We started dating last year and the relationship was moving fine. I realize that anytime we have misunderstanding, especially serious ones.. She'll always threaten to hurt me spiritually. There was a time last year when we were just discussing, she said she's not ordinary like she has a sort of connection or belongs to the marine/water kingdom. I actually got the message but we were already dating then. I wouldn't have started any relationship with her if she has told me before we started dating. I didn't even know if she's saying the truth or trying to scare me . So she came to my side by Feb to spend some days and I mistaken stumbled upon her chat where she was sex chatting and sending nudes to her ex. I reacted immediately and she started begging. I was really hurt and disappointed. I later realize she still really love her ex despite the fact that the guy to maltreat her the guy even dates other ladies. She said we won't do it again but i find it difficult to forget because d sexchat was mad... Coupled with her nude. Few weeks later, she started complaining, nagging and saying a lot of annoying things then i reminded her about the sexchat i saw on her phone. Then she started saying why do i have to remind her of something that has happened in the past, do i think i can have sex with her and leave, she will "show me pepper" I will regret it, she will not forgive me, she will punish me.. Guys that cheated her before are now regretting and begging her depite the fact that she was the one that cheated and bleeped up.

I told her i didn't cheat her, she cheated on me and i'm not in anyway afraid of her, "anything wey she want make she do".

I actually love her and plan a future with her but with her cheating attitude and constant threat, i cant take it anymore.. i have planned to end the relationship for the sake of my sanity.

How many of you guys have been in this kind of relationship and how did you handle it? I need advice nairalanders, thanks.

I will advice u use ur head

don't be a fool, a women that threatens you can actually harm you...don't be a fool once again...

quietly leave her.. she's no good for a man like you.

she noticed u are a simp that's why she's bullying u to stay.Ask yourself this question,why didn't she hurt her ex despite he cheated.

Smh. Dominique do the needful. FP

End it now and start seeking for spiritual help..than watch her destroy u and all u have gathered in life in the near future.

Some people will so bully you when they learn your weakness. See as my guy is getting bullied! Every little challenge he gets in life he’ll now be associating it with some relationship!

Be careful bro
No one can tell if she’s actually possessed or something,just play her ghostmode

Ghost her and make her tired of the relationship.
Stop having sex with her
It will hard shaa but try

[quote author=Supredible post=89421965]We started dating last year and the relationship was moving fine. I realize that anytime we have misunderstanding, especially serious ones.. She'll always threaten to hurt me spiritually. There was a time last year when we were just discussing, she said she's not ordinary like she has a sort of connection or belongs to the marine/water kingdom. I actually got the message but we were already dating then. I wouldn't have started any relationship with her if she has told me before we started dating. I didn't even know if she's saying the truth or trying to scare me . So she came to my side by Feb to spend some days and I mistaken stumbled upon her chat where she was sex chatting and sending nudes to her ex. I reacted immediately and she started begging. I was really hurt and disappointed. I later realize she still really love her ex despite the fact that the guy to maltreat her the guy even dates other ladies. She said we won't do it again but i find it difficult to forget because d sexchat was mad... Coupled with her nude. Few weeks later, she started complaining, nagging and saying a lot of annoying things then i reminded her about the sexchat i saw on her phone. Then she started saying why do i have to remind her of something that has happened in the past, do i think i can have sex with her and leave, she will "show me pepper" I will regret it, she will not forgive me, she will punish me.. Guys that cheated her before are now regretting and begging her depite the fact that she was the one that cheated and bleeped up.

I told her i didn't cheat her, she cheated on me and i'm not in anyway afraid of her, "anything wey she want make she do".

I actually love her and plan a future with her but with her cheating attitude and constant threat, i cant take it anymore.. i have planned to end the relationship for the sake of my sanity.

How many of you guys have been in this kind of relationship and how did you handle it? I need advice nairalanders, thanks.

My guy run for ya life.

Supredible:
We started dating last year and the relationship was moving fine. I realize that anytime we have misunderstanding, especially serious ones.. She'll always threaten to hurt me spiritually. There was a time last year when we were just discussing, she said she's not ordinary like she has a sort of connection or belongs to the marine/water kingdom. I actually got the message but we were already dating then. I wouldn't have started any relationship with her if she has told me before we started dating. I didn't even know if she's saying the truth or trying to scare me . So she came to my side by Feb to spend some days and I mistaken stumbled upon her chat where she was sex chatting and sending nudes to her ex. I reacted immediately and she started begging. I was really hurt and disappointed. I later realize she still really love her ex despite the fact that the guy to maltreat her the guy even dates other ladies. She said we won't do it again but i find it difficult to forget because d sexchat was mad... Coupled with her nude. Few weeks later, she started complaining, nagging and saying a lot of annoying things then i reminded her about the sexchat i saw on her phone. Then she started saying why do i have to remind her of something that has happened in the past, do i think i can have sex with her and leave, she will "show me pepper" I will regret it, she will not forgive me, she will punish me.. Guys that cheated her before are now regretting and begging her depite the fact that she was the one that cheated and bleeped up.

I told her i didn't cheat her, she cheated on me and i'm not in anyway afraid of her, "anything wey she want make she do".

I actually love her and plan a future with her but with her cheating attitude and constant threat, i cant take it anymore.. i have planned to end the relationship for the sake of my sanity.

How many of you guys have been in this kind of relationship and how did you handle it? I need advice nairalanders, thanks.

you know how many girls don swear for me before?

samincredible44:
she noticed u are a simp that's why she's bullying u to stay.Ask yourself this question,why didn't she hurt her ex despite he cheated.

girls dey look face before misbehaving...they know the calibre of men they mess with. When you shine teeth with them too much they will misbehave.

