friend Stevie.
lol
Bros stop exaggerating this Steve guy. The lives in Buckhead Atlanta, he is a � clown.

Na crazy married man from Edo State or Delta.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by authentic18: 11:46pm On May 07, 2020
Petyprincess:
Trust me our shameless Nigerian guys will grab the opportunity grin No be dem dey marry great grand ma for green card? So marrying a single mother with grown up kids definitely wnt be a problem!
Keyword: Great grandma huh grin sign me in please.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Ancestos007: 11:47pm On May 07, 2020
I am just hear 4 the comments, but khia just got one word for u "the truth hurts"
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 11:48pm On May 07, 2020
pDudd:
Now this is an important message I want to send to many of the people trying to bunch me with the Simps who are looking for favor and possible romance/pussy/immigration to US with Khia.

Make you stop that rough play o. It's not funny anymore.

I don't need Khia for anything. I don't even know who she is and I don't want to know. Someone said something in the lines of "I should send Khia a DM". Hahaha. Send her DM for what? Err, nope. Sorry. But thanks for the proposal.

For those desperate Simps and others trying to bunch me with with the Simps, I have a message for you. Khia is a troll and a provocateur.

Khia is unattractive and bored. Why do I say that? Cos I know that. grin

Attractive American ladies don't spend most of their free time on a razz website like Nairaland. Attractive ladies are on Instagram showing off their assets. Any American lady coming to Nairaland for 9 years now and making loads of virtual friends is unattractive and thrives off the attention she gets here. Khia doesn't stand a chance on Instagram when it comes to attractiveness.

Khia says she lives in Palms Springs, CA. Hahahaha. That's a hot, desert, boring town full of old people and people who want to just retire in peace. The only attractive thing about Palm Springs are the mountain trails and the cable car. I visited there once and I'm not going back. Too far, too hot and too boring.

Khia lives in a boring old town and the only entertainment for her is coming on Nairaland to seek attention. Also there are no black people in Palm springs grin grin so you Simps online are the only black boyfriend she has around her for miles.

So stop grouping me with Simps. I don't need pussy from Khia or anyone on here. With that said, keep my name out of y'all mouths grin

Nonsense.
You are pathetic and weak. We had squashed this matter and came to a civil understanding now you have started insulting me with your lies again just to impress your goons. The only truth you have told is YOU HAVE A BIG MOUTH. STFU and leave my name out of your childish rants.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 11:51pm On May 07, 2020
Ancestos007:
I am just hear 4 the comments, but khia just got one word for u "the truth hurts"
I'll only know if it hurts me whenever he decides to tell it, and that's 3 words
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by pansophist(m): 12:04am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
In my opinion, they are some of the best women to marry. Very family oriented, very feminine, pretty, sharp mouth, good cooks, fantastic in bed, and have religious orientation (many are from a Catholic background).

But they prefer Hispanic guys most of the time.
You forgot the last one. They age graciously. With those weapons of mass destruction and defense mechanism still intact and firm.

God bless the Latinas cool
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by pansophist(m): 12:16am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: Make sure you get a vasectomy. Without her knowledge. You can reverse it later if you're sure she's the one for you.

If you don't know what vasectomy is, use Google. Now, if you want to leave Nigeria and follow Akata, you must drop your native brain and adopt American brain. Akata ladies get pregnant easily. Very easily. And she's having that kid grin. She's not aborting it for nothing. If she could have kids for deadbeat men and put them on child support, believe me, she sure is going to have yours because you are a better catch. Please please please. Get a vasectomy. And also pay from it from your pocket or use your personal health insurance. It is cheap.

This is to protect yourself from a baby that will end up turning you into her slave for the next 18 years.

While you are paying her child support every month for the next 18 years, it is another nigga with a fat cock that will be slamming her from behind and she will be using your child support money to buy new weaves, do her nails, and buy Air Jordans for her new side dude.


Attached is my vasectomy result. No hoe is getting pregnant for me till I'm ready grin
Na waa oo. Really? How about using condom bro?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by pansophist(m): 1:14am On May 08, 2020
Princewill1:
African Americans in general are a broken people. The over 400yrs of slavery and captivity in America have really damaged their Psyche as a people.

They need true healing process in their community. What is happening to them it's not normal. The funny thing is, they don't even know that their attitude and behaviors are abnormal.
Exactly.

If anyone wants to understand the scope and extent of damages done to the African American community, I will recommend a book titled ''Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome'' by Joy DeGruy.

These people passed true an unimaginable pain that I honestly doubt if they can get out of it. 400 years of captivity is not a joke. Not justifying their behavior, but it is unnecessary people know the origin why. It is not happenstance. The white man really bleeped them up, completely, that he fears no revenge from them.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Geminvert(m): 2:32am On May 08, 2020
khiaa:
I still have old friends here and I continue to meet new ones. It's a matter of weeding out the bad ones from the beautiful flowers. Nice to meet you Gemivert. smiley
Enjoy the rest of your stay
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Erimmy2(m): 2:36am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: I have always been a Nigerian and I will be a Nigerian until I die. I will never burn my brother's cable. Anything that will help me to uplift my brothers, I will do it
So this brings me to the next point. Some of you want to know how to reach these women huh? Simple, use social media. Instagram and Facebook.

My advice to you is to go for the older ones. The ones in their 30s and 40s. The ones in their 50s have no oil left in their tank. grin

The ones in their 30s are desperate or have given up hope entirely and will pick anything that comes their way. The ones that have given up hope are better to get because they believe that men generally have no interest in them anymore but if you continue to holler them, they will begin to feel young and wanted again. Those ones will waste no time coming to naija to see you.

