giles14:
pls can I get your mobile number.

Yes now

Millenniumlady:
Girl this is 2020 and if a man ain't ready to do all you want then boy bye.

Boy bye?Will u be able to do all he wants? I'm not sure you will...

Jentilia:
I think people who quotes her whole post just to type their advice are the main problem here

[Asin Barrow pusher. No sis you don't push your husband, you support him, hold him down, both during difficult times and good times, you should be his peace, and vice versa, your aspirations for him are not bad, but you are bugging him too much, more like adding unnecessary pressure to what he is already carrying. kindly me a matured supportive partner, suggest, support, advice and protect your partner, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about your relationship. quote author=Acmepreneur post=89798165]
Lol, funny guy. Yes, my ambition is on him because I love him. In my family, wives are very important in making husband's grow, my dad won't be where he is today if not my mum, some people need the push.
I as well do not appreciate wives with husband that is not progressing, we tell our women to be a pusher[/quote]

Danielkupiejo:
As u dey yan also remember where she said she must get married next year, that is also an extra push. If u are determined to buy a car within a year are u not going to maximize every opportunities?. Be in d guy shoe first. No help anywhere, 90k salary how much will he save in a month and still afford rent family and himself. Why d gal no advice him to sell his car

you go blame the woman? you think say e easy to find man for naija? no to talk of our society that see women who are not married at a certain age in a different kind of light..

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theTransporter:



I don't know women like u still exists, I use this thread as a point of contact to ask God for a partner like you, not the one who will be asking money for wig and fingernails (which ladies are supposed to buy themselves) without caring for financial growth of both of you. God bless you sister.

As for the guy I think you should make up with him and sit him down and really point things out for him to see, just continue to try, encourage him to read books like think and grow rich by Napoleon Hills, Laws of success , Rich dad poor dad Etc.(I just hope he is the type that likes reading, especially this one he don't want masters degree) I believe he will change. But if he isn't changing then you have no option to manage him like that or find someone in the same sync, someone in the same cosmic frequency with you so that resonance will occur.
My little contribution thoo

Best comment so far

You are so superb, I wish I had a lady that can push me the way u are doing, seems we have a
lot in common, why not try me .... Probably God designed we will be meeting here

You can contact me via my mail.....
ben_d_great@yahoo.com

From your story I read 10 reasons you condemned your boyfriend with but could not see 1 reason to help him out financially...

Give him 500k and see if he won’t hustle the rest to travel..... support his dreams and not impose ur dreams on him.... everything you typed is ur planned dream

I think you need to meet him physically for a serious discussions and conclusions. Above all never stoped praying for him..he might has his own vulnerability but blv me he is better than some untrustworthy men outside there. Pray for divine favour and direction before you take decision.finally beware of leeches and parasite advises..it will lead you nowhere. tjerr

Acmepreneur:

Thanks jare.
I'm not saying he should do Masters, I'm saying he should do something in an easier way. He likes to do Masters, just not in Nigeria. It may even be an MBA, and if not intrested in that. He should upgrade his skills. I'm not forcing him to do a certain thing, I just want him to do something he loves,and not just remain in a place. Like building something underneath gradually while working in his company, just like a backup plan. It may be anything, the MSC I mentioned is part of the anything, not compulsory.

the op is so proud and arrogant. I read how she replied to people comments. it's a shame. are you the only one that graduated with a good result? there are so many people who came out with a good grade and they aren't proud like this perfidious op. I graduated with 5.00CGPA. come lemme take care of your entire generation... rubbish

Acmepreneur:

4.95/5.0 BSC
6.5/7.0 MSC
Ode

if this is true, i will follow you on nairaland.U just earned my respect. Plz, ask SANE MARRIED people that you are close with 4 adviceYou are real defination of SLAY. QUEEN.

Acmepreneur:
Thanks to all commentors.
But please, i want to know the mod that took this to front page?
Una don turn Nairaland to a joke wallahi

Thanks to all commentors, you really made my day and I laughed so hard, especially those that think I have low self esteem and I'm not near intelligence.

It seems that some males on NL are already pained and frustrated about their broke assess and was already ready to any bash girl.

For those that took their time to read all the stories, I wanna say thank you, it means we are bored together as if not lockdown, you no fit see me for NL they ask yeye questions and be reading comedians comments.

