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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by NoToPile: 12:05pm On May 09, 2020
The problem is that our church people use the word engaged carelessly.

She might not be engaged at all but if truly she is just let her go.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Mkayfrenzy(m): 12:07pm On May 09, 2020
I'm in the same situation...but she's the one in love... But me I go fvck this one before she marry. Na lockdown dey delay.

Use your head bro. No go dey catch nonsense feelings to avoid stories that touch. If u have the chance, chop her p**sy and comot. U'll be glad you did.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by AmazingELixir: 12:07pm On May 09, 2020
undecided undecided


OP gaan find your own fish, leave another's fish already in the net.

All those signal you think she's giving you are projections of your now crooked imaginations.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Angelfrost(m): 12:07pm On May 09, 2020
Feelings are normal things between red blooded persons of the opposite sex... She probably feels same way too, maybe to a lesser degree... Feelings of lust even arise between married persons and other married or single persons. Nothing new here...

However, confusing lust or passing interest with something deep like love will be unwise, if not downright idiotic!!!

This is the time to put up boundaries, and respectable or dignifying distance or space between you two. Do this before you unnecessarily hang your emotions and valuable time on something pointless, even dangerous!!!

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by enemyofprogress: 12:07pm On May 09, 2020
Op what exactly do you want from her? Marriage or chop and clean mouth?let me know what you want so that i will know the kind of jazz I will do for you to achieve what you want.


Good afternoon my dominique
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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by GamalNasser: 12:08pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.

My friend except you have a Bentley lifestyle to give her leave her alone please and go and find your own
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Bostin(m): 12:09pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


Are you saying there a possibility she might still be interested in my proposal? You are a lady you'd be in a better position to tell me how you guys operate because am not understanding again. Lol
Pele lover boy ...Try your luck , if it works out then expect same treatment from her when next Crush comes to take her away from you . Such lady are unstable creature ..

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Olarewaju89: 12:09pm On May 09, 2020
Oga, leave her alone.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Joshmuch: 12:09pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


She seems sensible bro... She is also a graduate and I know it might sound weird but I love fair pretty ladies.
seconded Baba. Some even say fair beautiful ladies are bad luck bla bla. They cheat. Story for Covid-19. Whoever makes your heart sing or make your gbola rise, I beg follow am. Life is all about making choices that makes us fulfilled not in pleasing people.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by ednut1(m): 12:10pm On May 09, 2020
Lol. Her husband dey abroad. Needs you for servicing
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by enemyofprogress: 12:10pm On May 09, 2020
NoToPile:
The problem is that our church people use the word engaged carelessly.

She might not be engaged at all but if truly she is just let her go.
Why should he let her go? Have you forgottened the saying, one man's meat is another man's poison
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ishilove: 12:10pm On May 09, 2020
Bettet leave somebody's wife alone.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by MisterGrace: 12:11pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.

Nobody is coming for you, it's just your mind. Eave her the fvck alone.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by adusco(m): 12:11pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.

There is no crime if you try out another lady in Church after all she told she will be getting married, you have a valid point if she accuse you. Move on and walk up to another lady you like.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by OLAJADON: 12:13pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.
if truly she is engaged I will suggest you leave her alone, will you like when someone is disturbing the woman you intend to marry, please put yourself in the guy shoes.
Moreover, if she intends to hold on to you like you said, are you ready to settle with that kind of person, someone that is not trustworthy and can't fight for her relationship.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by zedegit: 12:13pm On May 09, 2020
xendra:
She wants to check if you are a better option.

Afterall she is engaged not married, So......

kiss
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by YungJo207(m): 12:14pm On May 09, 2020
enemyofprogress:
Why should he let her go? Have you forgottened the saying, one man's meat is another man's poison

Reading what you wrote I wanted to say something but looking at your moniker it's ok it's fine I totally understand.....
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by BigTableShaker(f): 12:14pm On May 09, 2020
You dey madt ni?

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by lenghtinny(m): 12:15pm On May 09, 2020
Oga you have been put on hold....

That is too say you have become a backup plan....

That is too say you are now Plan B.....

That is too say you are among the option like a multiple choice question.....

That is too say you have been put on standby....

That is too say you have made it to the substitute bench; you can be called on at any time.....

That is too say your chances has gone from 100 to 50-50. But it won’t remain 50-50 for long... It either goes down to Zero or return to 100.

That is too say you have been yanked off the friend zone. You are now somewhere called the waiting zone.



All hope is not lost because anything can happen like football.

But I don’t know if she’s worth waiting for angry

Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by MadamExcellency: 12:15pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.

Go and tell your pastor this same thing you opined here.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Nobody: 12:16pm On May 09, 2020
Fear God

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by enemyofprogress: 12:16pm On May 09, 2020
YungJo207:


Reading what you wrote I wanted to say something but looking at your moniker it's ok it's fine I totally understand.....
thank you. I can also do the jazz for you too
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by lenghtinny(m): 12:17pm On May 09, 2020
OLAJADON:

if truly she is engaged I will suggest you leave her alone, will you like when someone is disturbing the woman you intend to marry, please put yourself in the guy shoes.
Moreover, if she intends to hold on to you like you said, are you ready to settle with that kind of person, someone that is not trustworthy and can't fight for her relationship.
From the OP’s post, she’s the one trying to hold on to him and I can relate because girls do that sh*t a lot....

She might even be lying about the engagement.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Meteng: 12:18pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.
She knows she's not yet married till December and she wants to knack till then, oblige her bro. Don't dull, she go come tink say you be mumu if continue dey dull
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by benzzyno(m): 12:18pm On May 09, 2020
Av actually had a lady tell me she was engaged first time i approached her.. Turns out she just wanted to know if really cared as i claimed.. Ladies really come in different shapes.. U never can tell.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by manontree: 12:19pm On May 09, 2020
She just graduated. Shouldn't she be trying to start a career first before marriage. I don't understand why women would rush into marriage once they graduate

For the poster, I doubt if she is engaged as she said. If she is, this is a red flag for you. If she can give other men green light while in a serious relationship with a man, she would likely do the same against you when you win her over

Be wise

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by YungJo207(m): 12:19pm On May 09, 2020
enemyofprogress:
thank you. I can also do the jazz for you too


Nahhh mehn am good... grin
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by loswhite(m): 12:21pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


I haven't ruined anybody's happiness neither do I intend to do so. Try and read my post well and my reply to other comments.
lol.... The way humans lie to themselves...smh.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by zedegit: 12:21pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


Are you saying there a possibility she might still be interested in my proposal? You are a lady you'd be in a better position to tell me how you guys operate because am not understanding again. Lol


That's what she was saying.
For me, I will suggest you give her a month and talk to her again. Her response this time will determine your next action.

If she says, no again, I will suggest you move on cos these ladies are good in manipulation. You won't pause your life for her nah only for you to hear Bro. Ezekiel weds Sister Faith from the altar.

Next would be: Let's give God a round of applause. I doubt you will be able to follow the remaining activities consciously.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by zedegit: 12:22pm On May 09, 2020
Ndeoma:


Are you saying there a possibility she might still be interested in my proposal? You are a lady you'd be in a better position to tell me how you guys operate am not understanding again. Lol


That's what she was saying.
For me, I will suggest you give her a month and talk to her again. Her response this time will determine your next action.

If she says, no again, I will suggest you move on cos these ladies are good in manipulation. You won't pause your life for her nah only for you to hear Bro. Ezekiel weds Sister Faith from the altar.

Next would be: Let's give God a round of applause. I doubt you will be able to follow the remaining activities consciously.

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