Evercurious:
Op keep looking for money or who to dash you money.. Trust me you go wait old.. Trust our policies that keep changing every now and then .. Dont go look for a lady twith like mind ready to work with you in converting your visions and ideas to cash ..

Stay here dey look for money from people wey never got help themselves

Oluromantic:

Wise guy

AlhajaChinyere:


Anuofia, get lost!

Nooil:
Geez... I love this thread. So men can think like this? Wow! There is still hope.

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

Oluromantic:
This guy is a strategist. Stylishly seeking working class or connected ladies who would say ...oh he's a good handwork and a bright future, he just need support... It's good but such ladies don't exist on NL

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the Late of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

larryking540:


That's is why you have to learn how to be patient with a guy who u kw is trying his best to make sure u are alright,,,I kw of countless girls dat turn guys down because e pocket no heavy or he no touchhhhh reach davido ,,

I kw of a girl who lost a 4 years relationship just because say the guy no day package well ,dress well ,,,

You ladies have to learn wat patient is and also teach your daughter the spirit of patient

Liposure:
coming from a probable gold digging broad

Xclusiveme:
Is it by force to get married? If u don't have money to plan your marriage, then remain a bachelor and die a bachelor. You're obviously not mature enough to marry with this your reasoning

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Liposure:
dont be a liability 2 ur man. Always bring sumtin 2 d table

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Nooil:


It's like you're on the wrong thread. Perhaps you have memory loss, I'll advise you to go back to the beginning of the thread to refresh your memory.

But then, any time you need assistance to pay the bride price of your future wife, please don't hesitate to ask.

Evercurious:


Ooh dear.. It isn't my fault that you are this MYOPIC. Accept my sympathy for your FOOLISHNESS

ogechchukwu:
Please don't blame guys for women problem..
Is theirs .

Most of the women are looking for already made men ,,rich... to merry ...looking for cooked food not uncooked.


And with the *Late* of poverty in our country now ..

Is only few made ones are available..

Moreover..marriage is not meant for everyone...


Alot will remain unmarried..

Hence looking for rich


Dont want look for what to do on thrre own ..
Nigeria women are lazy idiots..

Ndubuisipaul1:


The good girls are also single why because the most guys in this country are unemployed..

Nooil:



Some men are not even willing to take any step. They are so comfortable eating mama thank you. Tufiakwa!

theDEVILisHERE:


..average guy in Nigeria is working overtime, OVERTIME!

Effort is not their problem
You just have a bad country with bad economy and greedy ladies

it's the poverty capital of the world with no jobs

not their fault.

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

Risentouch:




I remember back in the days when I was 21years, I used to say I will be married latest at 28, but funny enough I will be 28 this December and not even a girlfriend to show for come talk of being financially stable to take care of one

Evercurious:


Thank you . and thats why I advised that Op looked for a lady with like mind to assist him convert his vision and ideas to cash. Well thats if he has got any and doesnt know what to .

Reference:
I rather think it is a lack of vision rather than a lack of resources that hinders the establishment of new families tjrough the institution of marraiges.

Unions, marraiges are all about purpose. Two people coming together to accomplish something. It is in the coming together that resources are generated through the multiplication of wisdom and effort.

The woman is there to enable you 'make it'. I don't know from where this Nigerian concept of 'making it' before marraige came from but it is not presemt in any other society but one so monetised as ours in Nigeria. It is totally wrong. If you can make it on your own you probably donot need to marry.

We need a proper perspective on this thing. The provision of man in marraige is not limited to resources. His primary purpose in the marraige is the provision of leadership, the primary driver of vision and for Christians the primary link with God. Both are responsible to work and resource towards its success.

And ehen your partner is working and resourcing you will be comoelled to resoect that partner as an equal stakeholder in the marraige. That is why we constantly advocate that women create value within themselves in approaching marraige and men discard their traditional patriachial stand which is equally useless.

Zoie:

Like your female family members are, right?