Most Men jump at any slightest Avenue to shame or undermine our “Nigerian” ladies.

Before you come at me, please I am a woman and can only talk based on what I have observed and experienced as a woman. I know there are good men out there too. This is for the confused bunch

What do you really want??

You said you want a submissive woman but what you really want is a woman that will keep taking your excessiveness and disgusting luggages without complaint or “nagging”.

You want a homely girl but your eyes glows amazingly when you see a girl in skimpy dresses.

You want an intelligent girl but when you see one, your Ego becomes threatened and then you emotionally abuse her so she can feel she is not enough.

You want a girl who has been decent all her life with nil sexual experience, but when you meet a girl that is wild and sexually adventurous you are mesmerized

You can have a very good woman with you and yet an “I don’t care” kind of girl is what your uncontrollable “third leg” fancies.

The issue here is not to deter you from going after your fantasies, but labelling all girls “bad” especially, Nigeria girls with your baseless assumptions and fallacies is what surprises me.

Then the “good” woman gets fed up and decides to follow the crowd.
This is a “Reaction” to the bullshits she had allowed.
Give “the Nigerian” Girls a break.

we men want to be able to say what we desire, without having people expecting us to be ONE WAY... some men want women a certain way, others want them differently. expecting ALL men to expect the same from ALL women is foolish. be yourself and basta! if some men dont like the way you are, who cares so long as you live your life the best you can.

as for you thinking that because we are with you, we shouldnt look at other women....you played yourself!

nanauju:
Most Men jump at any slightest Avenue to shame or undermine our “Nigerian” ladies.

You said you want a submissive woman but what you really want is a woman that will keep taking your excessiveness and disgusting luggages without complaint or “nagging”.
complaint is healthy, nagging isnt

You want an intelligent girl but when you see one, your Ego becomes threatened and then you emotionally abuse her so she can feel she is not enough.
no "intelligent" woman would stay with such low life animal

You want a girl who has been decent all her life with nil sexual experience, but when you meet a girl that is wild and sexually adventurous you are mesmerized
why shouldnt they be mesmerized with a babe who is willing to fulfill ALL your sexual desires/fantasies? the aim of any man is to turn their tear rubber wifey into the p0rnstar that they desire

You can have a very good woman with you and yet an “I don’t care” kind of girl is what your uncontrollable “third leg” fancies.
it isnt called an uncontrollable 3rd leg for nothing... accept it as you will never understand it

The issue here is not to deter you from going after your fantasies, but labelling all girls “bad” especially, Nigeria girls with your baseless assumptions and fallacies is what surprises me.
ALL Nigerian girls can be labelled bad from different men... expecting that everyone label them good, is funny. even if you are the best woman on earth, there will always be someone out there to label you bad, live with it!

Then the “good” woman gets fed up and decides to follow the crowd.
i guess she wasnt that "good" afterall then...

That relationship is not a job offer.

That spending almost all the day to watch Bollywood/Zee World does not make one creative

That all those love Zee world movies do not apply to Nigeria dating

Make i reserve sit incase the case hot

Too much zee world movies

helinues:
That relationship is not a job offer.

That spending almost all the day to watch Bollywood/Zee World does not make one creative

That all those love Zee world movies do not apply to Nigeria dating

She might be working or have a business of her own or even both, and she'd still be treated in the same crappy way. This relationship is not a job offer excuse from men no longer fly. Not all ladies are leeches

nanauju:


She might be working or have a business of her own or even both, and she'd still be treated same. This relationship is not a job offer excuse from men no longer fly. Not all ladies are leeches

80% of Nigeria ladies can never use their complete money to buy a car. How about that?

MrBrownJay1:
we men want to be able to say what we desire, without having people expecting us to be ONE WAY... some men want women a certain way, others want them differently. expecting ALL men to expect the same from ALL women is foolish. be yourself and basta! if some men dont like the way you are, who cares so long as you live your life the best you can.

as for you thinking that because we are with you, we shouldnt look at other women....you played yourself!

Why would you be with me and look at someone else? And I should keep quiet about it. If those women are better off than I am, why don't you go have them. U can't eat ur cake and have it. U cannot openly cheat on me and expect me to be quiet about it.

helinues:


80% of Nigeria ladies can never use their complete money to buy a car. How about that?

Buying a car is not a basic necessity. A Nigerian woman will work her ass off, or a do a business at least to buy her basic stuffs for survival and give to family and friends in needs when she can extend that hand. Unless she's lazy or just a leech. One day she will buy her car herself with her money. All she deserves is respect.

nanauju:


Buying a car is not a basic necessity. A Nigerian woman will work her ass off, or a do a business at least to buy her basic stuffs for survival and give to family and friends in needs when she can extend that hand. Unless she's lazy or just a leech. One day she will buy her car herself with her money. All she deserves is respect.

A Nigerian woman will work her ass off, or a do a business at least to buy her basic stuffs for survival and give to family and friends in needs when she can extend that hand

.