For the unbelievers, the story is true,though with some little tweaks, because I don't know if my boyfriend siblings&friends are on NL, so I gave it some tweaks, though I can't vouche for other stories here on NL if they are true or false.

For those that sent me mails, sorry, I don't reply Nairaland emails.
For those that wants to date, I can't date people with account on NL, thats one reason I love my BF, he doesn't fancy NL at all, he thinks its for jobless people or people with so much money that they now have time at their disposal to waste

Heh. I like this lady. Your forthrightness is so refreshing.

25tolife:
if this is true, i will follow you on nairaland.U just earned my respect. Plz, ask SANE MARRIED people that you are close with 4 adviceYou are real defination of SLAY. QUEEN.

Lol, someone said it was earned through LA cram, LA pour.
Don't bother to follow me, this account would soon be deactivated. I'm really a low key, I just play and ask questions with this account

DenreleDave:


Pick nails girls like milleniumlady phenomenal22 Lamanii22

Political o lolsssssss

larrypourl:
What pained me most from your writeup was the FG job he missed. He go hear am now. What do you do for a living since you want to get married next year.

She's doing 'big ideas' for a living

Acmepreneur:
Thanks to all commentors.
But please, i want to know the mod that took this to front page?
Una don turn Nairaland to a joke wallahi

Thanks to all commentors, you really made my day and I laughed so hard, especially those that think I have low self esteem and I'm not near intelligence.

It seems that some males on NL are already pained and frustrated about their broke assess and was already ready to any bash girl.

For those that took their time to read all the stories, I wanna say thank you, it means we are bored together as if not lockdown, you no fit see me for NL they ask yeye questions and be reading comedians comments.

For the unbelievers, the story is true,though with some little tweaks, because I don't know if my boyfriend siblings&friends are on NL, so I gave it some tweaks, though I can't vouche for other stories here on NL if they are true or false.

For those that sent me mails, sorry, I don't reply Nairaland emails.
For those that wants to date, I can't date people with account on NL, thats one reason I love my BF, he doesn't fancy NL at all, he thinks its for jobless people or people with so much money that they now have time at their disposal to waste

Dumb & Dumber!

Iceberg3:

Political o lolsssssss

If u get sense, u go no say I dey abuse them...
Ain't a Coward like u calling ur tribesmen to help u fight.
U even a kid sef, why am I replying u for God sake..

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Ishilove:

Heh. I like this lady. Your forthrightness is so refreshing.

Thanks, king of Romance NL. I'm always seeing you on Romance threads, but why? I only come here when I'm severely bored/frustrated, because half the story is not properly composed and some authors forget to write important parts. Its very possible one advice wrongly. So I just come here for the laugh.
What's your own reason, I'm intrested

abimbola74:

God bless you. I love you olohun

Amen.

Millenniumlady:
Girl this is 2020 and if a man ain't ready to do all you want then boy bye.

All u want, as how you be? Àbí, buahri pikin.. Not what he wants... Wait who dey marry who? Na so you dey dictate for your múmu boyfriend àbí if at all u even get 1

mandate12:


She's doing 'big ideas' for a living

Lol... Una mouth eh?

mandate12:


She's doing 'big ideas' for a living

Exactly, I'm doing innovative ideas for a living

dom80:
the op is so proud and arrogant. I read how she replied to people comments. it's a shame. are you the only one that graduated with a good result? there are so many people who came out with a good grade and they aren't proud like this perfidious op. I graduated with 5.00CGPA. come lemme take care of your entire generation... rubbish

I'm still laughing, on the one end,I'm frustrated with low self esteem, on the other end, I'm proud.
Good luck with your 5.0cgpa, congratulations. How can a faceless person be proud on a faceless forum? Open your brain.

benikad:
You are so superb, I wish I had a lady that can push me the way u are doing, seems we have a
lot in common, why not try me .... Probably God designed we will be meeting here

You can contact me via my mail.....
ben_d_great@yahoo.com

What do we have in common please? Lol

What have you contributed to his life apart from pressure?

You can't nag a man to prosperity just because you want to be Mrs Wealthy guy.

Leave your boyfriend to move at his own pace. Encourage him while at it. A lot of 90k jobs in Nigeria already come with lots of pressures. The last thing men want to hear is that they're not doing enough. C'mon!

