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At 41, if things have not gel yet, what will you do? You can only wait until you get your bearing as a man rather than make a family you will not be able to cater for. That alone can cut a mans life short or mar the the childrens' future.

Get married when all is almost set. Don't let anyone mount undue pressure on you cos they won't help cater for your family. Also be prayerful so God can settle you in due time.

Shalom.

austine4real:
. U can't compare then and now things have changed bro

Are u saying youth of today are less active ??.




Big lie, speak for yourself ....even today 50yrs self, their wife is not enough, they still ball outside ...this lockdown exposed many ...Bro , at 41 , that's when the youthfulness starts ...the balling becomes very strong up till 55 , when fading starting coming in....abeg delete that your post....it is only for female at 41, I know that may have issue not male , at all.

My guy you are dam too late. At 41 you just want to start to buy pampers, at 60 you are still paying school fees. When will you eat the fruit of your labour.
Mind you life expectancy in Nigeria is around 53 year. Sea
Wish you luck ...........

kuuljay:
happiness comes first in marriage,making children is secondary,

wise words

oaselemi:
if you are a male, at the age of 41 it's late but you can still get marry and you still have another 40 yrs to keep on reproducing. if na female you be, it is very very late for you then if you don't have a fiancee or a boyfriend ready for marriage,trouble dey well well o because menopause starts at 45 so my advice is to look for one young man wey go give u belle ASAP because u have only 4 more yrs.

Lol this one Na street advice

Having read most comments here today I am so disappointed.

Marriage at 41 for male or female is not late what matters is your marital goals, reproduction glands, hormones to be effective.

according to D. Washington in a movie called Equaliser he said when you pray for it to rain, be ready to deal with the mud too

meaning be ready to deal with kids troubles.

Bros there is nothing like growing up with your kids, all the best anyway

Is marriage a priority to you right now? At 41 you are still have time for that.

Not really, but chasing after a mischievous kid is fun when you are young and full of energy.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

I think am going to marry later than you am in my late 20s and if i do i probably we be having 2kids
Give them the best,
A family of four will be the best at that age.....

You are alive. So nothing is late.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

It's not late. It is most important to be happy with whom you are married to. Grow in love with each other.

If you are a woman, forget it, You are wasted!

If you are a man, just impregnate any girl that comes close make she born for you. Cos it's important you have kids but not important you get married.

At 60 your pikin go stil dey write jamb. I suggest u born one pikin and make investments that would take care of him

hmm!

love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.

it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

That reminds me of LADYHIPPOLYTA88, wetin be her new year resolution. she don't want to marry, abi she's comfortable with Babymama stuff. na she sabi.

SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

no o not at all God's time is the best

DO U NEED PEOPLES COMMENT TO BE HAPPY?

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

Its never too late bro. Its all about priorities.
Thank your God that you are a man.

sleemomymy:
My guy you are dam too late. At 41 you just want to start to buy pampers, at 60 you are still paying school fees. When will you eat the fruit of your labour.
Mind you life expectancy in Nigeria is around 53 year. Sea
Wish you luck ...........

U re right. Buh don't forget sometimes our plans in Life doesn't work de way we want it.
You might get married at 30 or 35, n ur wife won't be able to give u a child.
My question is after 10 yrs wat will u do

Hmmmm

Enwhen:
Are u saying youth of today are less active ??.




Big lie, speak for yourself ....even today 50yrs self, their wife is not enough, they still ball outside ...this lockdown exposed many ...Bro , at 41 , that's when the youthfulness starts ...the balling becomes very strong up till 55 , when fading starting coming in....abeg delete that your post....it is only for female at 41, I know that may have issue not male , at all.

i thought youthfulness start from 18

Some Igbo men dey reach 50 years before dem marry. No late commer for marriage.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

You are not married at 41 because you want to give your children the best life......























































































Hope they will be given birth to in UK, study in Canada and holiday in Japan.

SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

This is not a good advice. Do you listen to outsiders who draw foolish conclusion about our life expectancy. After all, there are lot of old people in our society who are above 80 and living fine.

@ OP, it's never too late to start a family at 41. Your aim is to have a peaceful marriage and make sure you have the means for it. May God help you Sir.

And you want people to tell you what? that you are young? To make you feel happy. To tell you that everybody has thier own time. At 41 you still have time to post such a depraved topic. You didn't post an article called mistakes i made in youth. You are here posting a question at 41 am i getting married late. No you are getting married early . Please wait 10 more years to marry. Very deranged and depraved question.

It's bette to be late than never but it's not late yet.

The problem with getting married at that age is that you will not see younger ladies like age 22-30 to marry, they will be complaining of you being too older than them, except you are rich.With this, you may be forced to marry an EVENING NEWSPAPER like you.Couple of this nature are always emotional especially when pregnancy is not showing on time!

It's not to late.

Some marry early while some marry later, the most important thing is marrying who will love and accept you for who you are.

If you think it's too late then ask yourself "Why are you still alive after all some people died before 40"

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

No problem, you are very ok, the important thing is for you to be focus than ever, no side chicken etc. If you have made it good for you and if not you should hustle like you cant cross 45 without making remarkable impact in life.

My dear, while it's good to marry earlier and raise kids with relative " youth and energy", marry only when you are ready. Not just by age.

Hopefully your life experience will make you a better hubby and dad. That's what really matters.

If you have your first kid age 43 for example, by age 60 your kid would be 17. Not unusual these days. Just take care of your health, marry a lady that won't kill you early with nagging, limit your family to 2 kids if possible and flex.

Nothing is late at all.