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Numerouno94:
Wat kinda advice or discourse do u want frm nairalanders wen its obvious u hv made up ur mind not to inform ur mom?...

Honestly i feel like flogging u. God dnt let me get dis kinda dunce as a child.....Enjoy ur WWE.

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

realoscar84:
Imagine an undergraduate who can't stand up for himself in this open eyes era. Even if you 16 or 17 yrs of age cant you prove something to urself for once. U turned urself into his punching bag for what? Bullies love somebody who is timid. U have to engage him, not necessary to win him in a fighting contest but to show him enough is enough. Tell him, no more, it ends now. You make the whole thing too easy for him and he obviously enjoy bullying you, claiming territory because you surrender too easy. Life is all about determination. Man up and speak up, fight him with all ur strength and he will get the message clearly. It only take one attempt. He has his insecurity and that it Coz might probably be the biggest Lilly livered, coward son of a bitch when he go outside. Shame on his parents though. I wonder how some parents cannot spot their bully children. This matter dey vex me here wallahi. Imagine this boy stab him out of anger now, then you will start on reading on nairaland about how a 16yrs old boy stabbed his 23yrs yrs old Cozin to death. I wish I'm in that vicinity, make I buy this fight. Wicked generations.

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

Onnasucs1:
na person wey get sense dem dey Siddon talk with na. The person he described is definitely one of those overfed fools with nothing in the brain.

OP, I recommend option 2

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

Ebus12:
I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant

Ebenezer2O2O:
did the op tell you he's gay?

Investmentfreak:
Number 2 sounds cool, but what if the bully collects the knife ?

Ebus12:
I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant

realoscar84:
Imagine an undergraduate who can't stand up for himself in this open eyes era. Even if you 16 or 17 yrs of age cant you prove something to urself for once. U turned urself into his punching bag for what? Bullies love somebody who is timid. U have to engage him, not necessary to win him in a fighting contest but to show him enough is enough. Tell him, no more, it ends now. You make the whole thing too easy for him and he obviously enjoy bullying you, claiming territory because you surrender too easy. Life is all about determination. Man up and speak up, fight him with all ur strength and he will get the message clearly. It only take one attempt. He is insecured nd i put it to you that young man might probably be one of the the biggest Lilly livered, coward son of a bitch in that street Shame on his parents though. I wonder how some parents can spot their children as bully. This matter dey vex me here wallahi. Imagine if this boy stab him out of anger now, then you will start reading on blogs and nairaland how a 16yrs old boy stabbed his 23yrs yrs old Cozin to death. I wish I'm in that vicinity, make I buy this fight. Wicked generations.

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

Brightgem:
So his parents allow him beat up everyone in sight. Once Lockdown is over, you only need to insist to ur parents that you are not going back. Simple.

Seems you are really young. And what do people mean when they say cousin brother or cousin sister. Cousin is Cousin na.

Rhyah:
One thing you should never be afraid to do is to
SPEAK UP...

Don't feel you might be causing trouble between the families....No, you're in the process of correcting a misdeed...
If you report, you are not just helping yourself alone...you're also helping the so called bully of a cousin...and to hear he beats his sisters....tuuueehhhh!!!

Young man...tell your mum...tell your dad...Speak until someone does something...

And if you choose to...you might want to discuss with your aunt and her husband together first and then your parents if your cousin's parents didnt take any action...

Try avoid that guy like coronavirus

This is also an opportunity to get what you want...rent a room for yourself... However, the abuse issue is priority...tackle that first
But for a fresher, school hostel wont be bad if you have one...you could still spend that one year getting to know your environs...By 2nd year, you would have had your two legs firm enough on the ground to go living on your own...probably with a good roomie if you choose...

Ebus12:
But that will make him more aggressive bro

mrwonlasewonie:
lol so he's even older than his Bully?

Wow.well it could be envy wey dey worry the bully but whatever it is you shouldn't allow anyone Bully you much less someone younger than you.

Fidelismaria:

lol this is damn hilarious

You cousin beat you and you cannot defend yourself?


forget about causing problems between your parent and her sister and do something about it


are you schooling in UNN

Make I come help you treat your cousin fuckup


Lol

Bullies bully because they are insecure pricks so they act all confident and violent when all they really are is a big baby with daddy or mummy issues

KanwuliaExtra:
How old are you please?
He will soon step up his game and start phocking your azzzze! Watch out.

He is gradually making you his “bytch-woman”!
Na so e dey take start o!