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Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 11:08pm On May 21, 2020 |
GHoJes: Thanks. Am grateful. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Eketem: 11:16pm On May 21, 2020 |
Ghojes has given you good advise, go meet your cousin then go to the village, you deserve closure 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 11:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
Eketem: Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by fertilewomb: 8:44am On May 22, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: I don't know why I feel your dad comitted a very secret atrocity. it could be that your dad slept or took his late brothers wife and had you through her, which is why he doesn't want to tell you whom your mom is. It's a top secret he's been keeping with his wife and I don't think they are ready to divulge it to anyone let alone you. Your dad comitted a formidable and shameful Taboo,which is why he doesn't want to disclose the identity of your real mother People have children aside wedlock all the time and don't find it difficult telling the children who the mother or father is. why is yours different 59 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by JourneytoEL(f): 9:04am On May 22, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:how about you try other means since you can't travel because of lockdown, like facebook or asking a relative for his phone number? better still keep begging your step mum to tell you the truth and promise her it will be a secret between you two. Your step mum is on the verge of telling you, don't give up because your brother might just be as ignorant as you are 1 Like |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by madampresident(f): 10:59am On May 22, 2020 |
fertilewomb: 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 11:46am On May 22, 2020 |
fertilewomb: I may not agree with you; my dad is a very disciplined man he is known to help people and never hurts people. My dad has a burden to tell me but anytime he is close to revealing I think my step mum mounts pressure on him and he stops. My step mum does not love my dad enough to keep a secret like that if its to my fathers benefit and not hers. She is also very materialistic and everything boils down to money with her; am not interested in any thing, all I need is to know my mum. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 12:17pm On May 22, 2020 |
JourneytoEL: I have gotten his number and I slept like a baby after we spoke very early this morning . I was so nervous and to break the ice first since its been so long we spoke; I told him that I had lost my way and need salvation and peace that comes with true repentance, and have decided to answer my call to be a reverend sister... He was so happy and warm that I want repentance; he told me so many things my step mum told him I did(he has a very poor impression of me) and asked me to go to my parents and reconcile and also call my siblings and tell them that I had been a fool and allowed myself to be used by Satan, but that I have repented . I promised to do all he said and come visit him after the lockdown. Even if I go he won't believe me. I think I need to go to the village first a see if I can gather some circumstantial evidence. Am just happy we spoke. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 12:29pm On May 22, 2020 |
madampresident: I don't agree with that summation too because my grandfather was a very successful business man and always needed more boys to help in is trade though he was very nice; I cannot give some intricate facts that would help you understand since its a public platform that someone in my family might be on. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by JourneytoEL(f): 1:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:I thank God for the steps you have taken so far. But, you need to understand that a stitch in time saves nine. Just ask him if he knows anything about his parents, then when you gather enough information from him, tell him you just found out you are his sister. I will advise you to do these things before you travel. It will give you a clear direction of who exactly to ask in your village. Remember to pray fervently. You might be living with household enemies. Visit the Blessed Sacrament very often. I would also love to know the city you reside and your age. May the Good Lord clear your path and make your dreams come to past. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 5:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
JourneytoEL: Thanks for your comment, No offence but am not still a Catholic; like I said, I just wanted a soft landing. I can't tell him on phone until since he is not yet on my side, and I also need solid proof (not just telling him that some anonymous person told me bla bla bla) to get him to understand that we have a mother somewhere that we must find together. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by JourneytoEL(f): 7:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:alright, i wish you all the best. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 12:59am On May 23, 2020 |
JourneytoEL: Thanks |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 2:15am On May 24, 2020 |
I can't sleep anymore and nothing am taking for it is working... |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Foodqueen(f): 4:06am On May 24, 2020 |
That relative that called u might be ur mother. 14 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by nabiz(m): 6:00am On May 24, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:if you just realised 2 years ago that your step mother is a not your real mother, the I do t think your step mother is as wicked as you paint her |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 11:02am On May 24, 2020 |
