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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Mypeople2(m): 12:13pm On May 12, 2020
Well I have not dated one before
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 12:16pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:


I mean am grin but you never answer my question. You don stop to dey smoke? I wan even add drinking to am but make I no add am. cheesy
No lie o, remember sey you dey fast. undecided
Yeah bro, I have and yeah I'm fasting
Show me love

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Venzal: 1:08pm On May 12, 2020
Hisduchess:


Lol.no one's duchess o.just wanted to make the duchess moniker unique by adding 'His' to it cheesy
grin Honestly, it's catchy. But it also screams "taken" like there's a Duke somewhere waiting to impair anyone -- with his sword -- who dares to speak with "his" duchess smiley
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Unclesamo(m): 1:20pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
If somebody puts a smile on ur face you do the same in return na grin
Make person try ask for my aza make I smile at all at all naim bad pass
.
.
Come and enter Heaven lemme see

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by LawyerGodwin(m): 1:46pm On May 12, 2020
Kikiki,

In my own case, they are the ones that dates me. So they do all the necessary, and I just show the love and affection.

Good old days...

#smiles
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 2:47pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:

Yeah bro, I have and yeah I'm fasting
Show me love

I no be bro undecided

I don send something to your aza. grin

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 12, 2020
Need is different from want. Only insecure people need stuff outside of them to identify them. It also means that once those things are no longer available, then they cease to exist.


illicit:


I am yet to meet a guy who doesn't define himself by one thing or the other tho.

Alpha male or not, you can't be seen as anything if you can't boast of somethings.

we all need things to define us

in this present generation, without money, Alpha male my as.s

you will just be seen as a broke as.s pompous rude nigga.

I knew an alpha male who lost his job.
when he had that job he was everything in the house, lording his woman.
job lost. he would want his pregnant wife who now does his feeding to still wash his clothes while he put his legs on a stool watching TV morning to evening.... This story didn't end well. the woman upped one day and left for the UK.

the alpha male does laundry and dry cleaning now. not a bad job but he wouldn't have done it if he didn't swallow his pride.

something defines us.

Money made him kept us his alpha male status. when money left, no matter how hard he tried no body saw him as alpha male , they just saw him as a pompous SOB
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Nobody: 2:53pm On May 12, 2020
You will find that physical will be least consideration after 10 years of marriage. You can marry a very fine woman who will put on weight after child birth and might never be able to loose it. If you also marry a fitness freak, then she might not want to have kids, cook normal meals that you like, have time for house work. This means that the cost of maybe having a forever tapping woman lies in your pocket. Make enough money, marry a very young woman and outsource all the house work including childbirth. But again every malam with em kettle.

Bahamas95:
No na! She is 5years older than me. I won't even marry a lady that's my age mate, most women get older than their husbands with time. I don't want a situation where my wife would look like my mum or elder sister later.

Marriage isn't part of our agreement, if she sees any man that's interested in her she can get married. "You scratch my back, I scratch your back" That's what we are doing now.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 3:17pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:


I no be bro undecided

I don send something to your aza. grin
Pls send me your WhatsApp number , i wanna tell you something very special , don't be afraid I'm not tryna woo you

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 3:35pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:

Pls send me your WhatsApp number , i wanna tell you something very special , don't be afraid I'm not tryna woo you

cheesy who dey fear? smh
I don send you PM. Tell me via email na undecided undecided

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 3:51pm On May 12, 2020
Somebody help me thank VickyRotex for the love
God bless you abundantly grin cool

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 3:58pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:

Yeah bro, I have and yeah I'm fasting
Show me love
Thanks thanks thanks cool grin
God safeguard and bless you abundantly
I don even ginger to write more

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 4:23pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex and the rest I'm back again grin

For those who have been wondering how I ended up with the girl here it goes

Around November that same yr 2013 she told me of her parents pressurizing her that she's choosed her job over getting married , that they've been on her neck to get married
I don't need to be told that this babe want us to take it to the next level
But deep inside I love the girl , although she had big men coming after her though , but she just loved my flow , you can't be with me for 5 mins and not be happy , happiness go kill u sefgrin no matter how ur mind strong reach like buhari own grin grin grin no be my handwriting oo but ogun lo ma payin
Tge next weekend she drove to my place as usual , we just chilled together in my room , sex wasnt no big deal again cuz we jusy dey groove like say tomorrow no they
She then asked me a question that got me speechless

Her: would you love to settle down with me someday?
Me: ............sure why not grin but for my mind God no go let me use hunger kill u , besides i wasn't even ready to settle down in the next 6 more yrs coming wink

