Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,693,050 members, 6,346,617 topics. Date: Saturday, 19 June 2021 at 11:43 AM

My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? (57249 Views)

Why Do Girls Feel Guilty After The First Sex, Most Especially? / "Good Sex Will Make You Disown Your Family" - Man As He Lists / 'Lack Of Sex Will Make You Mad' - Nigerian "Slay Queen" (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply) (Go Down)

My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Sebastine1994(m): 7:13pm On May 12
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

79 Likes 9 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Jeon(m): 7:17pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Sammy07: 7:17pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Lol.
1st question.
Did you met her a virgin?

207 Likes 7 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Sebastine1994(m): 7:21pm On May 12
Sammy07:

Lol. 1st question. Did you met her a virgin?
she might be online

58 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Cutehector(m): 7:23pm On May 12
You are doing a good job on her..

7 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Sammy07: 7:34pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:


she might be online

Oh, she's a nlder

11 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ahiboilandgas: 7:34pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

722 Likes 42 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by uboma(m): 7:51pm On May 12
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

You are right!

I owe you some bottles of beer.

460 Likes 21 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Opak001(m): 8:01pm On May 12
Na setup,till u marry u go know.
Elders were na dey...
Broda down

219 Likes 5 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by donbachi(m): 8:17pm On May 12
She's cheating on someone with u..dats the reason.

287 Likes 16 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by koladata(m): 8:21pm On May 12
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

504 Likes 15 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by longetivity(m): 8:32pm On May 12
Ur girlfriend na mami water

22 Likes 4 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Theboy21(m): 8:38pm On May 12
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha grin grin grin gringrin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

8 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:29pm On May 12
She would get use to it , give her time

6 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by odinson1(m): 9:32pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

She isn't feeling guilty one shit!

She's just Trying to tie you down with marriage

121 Likes 5 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Propheticdavid: 10:07pm On May 12
koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .
So it's not sin.kai.. Fornication everywhere.

58 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Starz825(m): 10:24pm On May 12
Propheticdavid:

So it's not sin.kai.. Fornication everywhere.

3 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Yusufisraelj(m): 10:34pm On May 12
koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

@Sebastine1994

The above is the only valid explanation, anything not subscribing to that is plain trash.

She's not teleguiding anything, or tying you down.

What are your values and where's your conscience?

Don't let 21st century nonsense make you sell destiny for temporary pleasure. The painful part is that you're not even settling down yet especially with whom you're fvcking.

243 Likes 15 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Masturbator2020: 10:46pm On May 12
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
Personally I do feel guilty too after sex..it's the fear of God.

147 Likes 5 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ayo2004: 11:20pm On May 12
Na reverse psychology grin
U better run away from marriage

7 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by GayPontiff: 12:02am On May 13
Fornicator

18 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Kvng6464: 12:25am On May 13
Maybe you know sabi knack well grin grin

5 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by brainmax2000: 1:53am On May 13
SHOULD WE TELL HIM

7 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nobody: 2:45am On May 13
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique
You already state the reason for her guilt and unhappiness, since you love her, marry her so she can start having sex with Joy

62 Likes 4 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ChiefSosa(m): 6:17am On May 13
If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son, but I got 99 problems and a bïtch ain't one....

14 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by immortal2: 9:21am On May 13
The poor girl might have been trained in the way of Truth. Unfortunately, she has not personally experienced the Truth so as to be empowered to walk in it. This is were the guilt comes from. Please encourage her to go back to the Truth, while you seek out evil people like yourself.

#the struggle between the flesh and the spirit.

238 Likes 12 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Begin(m): 9:38am On May 13
ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.
The bobo no smart the girl they real play with him mind. Na so one be won run me for skul that year me way be say na confirm street, after we don go down finish bae go start cry say she don promise God say she no go do this kind tin again Lol, two days time if I touch her na so she go spread leg wide open me self way no get time na so I go dive enter after everything me self go come start to the form say my consice they disturbe me

48 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ChangedMan1999(m): 9:41am On May 13
Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique



I hope you will marry that girl.

You can't chop every thing in her and leave her for another man.

34 Likes

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ahiboilandgas: 10:19am On May 13
Begin:
The bobo no smart the girl they real play with him mind. Na so one be won run me for skul that year me way be say na confirm street, after we don go down finish bae go start cry say she don promise God say she no go do this kind tin again Lol, two days time if I touch her na so she go spread leg wide open me self way no get time na so I go dive enter after everything me self go come start to the form say my consice they disturbe me
bad guy

11 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Harry00(m): 10:57am On May 13
don't know what y'all talking about abt

1 Like

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply)

It Is Wrong To Ask “how Was Your Night?” – Here’s Why. / This Man Can Not Stop Admiring His Fiancée's Bum Bum In Prewedding Photos / 'I Lost My Man Because I Slept With 43 Men' - Lady Confesses

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 117
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.