If you're not comfortable with his current salary or lifestyle. Please do well to move on.

DenreleDave:


If u get sense, u go no say I dey abuse them...

Ain't a Coward like u calling ur tribesmen to help u fight.

U even a kid sef, why am I replying u for God sake..

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Oh,now a "repliya".....in a "Political thread o"


Lolsssssss

DerenleMENTAL.

Acmepreneur:
Thanks to all commentors.
But please, i want to know the mod that took this to front page?
Una don turn Nairaland to a joke wallahi

Thanks to all commentors, you really made my day and I laughed so hard, especially those that think I have low self esteem and I'm not near intelligence.

It seems that some males on NL are already pained and frustrated about their broke assess and was already ready to any bash girl.

For those that took their time to read all the stories, I wanna say thank you, it means we are bored together as if not lockdown, you no fit see me for NL they ask yeye questions and be reading comedians comments.

For the unbelievers, the story is true,though with some little tweaks, because I don't know if my boyfriend siblings&friends are on NL, so I gave it some tweaks, though I can't vouche for other stories here on NL if they are true or false.

For those that sent me mails, sorry, I don't reply Nairaland emails.
For those that wants to date,lol, I can't date people with account on NL, thats one reason I love my BF, he doesn't fancy NL at all, he thinks its for jobless people or people with so much money that they now have time at their disposal to waste or people severely bored. Yes, I know some people are making money with the help of NL, especially in the business section, bitcoin, cryptocurrency,PayPal, forex trade threads.
And the GRE,IELTS section is also very good, but I still can't date a NL active member especially those active on Romance section.

Final Conclusion, I can never leave my boyfriend, I don't even know why I asked such question

thank God you're out of his life. Please dont go back. If you do, you'll frustrate and disorganize him. Your love is toxic, you nag, you're not even proud of him. Gtfo of his life bitch. You dont even have a job, can't even buy your own data, asks for t. Fare whenever you visit. You be winch?

Dear, Your dad may be the patient and calculative type, and any pushing will be seen for an advise. With an impulsive and impatient person, your push will be a nag. Be careful how you apply your mum's principle on your man.

Acmepreneur:

Lol, funny guy. Yes, my ambition is on him because I love him. In my family, wives are very important in making husband's grow, my dad won't be where he is today if not my mum, some people need the push.
I as well do not appreciate wives with husband that is not progressing, we tell our women to be a pusher

Amhappy:
Is either you work hard to get what you want or you forgot about him and find another. I was like you, got hitched to an unambitious man, wasting my time supporting my man to get to his feet. I wasted money I didn't have for him to do courses which he never completed. I did none for myself. My silly thought was he will get a better job,probably a side biz and I can resign my yeye job like other women in my company then and do masters. You don't make that kind of plan for a man,the man makes it with you. Finally he shut me out for disturbing him. He later lost his job and we both crashed. Now I have a lot of regrets for not taking opportunities to groom myself. Babe your man is a good man but may not give you a good life. That's his DNA. Some people are not just cut out to achieve greatness. If you want a good life with him,go all out and be successful. However greatness can be thrust upon him. Miracles exists.

I love this, Thanks ma'am. I'm constantly growing as well

crap and bullshit!

Tripitaka:
"I told him to"
"I want him to"
"I warned him not to"
"I advised him to"
"He wouldn't listen to me" and all the other stuffs.

It appears to me that you are foisting your opinion, choices and wishes on your partner. You want him to live his life your way, pursue his dreams following your chart and run his race with you as guide. Perhaps you want to be the Kapellmeister while you lead the orchestra that is his life.

If he were to follow your advise and it backfires or doesnt yield the expected fruit, who would take responsibility? There is something some of us do not acknowledge which is that not everyone wants to be wealthy, some people just want to be successful at what they do, some people just want to lead a simple and fulfilled life.

I also find your intentions questionable. Do you have all those "nice thoughts" for him because you love and wish him well, or because you want him wealthy enough to marry you next year and give you "the life"? Its a shame that you say you're not proud of someone ou claim to love and painting him as some loser.

There comes a time in the life of a man when he wants to do things his own way, steer his own ship, make his own mistakes and celebrate his own little victories.

I would have asked you to talk to him, but I believe you guys have talked about this over and over. So, the choice is yours to walk or stay

Jeez . Please, I want to know you. Claps