Bikonu, what's the % of ladies like this in Nigeria?

nanauju:


Why would you be with me and look at someone else? And I should keep quiet about it. If those women are better off than I am, why don't you go have them. U can't eat ur cake and have it. U cannot openly cheat on me and expect me to be quiet about it.

you see? the above is one of the main misunderstanding between men and women... so pls let me enlighten you on the subject:
A) the fact that you date/marry someone, does NOT mean he cant look at other people. you women should stop thinking that you can run men's life and foolishly think that as soon as we date a woman, she MUST become our center of the universe!
B) are you claiming that because a man dates you, he CANNOT/MUST NOT look at any other women than you?! how insecure must women be that they would want to force men to not look at any other women? thats y'all insecurities/low self esteem, thus y'all should deal with it-
C) there will always be women more beautiful than you out there, and there is nothing wrong with looking at beautiful women... and as much as you may not like it, its exactly the same thing when other women look at us while we are with you. they are appreciating the great men you got, and instead of looking down on it, you should smile and be proud of being with such man.
D) checking the competition is a great way to have your woman understand her position in life... you can either get better OR understand that if you dont act right, there is plenty of options out there.. it is called a REALITY CHECK
E) there is a huge difference between "looking" at a beautiful woman and "staring" at her.... educate yourself on the difference, as we men will always appreciate a beautiful thing, whether its a car, house etc.... expecting us not to appreciate a beautiful thing is a fallacy!

FINALLY: thinking that because we look at something beautiful automatically means we want to be with her, is another one of women's insecure low self esteem... some women out there are walking around with their tittays falling out their dresses, some are paying thousands of $$ to have nyansh so fat, it makes us dizzy. NOT LOOKING or NOT SCREAMING DAAAAAAMN at these women is what would really feel abnormal!

A man wants a submissive woman but not a mumu.

Homely lady but not a clueless one. She can be a homely woman and still be a Margaret Thatcher.

Intelligent and ambitious woman not a woman who will make a fool of me with her intelligence but complement mine so we can have better results.

Decent woman but not an mgbeke that ties wrapper up and down at home.

Is this too much to ask for, brothers?

J111333:
A man wants a submissive woman but not a mumu.

Homely lady but not a clueless one. She can be a homely woman and still be a Margaret Thatcher.

Intelligent and ambitious woman not a woman who will make a fool of me with her intelligence but complement mine so we can have better results.

Decent woman but not an mgbeke that ties wrapper up and down at home.

Is this too much to ask for, brothers?

You eventually get one, and what do you do? U manipulate her, play on her intelligence, emotionally/verbally abuse her... The list goes on. You men really don't know what you want. That's what the thread is about anyways

J111333:
A man wants a submissive woman but not a mumu.

Homely lady but not a clueless one. She can be a homely woman and still be a Margaret Thatcher.

Intelligent and ambitious woman not a woman who will make a fool of me with her intelligence but complement mine so we can have better results.

Decent woman but not an mgbeke that ties wrapper up and down at home.

Is this too much to ask for, brothers?

Yes, it is too much. Take mud (the kind that build up after heavy rain in Onitsha) and mould her.

This what they want.

A girl they can cheat on, a girl that will give them money, a girl they can disrespect and act rude to then still come back and worship them.

They want a slave.

nanauju:


You eventually get one, and what do you do? U manipulate her, play on her intelligence, emotionally/verbally abuse her... The list goes on. You men really don't know what you want. That's what the thread is about anyways

You know what I'll do when I get one because you're my big sister abi na my mother?

Ishilove:

Yes, it is too much. Take mud (the kind that build up after heavy rain in Onitsha) and mould her.

Exactly why I'm currently taking classes on moulding.

J111333:
Exactly why I'm currently taking classes on moulding.

LMAO

I have no words for you.

J111333:
You know what I'll do when I get one because you're my big sister abi na my mother?

You will keep her away from rain because she will be made of clay

Not all nigerian men are like this,problem we face in our society today,people don't go for who they want they try to change people into what they want same with men who bash ladies here

Mumu

98.3333% of naija girls are leeches, so all the good attribute you mentioned here are not for them.

my own is simple

i dont need much from a woman
as long as she is
attractive and can cook plus has the flesh in th right place she is good to go

Men never knew what they want right from the day of Adam

lefulefu:
my own is simple

i dont need much from a woman
as long as she is
attractive and can cook plus has the flesh in th right place she is good to go

You never disappoint

lefulefu:
my own is simple

i dont need much from a woman
as long as she is
attractive and can cook plus has the flesh in th right place she is good to go

Chaii very easy to see your type

All I want is woman that can turn my 50k to 200k
Someone with Brains
Cus after the first attraction which is Beauty if you no get something Upstairs we will just end up being WhatsApp Status viewing mates

2dice01:
Chaii very easy to see your type

All I want is woman that can turn my 50k to 200k
Someone with Brains
Cus after the first attraction which is Beauty if you no get something Upstairs we will just end up being WhatsApp Status viewing mates

so u looking for a female albert einstein plus business savvy woman all rolled into one abi?

biacan:
You never disappoint

lefulefu:
so u looking for a female albert einstein plus business savvy woman all rolled into one abi?

If you know how i feel when talking to an intelligent lady eehn

She doesn't have to Einstein
But have to be creative and stand even if the captain of the ship isn't around or available

2dice01:
If you know how i feel when talking to an intelligent lady eehn

She doesn't have to Einstein
But have to be creative and stand even if the captain of the ship isn't around or available

of wat use will be the intelligence when in za oza room with u

lefulefu:
of wat use will be the intelligence when in za oza room with u

lmao

Are you thinking only about za oza room when you marry?

The Big nyash and succulent boobs go tire you my Guy