MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Yes they live longer shuttling redeem camp and Shiloh every Friday and they retain beauty with plenty foundation and mascara plus yansh and breast surgery. Oshisko!

ellapius:
fo u have one

Yes. I can offer u one

sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

I have to admit, you are right.
They prey on her finance.

sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

oh'kay!
so as a person, on personal grounds, all you ever wanna be is a "house wife" to a man?! a man working his arse off while you bring virtually nothing to the table?!
like you've got no goals, no prospect, no ambition to make your own damn money...buhh would rather depend on your so'called rich husby for every damn cent you would spend?!

"I'm a housewife to my husband", as if it's a proud thing to say.

no one is crying you a pond, talkless of a damn river!
Snap out of your illusion.

ellapius:
don't need ur money. I maybe richer than you self

Taa. You wish!!!! What your type calls money is what my type calls coins!!

However, it is the best choice of African men, who only dream of having a woman without activity, without work to better feel superior and reign supreme over his domestic slave.

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

pDudd:
The biggest mistake is to marry any woman at all.

As a man, can you tell me exactly what you benefit from marriage that you can't benefit as a single guy. Tell me.

Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36

Cosyfaith:


Lol, too bad you haven't met me

well.. I can not help to think you may not be any different. No offence. it's not you, it's me. i am the problem.

MelaninSkinGirl:

Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men.

Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all.

Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

your research is biased. As if you don't know also that marriage can also shortens man's life. As if you dont know that, some women a good number, are like agent sent to torment and make life a hell for most men... As if you dont also know that some women the moment they enters a mans life things begins to capsize. Babe just wake up, work on you self to develope your economic potentials and pray fervently that God should endow you spiritual potentials to build your dream home or marriage in dis case..... let me tell you dis secret, satan is using women as tool of destruction to vulnerable men..

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

This isn’t a “mistake”.
A mistake is something unintentionally done.
This one is INTENTIONAL.

gypsey:
well.. I can not help to think you may not be any different. No offence.

Then there is prolly a constant K in the equation. We don't need Einstein to intervene

luvlyADESUWA:


My brother, you might be typing this out of frustration, but i tell you "it's very good to marry, it sweeter when u marry a good woman" It is BEST when both of you are working and contributing to the home.

The end shall tell, old age is NOT what any man prays to live without a wife by his side...
#fact

Another female propaganda! Save us the bloody sermon!

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

is a plus but not the biggest mistake

BayMc:




oh'kay!
so as a person, on personal grounds, all you ever wanna be is a "house wife" to a man?! a man working his arse off while you bring virtually nothing to the table?!
like you've got no goals, no prospect, no ambition to make your own damn money...buhh would rather depend on your so'called rich husby for every damn cent you would spend?!

"I'm a housewife to my husband", as if it's a proud thing to say.

no one is crying you a pond, talkless of a damn river!
Snap out of your illusion.

Women bring nurturing and support and beauty to the table.
Guy, go carry belle naw.
In fact she is the table

ellapius, sexylassie2

Michelle55:

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?
What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

Whatever you sign can be unsigned!!!

Whatever you marry can be unmarried!!!

This is two ways. Some rich ladies also marries guys. My take is simple, we should help each other grow. Tables can turn, the poor person you married can later become richer than you. Bottom line, lets help each other if the resources is available.

Cosyfaith:


Then there is prolly a constant K in the equation. We don't need Einstein to intervene

I don't know what a contant K means, to be fair, you might be different but the problem is me. not the women i ve been married to or been in relationships with.



Would you explain what a constant K means please, i am quite ignorant on this things.

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Chop knockles. If I can't find one that would fit in church here in Nigeria, I'll go for a Latino when I'm in the State. Loyalty would be more assured.

TheArchangel:
After ranting, they will still end up getting married and will continue the rants.

Women gains nothing from marriage.


Marriage strips a woman everything she has... Her name, family, friends, preference even careers.

Next life, maybe a sperm bank will do the honors.

It's a lie. That was before.
Our generation ladies don't get strip-up because of marriage. All your preference is still intact if you have let him know before you start the relationship. The only thing that will strip off is your flat tummy...because of pregnancy....
You can still pursue your dream career before and after marriage. You can still maintain your maiden name before and after marriage
Talking about preference, marriage affects both man and woman preference. So no excuse...
However, it depends on the kind of perception you have about marriage, probably you are the housewife type.

MARRIAGE ?? Hmmnn ,when she left after giving me 2 kids ,a girl and a boy ,I shouted Thank God 100% times ,mehn ,that woman almost send me to my early grave ,as in she was possessed with a lot of demons and marine spirit, see me now enjoying my life and getting richer ,this thing called marriage isn't for everyone, only few men are lucky .With my two kids now ,I believed that am blessed and relishing this life without a wife .As for conji ,I have about 4 ladies giving it to me anyhow I want anytime.

sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

Are you married?

MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

U are talking in d nonsense, u are talking in something dat does not have adolescence...women? singlehood comot here

paul100:

She never said he will not get girl to Bleep.She said the girls the man want are just there for the money and a time will come that the man will not have time or energy for sex again and then it will be too last.At 75 maybe,he will be alone sitting in a big house looking at himself in the mirror.

Fortunately, sex isn't the only good thing in life. There's a beautiful, amazing world out there to explore. You can't get enough of it, even in a hundred lifetimes

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

What is dis one saying?

Lol

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

it may sound like a joke but is real shit!!! Avoid Nigerian women or at least be very wary before you commit to a Nigerian woman!!!!

When it comes to marriage, one cap doesn't fit all.

I'm married and I can tell you marriage is a bondage I miss my single life . Will never marry a Nigeria woman of this generation again

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

You see that you have no future. So u want to marry a guy that will fend for you.If u are a lady, i pray never to cross ur path.

I will rather marry a supportive understanding and contributive woman instead a working class stingy greedy and selfish woman who claims my own is my own but your own is our own.
Basically, don't marry a woman who is glued to money, whether working class or not.

pDudd:
The biggest mistake is to marry any woman at all.

As a man, can you tell me exactly what you benefit from marriage that you can't benefit as a single guy. Tell me.

There r some doors n opportunities that will not open until you r married. I have come across some business opportunities that don't go to unmarried folks. They r afraid to bring you in because they don't trust you as a single person, meaning you can sabotage n even runaway with something valuable when the opportunity appear. A friend was denied a particular job opportunity simply because he was not married at that age. They told him face to face that at his age he is not married, they did not employ him because they felt he is not a responsible person. When you have a family our society look at you with a particular level of trust than a single person.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

To slap you just dey hungry me. Give the source joor