To cut it short , I discussed it with my elder sister's husband , he's very friendly
He told me that if I know I'm not ready to settle down that I shouldn't waste her time and she's a bit older than me and she's also pressurized to get married
Auditors never have time for themselves but work , especially when you're in the oil firm, calculating billions and trillions chai miney oooooooo , infact VickyRotex thanks one more time my dear grin Olori ebi

I had sleepless nights thinking on how to tell her my intentions in a non harmful way , I don't wanna hurt her feelings , and I'm the type that don't do things for my selfish interest
Number 1 I'm not ready to get married
Number 2 I'm not buoyant , shey I go marry make woman they feed me join grin she go tire one day na
Woman go come give me mineu to pay her bride price laye

One day i sent her an SMS , it was on Friday , told her i wanna take her out
She replied happily yeah
We went to ojota , ogudu road , a bar called La pouch

I ensured that I drank enough Heineken so I started telling her my mind , I made her understand some things , believe me she's an understanding girl
Although she was hurt a bit , but she later understood my plight
She then revealed to me that she has a guy she's dating , just that he doesn't give her much attention , he's always busy with work , that's why she loved hanging around with me , and that's how she ended up fallling for me but the said guy of hers has been begging her to forgive him that he wants to marry her
From there I felt somehow jealous Sha , truly I love the babe , but I can't let my selfish interest destroy her own future
Imagine say on our wedding day for our tent
For the tables them come design names like , Nelly NNPC
and Dave caterer grin no naw e no go make sense grin grin

That's how it ended , she later married the following year Sha , and they relocated to Cyprus where the buy bought a house
We still chat on Facebook once in a while , but I just don't put much interest into it inorder not to bring back old memories cuz till date I still miss her �

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 4:44pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
Somebody help me thank VickyRotex for the love
God bless you abundantly grin cool

grin cheesy lol God bless you too.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 5:25pm On May 12, 2020
grin
VickyRotex:

I no be bro undecided
I don send something to your aza. grin
VickyRotex Show me love too na
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 5:39pm On May 12, 2020
Glorywap:
grin
VickyRotex Show me love too na

I hope you know that I know who you are.

You honestly didn't need to create a new account. Just ask with your normal moniker.

Smh!

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 5:45pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:


I hope you know that I know who you are.

You honestly didn't need to create a new account. Just ask with your normal moniker.

Smh!

VickyRotex You don‘t know who I am cos am asking with my normal moniker show me too love na.
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 5:49pm On May 12, 2020
Glorywap:

VickyRotex You don‘t know who I am cos am asking with my normal moniker show me too love na.

Please stop! No vex me abeg. I know who you are!

Keep stealing people's picture online and creating fake accounts.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by buklarbest: 5:50pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
VickyRotex and the rest I'm back again grin

For those who have been wondering how I ended up with the girl here it goes

Around November that same yr 2013 she told me of her parents pressurizing her that she's choosed her job over getting married , that they've been on her neck to get married
I don't need to be told that this babe want us to take it to the next level
But deep inside I love the girl , although she had big men coming after her though , but she just loved my flow , you can't be with me for 5 mins and not be happy , happiness go kill u sefgrin no matter how ur mind strong reach like buhari own grin grin grin no be my handwriting oo but ogun lo ma payin
Tge next weekend she drove to my place as usual , we just chilled together in my room , sex wasnt no big deal again cuz we jusy dey groove like say tomorrow no they
She then asked me a question that got me speechless

Her: would you love to settle down with me someday?
Me: ............sure why not grin but for my mind God no go let me use hunger kill u , besides i wasn't even ready to settle down in the next 6 more yrs coming wink

To cut it short , I discussed it with my elder sister's husband , he's very friendly
He told me that if I know I'm not ready to settle down that I shouldn't waste her time and she's a bit older than me and she's also pressurized to get married
Auditors never have time for themselves but work , especially when you're in the oil firm, calculating billions and trillions chai miney oooooooo , infact VickyRotex thanks one more time my dear grin Olori ebi

I had sleepless nights thinking on how to tell her my intentions in a non harmful way , I don't wanna hurt her feelings , and I'm the type that don't do things for my selfish interest
Number 1 I'm not ready to get married
Number 2 I'm not buoyant , shey I go marry make woman they feed me join grin she go tire one day na
Woman go come give me mineu to pay her bride price laye

One day i sent her an SMS , it was on Friday , told her i wanna take her out
She replied happily yeah
We went to ojota , ogudu road , a bar called La pouch

