Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Nwanne, mechie gi onu osiso.

I say shut up.

Since when did men start making their wives earning potential their topmost criterion in choosing a partner?

That is the job for women to do.

As a man, your own job is to earn more and more money so that you can have as many women as you want.

That is the natural order.

MelaninSkinGirl:


I have seen these professional bachelors, trust me they are lonely, there is only so much women you can sleep with and then one day, you wake up, 60 and alone with no legacy. Having baby mamas is punishment for your children and subjecting them to a bad start in life. There are single parents who are that against their will but to actively want to be a single parent is selfish.

Shut up. I love great women and I love posterity. But you can't use that as a selling point. If a foolish woman gives birth to useless and untrained children , where is the legacy in that. Your legacy is first attached to your SUBSTANCE , your NAME, what you make of your self before talking about children. Children are important , but they should come from the right woman. A bad child can even wreck the name you build for years and destroy your heritage and property. I know men are getting tired of women and if not because of the urge of SEX that leads to children, no man going somewhere will consider women and their baggage of woes

Wow this is the best topic so far. So I m not alone .

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Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

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Nope. The mistake is marrying without having any form of steady income no matter how small...

The biggest mistake is to marry at all. In this generation marriage has lost is values, cause what the society teaches now has made both sexes polygamous been married doesn't mean you the only one smashing your wife or your husband.. First time I smash a married woman I felt guilty, but now no more it is a norm cause I see people getting married as stupid... As a guy if you really want kid I will advise you go the baby mama way.. If you want sex boys there no problem our generation vagina has lost is value so easy to access...

Truly. May I also add a lady from a lower class or poor home else she’ll drain you financially with her family problems. Avoid any babe from a poor home especially ones who’ve unemployed siblings.

Make no mistake about it no girl will see her family suffer when she has a hubby who’s kinda comfortable or even if you’re managing without devising means of fleecing you to help her family.

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Very true but most Nigerian guys are scared of girls with decent incomes except for the leeches like Tiwa Savage's ex husband. Guys will rather have a girl with virtually no income so they can blackmail her with money when she messes up or goes against their wish.

In general though, it is wise to have an earning partner. I have no intention for marriage but my baby mama will definitely be in my income class.

Tired of dealing with broke begging bitches.

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

spot on

Wait let me guess, extramarital affairs are bad when its the women cheating?

Helios85447:
would rather go and marry a Northern virgin lady ......preferable Fulani better still make she no even get work self or wise at all that will be much better.... do mistake go marry otherwise lol sorry is ur name...some working ladies self are just worst dey can bleep their boss or one fine work co- worker behind ur back...northern ladies anytime any day

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hey, I showed you the science, you decide what you want to do with your lives. It's a free universe.

But believe me you, there is nothing sadder than a man who is 50something running around and sleeping with everything that moves. He thinks these pretty young girls love him, but he doesn't know they are in it for his wallet. It's a sad life.

There goes your so called study on men being happier in marriage off the window. Without marriage most women will sexually expire by 30years as men would traditionally go for younger sweet 16s.

You lie. You will only not be able to make it as a man when you marry the woman that doesn't fit your purpose in life. Marriage is not ordinary.
That is why we must seriously seek God to show us the right one

Naija246:
bro I'm just spilling red pill truths for my brother's oo
I hope they listen.
We men should seriously start questioning alot of thing's the society implicitly expects from us.

Marriage restricts a man's potential and freedom.
Have you ever noticed that the most productive time in a man's life is when he is still single.
Look at great inventor's from Nikola Tesla to Faraday, they all peaked when single.

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

So you think.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

wtf is study shews ...which studies by who from who to who, unhypotethical studies, non-epirical studies, unproven, falsified studies, fallacy.

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Haba, kilode? Are they that useless? Omo do wetin sweet you. This life na once, no waste am.

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I mentioned this on this thread. Reality is they end up as Liabilities and it is only natural to always want to get rid of liabilities hence the fights and struggles.

Of course verifiable facts from reputable sources are propaganda according to nairaland frustrated male red pillers

Naija246:
oh you mean propaganda science

Naija246:
most of these studies are propaganda in disguise.
in the real world, married men are more depressed, work more and are generally unhappy.

They are also easier to manipulate by employers since they have more to loose if they don't bring home the bacon.
A singles man's needs aren't much so you can't really manipulate him to work himself to death contrast that with a father with 3 kids and a wife to feed, such men will jump through hoops just to provide for their family.

PragerU published a video four years ago that was obviously propaganda encouraging men to marry, the backlash they got wasn't funny at all.
Men are wising up!! Especially men from the western world


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY

Starred

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

VERY BIG YES!



Unemployed and broke ladies of today are very rude, mannerless and uncouth...they expect too much and think too much of the worth of their body which is the only thing they wish to bring to marriage while expecting a well furnished mansion, cars, pampering, fidelity, steady supply of money and sex, etc......Nigerian men are waking up to the reality that marrying a broke, unemployed, mannerless lady is a BIG MISTAKE for any man to make in his lifetime!



Any guy getting married today must not make the mistake of marrying an unemployed lady unless the lady is very well mannered, respectful, appreciative and supportive of whatever you her fiance does for a living and also working tirelessly to start earning money of her own to support you, if not never make the mistake of marrying an unemployed lady.


Nigerian ladies always compare Nigerian marriage with foreign marriages, but they fail to understand that no American lady for instance stays idle without working to earn her own money she uses to contribute to the family's welfare.....only in Nigeria you see full grown, able body ladies idle, jobless, mannerless and expecting a man to foot all their life bills....the white ladies they use their men to compare Nigerian men can never condone a complete housewife who does not earn nor contribute a dime to the marriage, if you doubt, ask your friends living abroad

It’s that season again. Tears upon tears

The biggest mistake is to marry a person (man or woman)that is not going your direction. The center can never hold for both of you

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..
The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

lol dis one weak me o

Goodnigga:
Shut up. I love great women and I love posterity. But you can't use that as a selling point. If a foolish woman gives birth to useless and untrained children , where is the legacy in that. Your legacy is first attached to your SUBSTANCE , your NAME, what you make of your self before talking about children. Children are important , but they should come from the right woman. A bad child can even wreck the name you build for years and destroy your heritage and property.I know men are getting tired of women and if not because of the urge of SEX that leads to children, no man going somewhere will consider women and their baggage of woes

You are 100% correct on this.

The biggest mistake is not getting married to a jobless lady but getting married when there is no love but the lady has money...

She no get job now no mean say she no go get job tomorrow...

MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

women are not built to remain single and yet forcefully lure men to marriage, then frustrate the life of men.... studies show that married African men dont last... life span of a man is 45 and women is 65

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Who carried out the research??
Do you mind posting links of your purported studies??

bluefilm:


Nwanne, mechie gi onu osiso.

I say shut up.

Since when did men start making their wives earning potential their topmost criterion in choosing a partner?

That is the job for women to do.

As a man, your own job is to earn more and more money so that you can have as many women as you want.

That is the natural order.

Stop being a brainless bigot.

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

But u love big gbola na

The biggest mistake is marrying a wrong woman.

You wan corrupt me with dis gbola i beg wettin be dat self??

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

Society of women you mean??
Nobody is forcing anyone to get married, whatever rocks your jor.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Who carried out these studies, biko?

Your argument sounds not only biased but it makes you look stupid as well.

Take your _fucking studies and go _fuck yourself.