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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Bbbwings: 3:09pm On May 15, 2020
Sweetcho:


What is jamb?

Anyway I know English comprehension may not be your strongest point. Twins is 2 (two) babies triplets (means three) the op states twins then triplets which is it. Do you understand now slow coach?
It was a quote about people giving testimonies on having triplets.
Read and understand.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SeeAfrica(m): 3:10pm On May 15, 2020
farady:
Congratulations. I was really intrigued by your story. Didn't know of a medical condition wherein the womb will be too small to carry a baby. Only knew of when a birth canal (i guess that's the cervix) can be too small for normal delivery, hence the need for CS.

Yea there are conditions that can inhibit the viability of pregnancy.Congenital uterine anomalies like:
Unicornuate uterus:Here only part of the uterus is developed. There is only one uterine horn and fallopian tube.

Hypoplastic uterus:This is due to hormonal disorder which result in the uterus being relative small even though it's well formed.
The length of the uterus is less than 4cm against normal uterus with a length of 6-9cm and an A.P diameter of about 4.5Cm.

Infantile Uterus:The uterus failed to developed even after birth.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Sweetcho: 3:12pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:

Twins. Triplets was mentioned by way of trying to paint a picture in an analogy. I hope you understand?

Ooops thank you my bad
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SeeAfrica(m): 3:12pm On May 15, 2020
Congratulations Ma.Your story is really touching and I believe it's an inspiration to those outside there who are battling with the same challenges.
I admire u for ur strength, courage and perseverance.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by PeacenLove2: 3:16pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:

They do, they only pretend to carry the belle themselves by wearing fake pregnancies or travelling abroad.


I guess they do it because of the stigma attached to it in our society. With people like you coming out and being advocates of this harmless process, we can begin to reorient the poor aspects of our culture.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by evadreams(f): 3:16pm On May 15, 2020
I am so happy for you and God bless your husband for being so supportive through out the journey.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 3:21pm On May 15, 2020
PeacenLove2:



I guess they do it because of the stigma attached to it in our society. With people like you coming out and being advocates of this harmless process, we can begin to reorient the poor aspects of our culture.
I didn't have it easy either for my decision not to pretend or to give this testimony. But after all I have seen in life, I refused to live for the audience anymore. It is what it is, sorry if my decisions offends people who don't care about me in the first place.

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 3:23pm On May 15, 2020
Sweetcho:


Ooops thank you my bad
You see why you were being teased now?
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by whitering: 3:31pm On May 15, 2020
Congratulations!

How were you able to carry yourself without any baby bump? Then boommmm twins appear.

Your neighbors & colleagues will surely have alot questions for you.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by ladyjblinks(f): 3:34pm On May 15, 2020
Wow, what a story!!
Congratulations mama, your strength is so inspiring
God bless you, your hubby and your little princesses, they will continually be a source of Joy to your family

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Honestagbons(m): 3:36pm On May 15, 2020
Thy LORD is good, congratulations my dear sis,thy LORD is your strength

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Chinny024(f): 3:38pm On May 15, 2020
Congratulations
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Sweetcho: 3:42pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:

You see why you were being teased now?

Chale I'm not a Nigerian I'm only here for the banter so take time with me plz grin
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by salt1: 3:44pm On May 15, 2020
Mstick:
This is really touching, happy you got it right the second time and you didn't wait like a "good woman". Thanks for sharing this story wish more women will be more open about child birth,loss and surrogacy.

The bottom line is money. Surrogacy is very very costly. Costlier than regular ivf
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kikelomojessy(f): 3:48pm On May 15, 2020
God bless Ur and Ur family.

Your hussy is a real man.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by veave(f): 3:50pm On May 15, 2020
You copied this from facebook. Why?
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by StephenJoseph(m): 3:51pm On May 15, 2020
Alero3Arubi:
Congrats.
I am happy for you.
Please i would like to have an online focus interview with you.
I am on a research about socio-cultural impact of childlessness among married couples.
Your story will go a long way in helping me out.
Whoa, congrats ooo.
Didn't know people bought into surrogacy in Nigeria.

Wow. Nice one. That is a very good research topic. I equally worked on this topic as my final year project work in the university. I still have the hard copies. It was really interesting

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SamuelEzeigbo(m): 3:55pm On May 15, 2020
I have less to say for now.

Your Husband left you because you have miscarried children alot of times.

I am quite happy you revealed you revealed everything to your new husband. Thats is to explain how consistent and faithful you are.
Sometimes, vio-aggressive disappointment is a Blessing in Disguise.
One thing I have noticed in life is whenever one goes through a hard time, everything goes sour, you give up... And one decides to start Life afresh, things will start working fine!!

As for the donation of the Blood that led to the twins you carry Today, God is Faithful to you.

