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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Ten06(m): 4:28am On May 19, 2020

You guys should keep him under chain for a long time with feeding of ones a day his brain will reset

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by First4(m): 4:40am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Sorry for your brother's condition.

Let me tell you the truth. There's no amount of rehabilitation that can change your brother's situation, because it's a chronic problem. He needs deliverance and that will solve his problem permanently because it's a spiritual problem. Only God can deliver him. You have to take him to an anointed man of God for deliverance.

I know a man of God who can pray for him for deliverance. That's what he needs at this point, not rehabilitation. If you're interested to contact the man of God, send me a pm, I'll send you his contact. Or send me a mail. My email address is on my signature below or on my profile.

Good luck.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 4:54am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Op that guy cannot live with your aged parents, he will kill them one day for refusing him money to buy his substances. Find a correctional or rehab to permanently put him or atleast a very long term. He will kill your parents, be warned!

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Kay25(m): 4:59am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Hand work of the devil he doesn't just need a rehabilitation he needs a deliverace from the satanic oppression..Get your families together and start interceding for him and probably take as step of faith and find anywhere to get him delivered.I pray the Lord Jesus would give a touch to his life now and he would be delivered from his oppression and set free from every captivities.but make sure He gives his life to Christ that's a guarantee for him not to return to his old ways and have peace of mind.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by explosiveskull(m): 4:59am On May 19, 2020

mordred44:
Drug abuse and masturbation na lyk 5&6

True to that, talking from experience.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by toprealman: 5:02am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Aro psychiatric hospital Abeokuta, Ogun state is your next port of call.
Thank me later.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Avedonn: 5:02am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Air head, for your mind now you're feeling like you've made a sensible contribution. Instead fooling yourself publicly like this, you should've just kept quite.

It's not every issue your low IQ air head can processed. Few empty head women like you are the reason why some men look down on women advice on this forum.

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 5:07am On May 19, 2020

My advise might sound salvage but that is the best solution now...... Waste him

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:10am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
ur opinion though. I think it's u that something is wrong with. No parent bring up a child in a proper way and reap calamities. Do well and read the book of Proverbs. Also read the laws of karma

Pls try and get some sense...even if its just 2kilobytes of sense cause right now you barely have any

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adisabarber(m): 5:13am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Don't keep money and valuables he can easily sell in the house. Let him steal outside and get caught. When he's jailed, don't go and visit him. 6 months in a correctional facility without seeing close relatives and access to drugs should do the trick. Most addicts misunderstand family love. They think they are "doing" you. They don't know it's love that is making one run up and down for them. Let him face the consequences of his actions once.

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 5:15am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Every evil done by the white man has not stopped them n has not ever given their children curses.

Religion is a disease.

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:15am On May 19, 2020

Kay25:
Hand work of the devil he doesn't just need a rehabilitation he needs a deliverace from the satanic oppression..Get your families together and start interceding for him and probably take as step of faith and find anywhere to get him delivered.I pray the Lord Jesus would give a touch to his life now and he would be delivered from his oppression and set free from every captivities.but make sure He gives his life to Christ that's a guarantee for him not to return to his old ways and have peace of mind.

Did you read the op selectively? Abi u didn't see where he stated that several religious interventions have been tried huh

@star4ever, I believe what ur bro needs is a reason to quit..if he has someone dt he loves enough, he'd do right by the person. Truth is right now, hard drugs is his first and true love and nothing can separate them for too long, except death, Kinda like how romeo n Juliet played out. Does he have a child?

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:16am On May 19, 2020

jerry447:
My advise might sound salvage but that is the best solution now...... Waste him

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Bonapart(m): 5:20am On May 19, 2020

Mstick:
Your God must be a crack head then, why not punish the parents for their do called evil instead of the child that has nothing to do with it?

I am guessing you feel you're well trained right?! If you were you would know this simple rule, if you've nothing nice to say don't say anything.

I guess you must be feeling high after your blasphemous words got you such likes. When judgement come on you now we start reading on nairald help with this and help with that. Some of you folks are beyond redemption. You will sure pay for that first line of yours

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:20am On May 19, 2020

janettee:
Oh please, shut up.

She has little to no sense in her head....
Cute cat.. Me likey kiss

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:22am On May 19, 2020

addexx:
Sharap

Its like there's cold catarrh in your brain

Maybe your parents did something wrong too , to end up with an organism that thinks like an amoeba , that is if you can even find it's brain.

Chai....chai...diarisgod oooo

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by edoman2016: 5:24am On May 19, 2020

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

What about his wife? Is your brother not married?

