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Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:00pm On May 15, 2020
Why do this female generation felt like dating you is a favor?
Whenever you point out one thing or other in the relationship you don’t like,they feel like,you are been unnecessarily uncouth ,
Whenever you have issue with your so called bestie,she quickly point that she has many admirers but when you permit her to go on and date them ,she start feeling unloved

Worst they can’t hold a good conversation
They are only good with gist me,when you raise an important topic she will swerve without contributions
When you ask some question,either she feel you are insulting her or playing mind games with her
They can’t open up
Why
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Tunex252(m): 8:01pm On May 15, 2020
Well because most of their brain is washed and they feel they are too big for you
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 8:07pm On May 15, 2020
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:13pm On May 15, 2020
Tunex252:
Well because most of their brain is washed and they feel they are too big for you
On the contrary,she was the one that approach me,abnitio I was about to turn her down
But I declined
Gradually I develop the feelings
There are times I would try to bring her mind and understanding to my level but alas it ain’t working
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:15pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
My dear
If you see this girl, low and her shouldn’t be in same sentence
Cos her appearance looked mature
But reasoning is very far
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by xcabczyxabczzzz: 8:17pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
For your mind you na high level girl?
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nobody: 8:17pm On May 15, 2020
You're chasing the wrong kind of girls.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Easybela(f): 8:20pm On May 15, 2020
undecided you haven't met the brilliant ones.
Many ladies out there are fools with no future, na you go suffer toast them,some idiots instead of giving straight answer will tell you"let me think about it",you want to think about it but if you need sub,you will need his help, if you are broke,you will need his help,you want to make your hair, you will need his help and the "fooled" in question will be sending gifts and airtime to the fool making it look like dating her is a favour. After the "fooled"will come out here ranting that women likes money, guy if they put sugar for your mouth, you go spit am out huh,some guys needs to buy sense,expensive one. angry angry angry

Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:20pm On May 15, 2020
Nnaabros:
You're chasing the wrong kind of girls.
I never chased her
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by InfinityFabric: 8:21pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
Krista, I can tell you... that was pretty.
That's an astute piece of bashing!
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nobody: 8:22pm On May 15, 2020
xcabczyxabczzzz:
For your mind you na high level girl?
She made a good point. Focus on that.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:23pm On May 15, 2020
Easybela:
undecided you haven't met the brilliant ones.
Many ladies out there are fools with no future, na you go suffer toast them,some idiots instead of giving straight answer will tell you"let me think about it",you want to think about it but if you need sub,you will need his help, if you are broke,you will need his help,you want to make your hair, you will need his help and the "fooled" in question will be sending gifts and airtime to the fool making it look like dating her is a favour. After the "fooled"will come out here ranting that women likes money, guy if they put sugar for your mouth, you go spit am out huh,some guys need to buy sense,expensive one.
Let me go with the first sentence
Brilliant ones?
Worst fear
Man can’t just quit ,like that
When she feel bored and sad you enlighten her day
Then vice versa
She become dumb
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nobody: 8:24pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
I never chased her
She 'chased' you and you welcomed her. Same thing. You should be very particular about the sort of people you allow into your life.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by xcabczyxabczzzz: 8:25pm On May 15, 2020
Nnaabros:
She made a good point. Focus on that.
Dey your focus make I dey my Focus naw.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 8:25pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
My dear
If you see this girl, low and her shouldn’t be in same sentence
Cos her appearance looked mature
But reasoning is very far
I already expect this from a confused person whose name carries one country and one hoping to be in existence!
Onye nzuzu
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by U1(m): 8:25pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
Are you one of those? I wan apply.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:26pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
I already expect this from a confused person whose name carries one country and one hoping to be in existence!
Onye nzuzu
Lol
You have to put yourself together
This is not rant and win promo
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 8:27pm On May 15, 2020
U1:
Are you one of those? I wan apply.
I am not searching please. I am too busy with life to be in a relationship for now. Thank you smiley
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 8:28pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
Lol
You have to put yourself together
This is not rant and win promo
You should have respected yourself the moment you spoke unnecessarily, it is not by force to comment. I will give it back to you!
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by InfinityFabric: 8:30pm On May 15, 2020
0. Stop hating on women.
1. Stop hating on women.
2. Stop generalizing when the evidence points to the specific.
3. Learn to understand women, don't love them, don't hate them. Again... understand.
4. The choice often comes in form of brain or beauty.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by U1(m): 8:32pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
I am not searching please. I am too busy with life to be in a relationship for now. Thank you smiley
Na me dey search na. There's no problem in being busy with you, I guess. grin
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:33pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
You should have respected yourself the moment you spoke unnecessarily, it is not by force to comment. I will give it back to you!
The worst is that
I don’t even know which angle you are coming from
Are you really the owner of the phone you are typing with
Cos am baffled to meet such a person in a forum like this
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by U1(m): 8:34pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
You should have respected yourself the moment you spoke unnecessarily, it is not by force to comment. I will give it back to you!
Softly, softly. Abeg make una bring palm oil o.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 8:35pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
The worst is that
I don’t even know which angle you are coming from
Are you really the owner of the phone you are typing with
Cos am baffled to meet such a person in a forum like this
I choose to ignore you.