That is why from the onset I don't condone jokes like "big head" ,hissing,hanging up phones in anger,tantrums,etc I let you know you are dispensable from the onset and that they are girls on the queue in case you goof up.

Kingarthur21:
you know how many girls don swear for me before?

I tire O. Very fake guy

If I tell you all the girls wey don get heartbreak from me right from university days to many years now I am working, yet I still keep progressing in my career and financially.

Forget all those threats. Leave the girl for your own good.

Kingarthur21:
girls dey look face before misbehaving...they know the calibre of men they mess with. When you shine teeth with them too much they will misbehave.

That is why from the onset I don't condone jokes like "big head" ,hissing,hanging up phones in anger,tantrums,etc I let you know you are dispensable from the onset and that they are girls on the queue in case you goof up.

you be correct gee.since she's not your mom then she is replaceable

Stop tinkni abt breaking up,go ahead and breakup she can do no shit
Dats hw i dated 1 idiot like dat in 2016

Op a simple kwesion re you orite at all, pour anointing oil ontop her she will receive spiritual change or better still leave. . .

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[quote author=samincredible44 post=89422202]she noticed u are a simp that's why she's bullying u to stay.Ask yourself this question,why didn't she hurt her ex despite he cheated.[/quote

luwiizy:
don't be a fool, a women that threatens you can actually harm you...don't be a fool once again...

quietly leave her.. she's no good for a man like you.

Thanks

akinjojo1234:


I tire O. Very fake guy

If I tell you all the girls wey don get heartbreak from me right from university days to many years now I am working, yet I still keep progressing in my career and financially.

Forget all those threats. Leave the girl for your own good.

Alright, thanks...

Kaykay999:
Be careful bro
No one can tell if she’s actually possessed or something,just play her ghostmode

Ghost her and make her tired of the relationship.
Stop having sex with her
It will hard shaa but try

Thanks, Advice taken*

Yes d girl is correct. How can u sex her when she isn't ur wife, and worse still u are thinking of dumping her after seeing n tasting her? Abeg baby harm this op if he leaves or dumps u. Women really need to take a cue from this types of girls

samincredible44:
she noticed u are a simp that's why she's bullying u to stay.Ask yourself this question,why didn't she hurt her ex despite he cheated.

I'm not a simp bro... I'm cool though, i have never taken bullshit from her and i've told her i'm ending the relationship when i saw the chats. Thanks though.

Quality20:
Yes d girl is correct. How can u sex her when she isn't ur wife, and worse still u are thinking of dumping her after seeing n tasting her? Abeg baby harm this op if he leaves or dumps u. Women really need to take a cue from this types of girls

Did you read what i wrote at all? Did i force her to have sex with me? Your talk is offpoint sir.

OP but if this girl is truly from marine kingdom that sex part can bring u down ooo...... Just pray and staysafe

you be mumu Op, which marine kingdom? marine kingdom ko, river Niger ni


one idiot once said she will go naked to swear for me, I just told the idiot you just want to feed those things your house yr boobs and ass to watch o, my mama self no fit swear for me to reach me not to talk of you mgbeke



she just dey confused and dumbfounded, no lady can threaten me because she go dey meet God for front. nonsense


you should dumb the idiot and get a mental balance lady, I don't know why you guys now date yaba left patients as gf these days

Supredible:
We started dating last year and the relationship was moving fine. I realize that anytime we have misunderstanding, especially serious ones.. She'll always threaten to hurt me spiritually. There was a time last year when we were just discussing, she said she's not ordinary like she has a sort of connection or belongs to the marine/water kingdom. I actually got the message but we were already dating then. I wouldn't have started any relationship with her if she has told me before we started dating. I didn't even know if she's saying the truth or trying to scare me . So she came to my side by Feb to spend some days and I mistaken stumbled upon her chat where she was sex chatting and sending nudes to her ex. I reacted immediately and she started begging. I was really hurt and disappointed. I later realize she still really love her ex despite the fact that the guy to maltreat her the guy even dates other ladies. She said we won't do it again but i find it difficult to forget because d sexchat was mad... Coupled with her nude. Few weeks later, she started complaining, nagging and saying a lot of annoying things then i reminded her about the sexchat i saw on her phone. Then she started saying why do i have to remind her of something that has happened in the past, do i think i can have sex with her and leave, she will "show me pepper" I will regret it, she will not forgive me, she will punish me.. Guys that cheated her before are now regretting and begging her depite the fact that she was the one that cheated and bleeped up.

I told her i didn't cheat her, she cheated on me and i'm not in anyway afraid of her, "anything wey she want make she do".

I actually love her and plan a future with her but with her cheating attitude and constant threat, i cant take it anymore.. i have planned to end the relationship for the sake of my sanity.

How many of you guys have been in this kind of relationship and how did you handle it? I need advice nairalanders, thanks.

Na wash, she just wan trap you down since she no fit hold any guy. Her new way now na threats. Besides bro even if she's real you will be a fool if she succeeds in doing you. Aren't you an African? Well a word is enough for the wise

Oga Ade, alaye use your upper oooh, then no dey tell person oooh, find a way to settle the quarell between you and her and leave her on peaceful amicable terms ooh. Nigerian ladies don't know dangote or otedolas house for you to prosper ooh but they know all the babalawo houses in this world oooh!! Don't try shit, ooh I dey warn you!!

Just beg her and pet her, even dobale for her and tell her not to be angry again.

For the spiritual part, stop sleeping with her again and start going to church or fasting and seroisu prayer for your life. But just be "friends" only with her.

Nigerian women can't but N5 lollipop for you but they can spent N5 million to ruin your life oooh!!!

A word is enough for the wise oooh!!!