By the way, this Joy MUST CONTINUE!
God bless

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by naturefellow(m): 4:02pm On May 15, 2020
bukatyne:


Great one, people should give concrete testimonies so others are guided.
concrete, and detailed testimonies. Full truths, not half!
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by ayandee: 4:09pm On May 15, 2020
8 miscarriages!!! That's sad but i'm happy it ended in praise. God give you the strength and resources to take care of them.

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 15, 2020
The way people attach every single issues to demons and spirits ehn.
Even the real spirits will be amazed.

I respect your courage, your ex husband was not man enough if you ask me.

A yoruba adage will say "Ibi Ogun ni a tin ri Okunrin Akinkanju" , Its in time of war you will know who the real mean.

More things to celebrate in your new family

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by eyinjuege: 4:19pm On May 15, 2020
seunfly:


But people will seek medical first and wait on God's factors which the pastors will not like.

Many times i hear people's testimonies and i laughed within me, u are waiting for fruit of the womb for years and u got pregnant for triplet or twins, isn't that indication of fertility drugs over drive, yet they will go to church and give testimonies of how one pastor prayed for them instead of telling the truth about the fertility drugs they used so that others can try their own luck as well.

Several generations before us have always had twins. It's not only fertility drugs that give people twins. As you get older as a woman, your chances of having twins increases.
This is science and proven.
So while fertility drugs are great for those who need them, people do still get pregnant with twins naturally despite a previous delay.

https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/chances-of-having-twins

https://www.webmd.com/baby/news/20060222/older-women-more-likely-to-have-twins

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Brightgem(f): 4:27pm On May 15, 2020
Beautiful woman. Beautiful story! To the ex husband, if all said about you is true, hehe! Need we curse you sef?! Bless your babies.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Pejudear(f): 4:35pm On May 15, 2020
Wow congrats sis may God continue to keep you and the twins. Stay safe

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by isokey: 5:08pm On May 15, 2020
May God bless and keep them IJN. Amen

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by PeacenLove2: 5:16pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:

I didn't have it easy either for my decision not to pretend or to give this testimony. But after all I have seen in life, I refused to live for the audience anymore. It is what it is, sorry if my decisions offends people who don't care about me in the first place.

That's the spirit! wink
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by doggedfighter(f): 5:30pm On May 15, 2020
Bonapart:
madam you started well and ended very badly in trying to discredit the work of God. Life itself is a waste of time no matter your achievement. Heaven alone counts. Congratulations mrs surrogacy or whatever its called
Shut the hell up. It's time we start telling the whole truth even when shouting praise the Lord in church. Enough of the nonsensical lies

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Eketem: 5:39pm On May 15, 2020
whitering:

Congratulations!

How were you able to carry yourself without any baby bump? Then boommmm twins appear.

Your neighbors & colleagues will surely have alot questions for you.

What is their business? Does she owe them answers? People like you put people under pressure to lie and pretend. Questions for her because they contributed funds to help her fund surrogacy or what

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 5:43pm On May 15, 2020
isokey:
@Omojudy.....
Please delete your comment. My children will live long healthy and successful lives, I will have sons after these daughters and together we shall create a dynasty. Burying their dad and I at a ripe old age after we have seen their grand children the way my grandmothers were able to see my children.

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Atlanticfire: 5:51pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:
I think it's time I dropped my childbearing story.

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Congrats for having your children. If only you had the right diagnosis on time you could have saved your first marriage.

It might not really be over so I will suggest that you still check with the doctors that made the proper diagnosis of your problem.

Some problems like these are hereditary but occurs in very small percentage of the population. Being expressed by a tiny minority shows that these abnormalities are controlled by recessive genes, if your husband have that gene then there is a slim chance that you could pass it to your offspring.

Ask the doctors if the problem is hereditary and if there are gene tests they can perform on you and your husband to quantify the risk of any of your daughters having same issue.

Knowledge is power. Once you know their status as regards this problem then you will be able to advise them better when they grow up. No need allowing anyone to move between wolf pastors, greedy traditional birth attendants and shylock doctors for a problem that has tested scientific solution.
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 5:51pm On May 15, 2020
whitering:

Congratulations!

How were you able to carry yourself without any baby bump? Then boommmm twins appear.

Your neighbors & colleagues will surely have alot questions for you.
Well of recent I have began owning my story. That gave me liberty. I open my Instagram account for the twins long before there were born, then when it was time for naming I simply told those who had been seeing me "I birthed twins by surrogacy, tomorrow is the naming, you are invited". Let them argue in their brains.

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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 5:52pm On May 15, 2020
whitering:

Congratulations!

How were you able to carry yourself without any baby bump? Then boommmm twins appear.

Your neighbors & colleagues will surely have alot questions for you.
Well of recent I have began owning my story. That gave me liberty. I opened my Instagram account for the twins long before there were born, then when it was time for naming I simply told those who had been seeing me "I birthed twins by surrogacy, tomorrow is the naming, you are invited". Let them argue in their brains.

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