Have a great night,

Regards.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:35pm On May 15, 2020
InfinityFabric:
0. Stop hating on women.
1. Stop hating on women.
2. Stop generalizing when the evidence points to the specific.
3. Learn to understand women, don't love them, don't hate them. Again... understand.
4. The choice often comes in form of brain or beauty.
No one is hating neither generalizing
Thanks though
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 8:36pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
I choose to ignore you.

Have a great night,

Regards.
You are welcome
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by bottlewater1(m): 10:28pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
That's exactly what happens when you keep dating low leveled girls who feel they're doing you a favor by dating you.
Go for reasonable girls, you say lie lie. Na shawarma rats you like.

Next abeg
Well I totally agree with you. That's how I spent all my love on this so called low level girl forming high level.
After spending my time, money, energy and working on my future so as to accommodate her.
All should could tell me is that "I test you, you failed". She has nothing to offer, ni brain, no certificate, fake love and virginity


Tweh
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nobody: 10:39pm On May 15, 2020
Still don't believe guys are not tired on this matter grin
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by KristaPretty(f): 10:42pm On May 15, 2020
bottlewater1:
Well I totally agree with you. That's how I spent all my love on this so called low level girl forming high level.
After spending my time, money, energy and working on my future so as to accommodate her.
All should could tell me is that "I test you, you failed". She has nothing to offer, ni brain, no certificate, fake love and virginity


Tweh
Test of life. Hahahaah grin grin grin
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by InfinityFabric: 10:46pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
No one is hating neither generalizing
Thanks though
O rly?
1.
Why do this female generation felt like dating you is a favor?
2.
Whenever you point out one thing or other in the relationship you don’t like,they feel like,you are been unnecessarily uncouth ,
3.
Worst they can’t hold a good conversation
When u use they in these context u sure are not generalizing. /s

Tip: Start with "I met a girl...", then replace 'they' with 'she' and u have a strong argument.
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by Nigeriabiafra80(op): 10:53pm On May 15, 2020
InfinityFabric:
O rly?
1.
2.
3.

When u use they in these context u sure are not generalizing. /s

Tip: Start with "I met a girl...", then replace 'they' with 'she' and u have a strong argument.
Am only emphasizing on people I met ,when I use she,that means am cutting it down to my first experience
How will I state it,since am typing about 2to 3 ladies have met
Re: Is Dating A Favor? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:28pm On May 15, 2020
Nigeriabiafra80:
Why do this female generation felt like dating you is a favor?
Whenever you point out one thing or other in the relationship you don’t like,they feel like,you are been unnecessarily uncouth ,
Whenever you have issue with your so called bestie,she quickly point that she has many admirers but when you permit her to go on and date them ,she start feeling unloved

Worst they can’t hold a good conversation
They are only good with gist me,when you raise an important topic she will swerve without contributions
When you ask some question,either she feel you are insulting her or playing mind games with her
They can’t open up
Why
the beauty of dating is finding perfect women (for you) to date... i guess you havent found them yet. stop worrying about what the broke legged liability ones are doing...
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