I ensured that I drank enough Heineken so I started telling her my mind , I made her understand some things , believe me she's an understanding girl
Although she was hurt a bit , but she later understood my plight
She then revealed to me that she has a guy she's dating , just that he doesn't give her much attention , he's always busy with work , that's why she loved hanging around with me , and that's how she ended up fallling for me but the said guy of hers has been begging her to forgive him that he wants to marry her
From there I felt somehow jealous Sha , truly I love the babe , but I can't let my selfish interest destroy her own future
Imagine say on our wedding day for our tent
For the tables them come design names like , Nelly NNPC
and Dave caterer grin no naw e no go make sense grin grin

That's how it ended , she later married the following year Sha , and they relocated to Cyprus where the buy bought a house
We still chat on Facebook once in a while , but I just don't put much interest into it inorder not to bring back old memories cuz till date I still miss her �





You did the right thing oga. Thanks for making me refresh this page at least twice in 30 minutes since I opened this tread yesterday.

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by clevybrown(m): 5:53pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
WHO'S READY FOR MY SECOND EXPERIENCE
YOUR COMMENTS WILL DECIDE IF I SHOULD DROP IT OR NOT , MEANWHILE NOBODY DON EVEN SHOW ME LOVE FOR THE LAST ONE grin
Guyyyyyyyyyy.......
U made mention of sharing ur second experience... how far now.? I really don't know how u are doing it, but am just enjoying ur story all the way.
Narrate ur second experience bro.... Na beg I dey beg... undecided undecided
Mention me when u do pls grin

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Lamiri(m): 6:00pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
WHO'S READY FOR MY SECOND EXPERIENCE
YOUR COMMENTS WILL DECIDE IF I SHOULD DROP IT OR NOT , MEANWHILE NOBODY DON EVEN SHOW ME LOVE FOR THE LAST ONE grin
bro create your own thread na,we love you smiley

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 6:01pm On May 12, 2020
Lamiri:
bro create your own thread na,we love you smiley
love you too bro
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 6:01pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:

Please stop! No vex me abeg. I know who you are!
Keep stealing people's picture online and creating fake accounts.
grin[ VickyRotex I said you should show me too love na. I am for real na
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Lamiri(m): 6:02pm On May 12, 2020
smiley smiley
Dreyton36:
love you too bro
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Blessnelly(f): 6:03pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:

Please stop! No vex me abeg. I know who you are!
Keep stealing people's picture online and creating fake accounts.
4 real?
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 6:03pm On May 12, 2020
clevybrown:
Guyyyyyyyyyy.......
U made mention of sharing ur second experience... how far now.? I really don't know how u are doing it, but am just enjoying ur story all the way.
Narrate ur second experience bro.... Na beg I dey beg... undecided undecided
Mention me when u do pls grin
I've dropped am the stories to the last bro
Just follow the thread and keep an eye on my name
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 6:05pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:
love you too bro
Dreyton36 Send my own share to me na abi you wan chop the moni alone grin
Dreyton36:
love you too bro
Dreyton36 Send my own share to me na abi you wan chop the moni alone
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Omoluabi16(m): 6:06pm On May 12, 2020
VickyRotex:


Please stop! No vex me abeg. I know who you are!

Keep stealing people's picture online and creating fake accounts.
haaa! Vicks you dey do COVID giveaway. Make I drop make you aza me too? I get triplets for house and my wife breast no bring water. Oya shower me with blessings cheesy

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Dreyton36: 6:08pm On May 12, 2020
Glorywap:

Dreyton36 Send my own share to me na abi you wan chop the moni alone grin
Dreyton36 Send my own share to me na abi you wan chop the moni alone
No wahala boss , make i gather house rent money complete first , na just one good-hearted person don bless me

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Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by BabbanBura(m): 6:13pm On May 12, 2020
fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.

OP abeg I wan such gal, connect me nah. I wan feel what it is like the other way, abeg
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Glorywap(f): 6:16pm On May 12, 2020
Dreyton36:

No wahala boss , make i gather house rent money complete first , na just one good-hearted person don bless me
Dreyton36 Send me moni for bottle water na atall atall na him bad pass
Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by VickyRotex(f): 6:21pm On May 12, 2020
Omoluabi16:
haaa! Vicks you dey do COVID giveaway. Make I drop make you aza me too? I get triplets for house and my wife breast no bring water. Oya shower me with blessings cheesy

Omoluabi! cheesy cheesy I no do giveaway ooo. who I be? angry cry cry

Baba triplet, no worry we go fire prayer. her breast must bring water/milk by force. nothing wey prayer no fit do o. cheesy grin grin

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