Foodqueen: No she is not; am sure but if she was I'll be glad to end my search. Please do you know what I can take to help me sleep? |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Foodqueen(f): 11:06am On May 24, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: To help you sleep Av u not been sleeping well. I read from your older post that you av alot going on around you. Av u relocated yet? |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 11:09am On May 24, 2020 |
nabiz: I never said she was wicked... She gave me what she could spare for a child not hers and am thankful but I just need my mum. Please do you know anything that can help me sleep? 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by nabiz(m): 4:15pm On May 24, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:boil a banana and drink the water you will have a wonderful sleep. Take it like some minutes before going to bed |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by andyanders: 9:54pm On May 24, 2020 |
Op, sad to note of your present status and your state of mind right now. Do not stress yoursel to the point yiur BP will spring up. Thank God that you are alive. The truth must come out one day. Be patient while you navigate this as it will come and pass and you will sing songs of joy. First, good to know of your real status now that you have come of age. Also, to thank God that you passed through a lot to come to this this stage and did not die before now through your step mom. If this was brought here first after someone opened your eyes, I would have advised you first not to have confronted your dad as he has kept the secret from you for that long. You should have secretly searched his house in order to see if there are an old hidden pictures of a woman in his closest or album, then you lift the pictures first. If your dad discovers any dirty approach, he might harm you to conceal his past. First, just act as if nothing happened and never bring up the case up again with your dad or step mom for now. Start an underground investigation by first contacting your confidant who opened your eyes to tell you more. How old is your dad and your step Mom? From that, when searching for a clue, look for a younger lady's picture, if there is an album or if you have access to his room. While doing this, watch your back and be smart in order for him not to notice. Always pretend to be happy with both your father and step mom. With time you might get a clue. I will be right back. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by andyanders: 10:11pm On May 24, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: Please, just be yourself and do not start taking any pill that will aid you to sleep. Don't harm yourself no matter what you're passing through now. Pray to God to help you get some sleep. Be strong. I have you in my prayers. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 10:57pm On May 24, 2020 |
andyanders: Thanks for the advice but my Dad can't hurt me, he is not just that kind of person. I hope to travel once its possible to do so. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by andyanders: 11:34pm On May 24, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:You're welcome. Just be yourself and never allow this to affect your health. Try not to express yourself negetively when you travel home, but be your old self. Check if there are some kind of facts-like old lady's pixs you can lay hands to and compare your look as there could be some kind of resemblance. Also do hold deep talk with ur informant. Wish u the best nd be urself. Stop thinking as we all are on transit in this world. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 1:57am On May 25, 2020 |
andyanders: I will, thanks. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by frozen70(f): 2:20am On May 25, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: Calm down pls and don't take it too hard before you spoil something Find someone in your father's family and keep the person's secret That person will tell you how to locate your mum But for the fact that your mother never looked for you, should give you the courage to move on with your life She may be from another state or region or even another country Am glad you have grown, help yourself to be stable so that you don't go back to them for any favour |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 3:39am On May 25, 2020 |
frozen70: Thanks for the advice, I just want to know who she is . 1 Like |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by frozen70(f): 4:23am On May 25, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: I know, it can be very hurtful, just follow the advice let's see if it will work |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 8:14am On May 25, 2020 |
frozen70: Thanks |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Foodqueen(f): 11:13am On May 25, 2020 |
Give that woman that first told you more money, go visit her one on one and she will spill it all out. For the sleep, maybe u need a change of environment. Plan a weekend trip to relax. You will be fine. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by greatme2good(f): 1:33pm On May 25, 2020 |
I am seeing two years ago. Is it two years or two days ago? Coz if the relative told you two years ago, I wonder why it started giving you sleepless nights now. That being said, sis you need to take it easy with yourself and stop depriving yourself of good sleep. Keep your search on but don't loose yourself over it. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 1:35pm On May 25, 2020 |
Foodqueen: Thanks |
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