Also please do not form big boy for any of them. The more broke you are, the better. They just want a companion and someone who will love and be with them. They will take care of you cos they have money. Just tell them the truth and tell them your situation. Many of them have a soft heart and will pity you and want to make your life better just to keep you. So put your big boyism inside your pocket.

The ones that are in their 20s still have plenty of super visco static oil in their tank and won't have time for you. Don't go for those ones. You will just waste your time chasing them up and down on social media. I know they look good in the leggings and bum shorts but dont waste your time. Those ones are after niggas with tattoos and prison records.
Are they comfortable being in a relationship with married or single fathers?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 2:48am On May 08, 2020
Erimmy2:
Are they comfortable being in a relationship with married or single fathers?
Yes. Dem no send.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Omar09(m): 3:00am On May 08, 2020
pansophist:
You forgot the last one. They age graciously. With those weapons of mass destruction and defense mechanism still intact and firm.

God bless the Latinas cool
If not Latinas, I don't know who to marry.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by CallMeDrino: 4:34am On May 08, 2020
joceey:
Babe just ignore his word ,you don't have to reply.In life generally we have different people with different mindset and reasoning ,we see things through differently they re beautiful and wonderful people like wise opposite just ignore him.
SIMP. She won't give you that pvssy angry
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by CallMeDrino: 4:57am On May 08, 2020
khiaa:
You Nigerians are some of the most hypocritical people on the planet. There are multiple topics on this very site that tell the story of the child house help male or female being raped by their bosses.

There are members on this site who were raped by savages and are mentally and psychologically messed up. There is a story on how a Nigerian man raped a 3 year old girl (her stu.pid mother's boyfriend) so badly that her insides were now outside. That Nigerian beast is the typical Nigerian man.
Lmao grin

You're not speaking facts. You're spewing trash.

Nothing dey your head, No Brain, No Vibes not even Cobwebs.. SMH angry
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by PHOTSEE(m): 7:36am On May 08, 2020
[quote author=Princewill1 post=89295220]I don't blame the simps here hustling for pussy rather I blame the Op. The Op claims not to be a simp then what was the reason for the apology?

The op started well (I give him credit for that) and as he was going he gathered fans who supported him for stating facts some of which we already know. As soon as he capsized and apologized he turned those fans to simps and rubbished his own educative thread.

The reasons op gave for his apology is just watery. How can you apologize for stating the truth? Simply because someone took offense of the truth? Oya he should state lies na. While he mentioned to not being politically correctness in one of his earlier posts.

The aim was to educate your countrymen about the dangers associated with akata women that even in decades to come, ppl will be reading it here on NL. But you single-handedly defeated the purpose of your thre
Go and buy your own experience and share or are you tied in these shithole? Simp my foot.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Gerrard59(m): 8:20am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: get a vasectomy cheesy

I know I have mentioned this but because of the importance of it, I'm stating it again. But I will also include my experience.

I was rolling with this Akata a while back. After a while, she came to tell me she was pregnant. I said ok. I didn't even pursue the topic any further.

Unknown to this hoe, I had a vasectomy in the past and had repeatedly done tests that showed I had zero motility of sperm. grin. My mama na Warri na. Nor be today.

As time went on she kept repeating her pregnancy and telling me we are going to have a child together. I used to just smile and say ok. One day when searching through my phone she saw my quarterly vasectomy/motility tests and got angry that I never told her about it. While she was blowing hot I reminded her she was pregnant grin

At that point she realized that she was a hoe and that I knew she was a hoe. grin

That baby was never born. I don't really know what happened to it but I know she went to Planned Parenthood (abortion clinic).

Warri nor dey carry last. Get a vasectomy folks
I just had to.

Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LyfeJennings(m): 9:08am On May 08, 2020
khiaa:
You tell so many lies you can't even keep them straight. In your prior post you typed that black American women will work 3 jobs to make sure her children are taken care of now you are saying they are bad mothers who neglect their children, the same children whom they work so hard for. Lies begot more lies
Madam, I don't think he's lying
Thats what U folks are
That's how U are being portrayed even in the media
There is no lie in all he's said
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by bluefilm: 9:28am On May 08, 2020
After going through some points raised in this discussions, my question is: WHY DO THESE WOMEN STILL NEED MEN AFTER ALL?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by PattyMike(m): 9:33am On May 08, 2020
scoundrel:
Lol at this thread and lol at khiaa as usual being her provocative self. Why are you in a forum of Nigerians if you’re not one yourself? Boxden, LipstickAlley and Worldstarhiphop haven’t gone out of business. I bet you fit the stereotype and are here looking for your Nigerian prince. Please leave this forum for indigenes. I am tired of your many unprovoked rants.
U dey answer that one? Person wey no well, the forum nah NAIRAland not dollarland.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Erimmy2(m): 10:25am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
Yes. Dem no send.
Thanks bro. I go try my luck
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by cooltola(m): 12:13pm On May 08, 2020
Ebere044:
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For once I agree with you on this, not to make you feel any better but state the fact. White folks treats blacks like shit with discrimination and racism against we blacks.

They also thinks the world revolves around them. Yes the me be ratchet as you said but still have the most shit together than we blacks. They believe the world is theirs and try to keep it that way, the maintain their claims while we blacks reduce ourselves to the level of fight them ,just to prove we also superior, instead of earning it. You don't fight to be respected, but rather work and earn it.

That's why they will always regard us as second class citizens, because we fight to prove a point just like what you're exhibiting here. While they work to prove the that they're superior.

Stop arguing or fighting every comment. Make a different
Very sensible comment
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by cooltola(m): 12:19pm On May 08, 2020
STOP generalizing
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