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Moneyboyz: 5:28am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Everything na spiritual to you guys. Keep fighting Corona with fasting and prayer

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by franugo(m): 5:33am On May 19, 2020

elektra:
Did your read anywhere that the brother is suffering from “negativity and psychic attacks”?

You landers wee not kee person grin

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by KingMicky3286: 5:45am On May 19, 2020

He don’t have the ability to control his choices.

Drug abuse is something someone has to determine by himself to stop. First, deprive him access to money, he won’t have money to buy those drugs.

Make him to feel uncomfortable over his lifestyle. Get him a caring woman for marriage, that will help to control his daily activities.

These steps could help him to turn a new leaf .

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Pharaoh01(m): 5:46am On May 19, 2020

Be needs deliverance obviously

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by AuroraBrls: 5:46am On May 19, 2020

edoman2016:
What about his wife? Is your brother not married?

Some people sef...they are telling you that a full grown heavily bearded man caught fire and you are saying, chai so that fine man catch fire, what of that his fine beard? your question is like asking a man with leukemia how the eczema on his skin is?

The ultimate goal/achievement in life, in this our shithole, often tends to marry marry marry. breed breed breed. multiply the suffering cycle exponentially for innocent kids u bring into the world without being adequately financially and mentally strong to afford them the best life has to offer.

That guy is better of single in his plight for now.

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by buzorcharles(m): 5:48am On May 19, 2020

Fabulouzjoseph:
He needs to see a good psychologist and undergo certain therapies. Everyone deserves a second chance.

This Is no more second chance. Everybody deserve a fifth chance

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by OkoAnike(m): 5:54am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
it's not some women that wrote the law. Face it and stop mentioning me.

Being mentally unstable or lunatic has many sides, some only see their view as the only valid point even when thousands of people are showing him/her the way... That's what are at the moment, check your self little girl, something is wrong somewhere, my little piece.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by itzdeejay: 5:55am On May 19, 2020

Firstly, drugs does not lead to mental illness, pain does.
You all are leaving out the root cause and focusing on what is not.
I don't have a cure for mental illness but i can help him find happiness if he is willing and able to communicate (talk and listen)
I hope he finds the peace and solitude he yarns for.
Contact me if interested for FREE

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 6:01am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Just listen to yourself... Have you not seen two kids from the same home but different characters... Is it not the same home training that they are getting?
Have you not seen a kid have a good christian background go astray because of bad friends?
What is wrong with you and why do you like jumping to conclusions? huh

Last time you said this kind rubbish I ignored it but I can't take this nonsense anymore... Recieve sense in Jesus Name.

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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by itzdeejay: 6:03am On May 19, 2020

From the comment and response, nobody is interested in the victims (42yrs old man) health and well being, they have made up their mind that he deserves it because he did/does drugs. They are forgetting the we are humans, that reality and situations/problems differs and handled differently by different individuals.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by tillaman(m): 6:04am On May 19, 2020

No matter the number of time he goes into rehab once he is out he will relapse the best way is to relocate him because I believe the company he keeps plays a huge role in his relapse
It’s very easy for drug addict to relapse no matter how strong they believe their mind is,
It’s just like flashing white lines to a person struggling to get clean, once a junkie sees his/her dose no matter how long they have been clean the urge comes!
So get your brother clean then let him relocate to a better place and keep him occupied

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by irunoko(m): 6:05am On May 19, 2020

Semaj77:
Your Bible was written by mad people and believed by equally insane people

stop blaspheming.youre not wiser than the holy spirit

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by KingMicky3286: 6:06am On May 19, 2020

This comment is an insult to your personality.

Oga Nairaland pastor.

Mstick:
Your God must be a crack head then, why not punish the parents for their do called evil instead of the child that has nothing to do with it?

I am guessing you feel you're well trained right?! If you were you would know this simple rule, if you've nothing nice to say don't say anything.

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by irunoko(m): 6:08am On May 19, 2020

cooltola:
Drug addicts are extreme cunning and will do anything to get their drugs. Sometimes even after they go to rehab, they continue their habits because they know there is bed to sleep waiting, good food for them to eat and a mum or family members that can push or manipulate around. But when the family ban them from entering the house, he will forced to realize that his actions are no longer tolerated. Let society deal them or life deal them, the family need a break

so you think they'll just back off because you said that he shouldn't come to the house again? You don't know they're sturborn?How about the violent part and desperation part? Well maybe that might work if you put bouncers or extremely strong security men at the gate of your house

Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by ArticleBeast: 6:10am On May 19, 2020

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

You are foolish young lady. By the way you watch too many nigerian movies. Pray for wisdom

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