thelish:


Which money??
The one wey he never get transport to go double

delkuf:
Thank bro. this is what I am thinking of doing

emrain:


Women make rules for beta men and break them for alpha males. Even if you quit the marriage, you'll still find yourself in a similar predicament in a short while. Take the red pill and double your hustle.

Ybaby:




Do you think you can make heaven with this comment of yours??

Women donot realise how expensive kids are until they are pregnant.... then they will start one yeye timetable

Sorry money is not everything.

thelish:


Ur comment made me laff so hard this morning.
Lol

chikeorji123:


Thank you my guy..our mentality here is embarrassing.. someone is dying emotionally all he could get is fix it 'your a man'' trash.. l'm thinking of getting Marry to these our ladies na risk..

udemzyudex:



I disagree with you on this one.

Who is a wife? She's also a helper and should be there to support him too.
I don't see anything wrong is borrowing from his wife, he should borrow and learn to return it back or even hard something to it when returning it.

If his wife can't help who will?

dejio42:
OP I put it to you that you are a GAMBLIER. That is what your woman want you to stop and hustle like a REAL MAN.dont shad your wife on NL. 777

dokiOloye:

Even if he's living off his wife,so what?
Women comfortably live off their Male partners all their lives but immediately a man has a little downtime while d woman is handy with cash,the whole world will know.
This is a man that paid bride price,funded d wedding, pays house rent,furnished d house provides food,electricity etc.
Good thing is the male folks are learning to be more mean than their females nowadays and thank God Africa is still a patriarchal society

hermesprogidy:
I usually don't contribute to threads like this, because I don't expect people to post such on a public forum, but who am I to judge, we all have different orientations. Back to the issue, Dude, just go make some money, the rest will fall in place. You will see how docile, sex freaked; and caring this same wife of yours will be. Most women and I dare say marriages are a scam.

Thegoodone13:
. One spotted

Davash222:

Professor, that's not why he's here.
Communication is said to be complete when the receiver decodes the information passed to him by the sender.

dejio42:
OP I put it to you that you are a GAMBLIER. That is what your woman want you to stop and hustle like a REAL MAN.dont shad your wife on NL. 777

uuzba:

All these issues could have bee discussed in a proper marriage course.
But you people won't do marriage course before marriage. Just carry somebody from express road and marry.
Now see it.
Be sincere with yourselves before marriage. Open your mouth and talk. Don't be too desperate before marriage pray more
Because how a person is, is how they will remain.
Guy is even begging his wife for money again. So he's really messing up. The women would start to draw graph for you. You're complaining of timetable.

thelish:


And forever broke men

Deoboss:


Ladies are kind of stingy so know this but not all of them though as a lot of them are wired to receive & not give

ModestGal:

The children is for both of them. That is if the child becomes rich and how many people become rich in Nigeria? I don't even understand the kind of inequality marriage is and yet, men will still be misbehaving. I feel like cursing any man giving his wife emotional problems. Pregnancy is pains, labour is double pain, and yet one man will add to all the pains? Child's care is another mental problem. Then the man will still expect the wife to contribute to the house expenses, is that not wickedness? What is now the role of the husband? The wife will be expected to cook, respect the husband, serve him, lay his bed, wash his cloths etc. And with all these, the wife should still contribute? And when she gives attitude, its because she's a bad woman. Those idiots that made those African rules should be arrested and jailed I swear

Ningen:
Her attitude is because you're obviously broke.

Go out and hustle.
Stop asking your pregnant wife for money.

Be her provider and she'll become FLEXIBLE.

Dollabiz:
Go out and fivvck a hoe don’t touch her for months she will beg you for life

Swagtrills:
I am currently facing similar issue even though we ain't officially married, though living together and raising our few months old son....I want to advice those who are yet to make the mistake we all made to thread with caution and never rush into marriage without carrying out all the necessary inquiry about ur partner. In my own case, I was forewarned by both a brother of hers and even her actions and reactions but I never heeded as local man was blindfolded by love...Now I feel guilty for subjecting myself to this torture. O Lord forgive my wrong choices and shorth-comings..

thelish:


And u are so sure of who pays for those expenses u listed there?

Swagtrills:
I am currently facing similar issue even though we ain't officially married, though living together and raising our few months old son....I want to advice those who are yet to make the mistake we all made to thread with caution and never rush into marriage without carrying out all the necessary inquiry about ur partner. In my own case, I was forewarned by both a brother of hers and even her actions and reactions but I never heeded as local man was blindfolded by love...Now I feel guilty for subjecting myself to this torture. O Lord forgive my wrong choices and shorth-comings..

eni4real:
Men are trying , abeg

lefulefu:
its obvious nau ..there are plenty guys like op .Its their moms who mostly go around looking for wives for them.there was a guy like that i knew..it was his mom that married a girl for him.Dude would kill his wife with sex and did it in the kitchen,bathroom with her.the wife couldnt stand it.the bros had a very huge sexual appetite.The wife had to report to her mom and together they reported the issue to their family pastor.the family pastor called the guy for deliverance but it never worked .the wife had to run away .when u arrange wives and force ppl to marry there will be bound to be incompactibility .If they dated he would have seen these faults he is complaining about.

thelish:


Meet women to open up to u

dokiOloye:

I used to be of the opinion that women suffer a lot in Africa, bla bla, but since I graduated and became married, all those changed.
Graduation comes into it cos I'm a health worker so ppl including much older ones tell me things as much as they tell their priests/pastors.
Women are never those simple weaker vessels as we look at them.
They are the masters of emotional blackmail and outright lies.
A woman can NEVER love a man if he doesn't score up to certain standards but a man can see a girl with nothing going for her either in looks or worth but still go for her.

Davash222:
Treat her the way she treats you! Don't be crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you.

You know the risk of crossing express these days. Be careful.

SaintBishop:
Na wa ooo two of una no date? or you just go village go marry her?

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.