adontcare:
Stress of taking care of the children, cooking, washing and other chores can drain women. Unlike single girls who don't have such responsibility. It's not easy. Who no like everyday knaking?

God bless you, most of these wives have careers and jobs doing. it's not easy at all even if they have maids. It's all about mutual understanding

adontcare:
Stress of taking care of the children, cooking, washing and other chores can drain women. Unlike single girls who don't have such responsibility. It's not easy. Who no like everyday knaking?

Most women always say this until after marriage. That passion for sex dwindles as time goes on

lefulefu:
she might not be attracted to her husband
she might have a guy outside who gives it to her
there are many reasons

LefuLefu

Phenomenal16:
...pls go n Marry U av over do

thanks for your advice, I guess u r married too.

The novelty of sex wears off faster in marriage and women are then consciously faced with the fact that sex is only only meant for procreation forgetting its also to satisfy the male sexually need(s).

Over time, that builts a sexual disconnect and mismatched libido.

zexy2030:

there was a lady friend who was a career woman, we fvck every night, she is a single parent and works very hard, I think the type of sex she likes was very early in the morning, two dose. She loves that, at night she wants to sleep but most men want sex before bed but early in the morning they don't want to get tired during work hours and that time is the best for women, most women confess early morning 5am sex gives them energy and makes their day fulfilled. while men say late night sex makes them refreshed the next day. so whose rule should we follow.

How can you be wasting your precious energy and fluid just like that on a daily basis? It is when you start producing children that the reality will dawn on you.

This is why men should be very grateful to their side-chicks.


They make a man's life complete and save u from sexual frustration.

paix:
How can you be wasting your precious energy and fluid just like that on a daily basis? It is when you start producing children that the reality will dawn on you.

You are right bro, but are u married?

Ndubuisipaul1:
I was listening to a radio broadcast for family matters. All the women that called, said their husbands demand for sex too much . The men that called said their their wife don't give them enough sex ..

Sorry to say this; I have played with a lot of pay girls. I have not seen any pay girl that have ever told me she is not in the mood to play. They are always in the mood. So why on earth will a woman refuse to satisfy the need of the one you claim to love ? A man that married you into his house and gives you everything he can afford ..

Ladies I need answers..

Wait until you're married before asking this question

abeg person no fit kill me with regular demand for sex afterall na till death do us part why does he want to do it everyday like say the thing wan run

Ndubuisipaul1:
I was listening to a radio broadcast for family matters. All the women that called, said their husbands demand for sex too much . The men that called said their their wife don't give them enough sex ..

Sorry to say this; I have played with a lot of pay girls. I have not seen any pay girl that have ever told me she is not in the mood to play. They are always in the mood. So why on earth will a woman refuse to satisfy the need of the one you claim to love ? A man that married you into his house and gives you everything he can afford ..

Ladies I need answers..

No the paid escorts/pay girls are not always in the mood, they are acting and pretending to get your money, I don't know any girl that is happy to open her legs to complete strangers because she likes it. Please be sensible.

After she cleans the home, prepares the food, prepares the kids for school, goes to work and works from 9-5, you still expert her to be a p...o...r.....nhub star in bed?

Have some sympathy and empathy, help her out with the household chores and the kids, she will be less tired and will want to do it on the chandelier if you want.

MelaninSkinGirl:
After she cleans the home, prepares the food, prepares the kids for school, goes to work and works from 9-5, you still expert her to be a p...o...r.....nhub star in bed?

Have some sympathy and empathy, help her out with the household chores and the kids, she will be less tired and will want to do it on the chandelier if you want.

You are right.

But in cases where she denies me sex playfully thrice, she don enter am be that.

You see, married women come online to complain of too much sex from their husbands but in their homes, they make sure one way or the other the husband is at least okay sexually so that he can be fine for the day at work. If u listen to them and do what you hear online, you go get problem o.

As for me I prefer quality than quantity. At most 3 times a month.

Op a lot of things contribute to it.

(1) tired from chores or office wahala(some women work as well)
(2) sometimes like me, i do feel hurt (injured) down there which would make me afraid of doing that till probably after i have felt okay. Not my wish for that to happen
(3) some women no longer love their spouse hence d denial This is just a few reasons.

For me it's (1) n (2) but that's in d past now as i have resolved never to deny my hubby for any reason except for monthly flow. N i noticed down there gets quickly healed with constant you know that's in any case of bruise

jamesbridget13:
Op a lot of things contribute to it.

(1) tired from chores or office wahala(some women work as well)
(2) sometimes like me, i do feel hurt (injured) down there which would make me afraid of doing that till probably after i have felt okay. Not my wish for that to happen
(3) some women no longer love their spouse hence d denial This is just a few reasons.

For me it's (1) n (2) but that's in d past now as i have resolved never to deny my hubby for any reason except for monthly flow. N i noticed down there gets quickly healed with constant you know that's in any case of bruise

Wise decision

zexy2030:

You are right bro, but are u married?

Yes I am by God's grace.

MelaninSkinGirl:


No the paid escorts/pay girls are not always in the mood, they are acting and pretending to get your money, I don't know any girl that is happy to open her legs to complete strangers because she likes it. Please be sensible.

Don’t Put up defense for them if you haven’t had the experience!!!!!

Martini101:


Don’t Put up defense for them if you haven’t had the experience!!!!!

Why don't you encourage your daughters or female relatives to take up the world's oldest profession? They can then give you a first hand and non-biased opinion.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Why don't you encourage your daughters or female relatives to take up the world's oldest profession? They can then give you a first hand and non-biased opinion.

Relationship expert...
How many break up or marraige you don dey sef, you seen to be everywhere romance.
Tell us what u really want, some might have it

Hello guys. Please I need the name of an old nollywood film. The plot was on girls living fake and pretentious lives. Nse Ikpe Etim was one of the actress. It had this scene where a young man wanted to buy tea but ended up leaving without it because of the series of annoying questions he was being asked.
Abeg make una help me. I wan use am relax this evening.

Quote me it you know am.

henrycloud:
Hello guys. Please I need the name of an old nollywood film. The plot was on girls living fake and pretentious lives. Nse Ikpe Etim was one of the actress. It had this scene where a young man wanted to buy tea but ended up leaving without it because of the series of annoying questions he was being asked.
Abeg make una help me. I wan use am relax this evening.

Quote me it you know am.

Abuja babes 1,2,3,4

paix:
Yes I am by God's grace.

thanks I will consider ur advice seriously. thanks brother.

paix:
Yes I am by God's grace.

thanks I will consider ur advice seriously. thanks brother.

zexy2030:

thanks I will consider ur advice seriously. thanks brother.

I wish you good luck as go through this self imposed challenge.

zexy2030:

thanks I will consider ur advice seriously. thanks brother.

I wish you good luck as you face this self imposed challenge.

paix:
I wish you good luck as you face this self imposed challenge.

hmmm, Amen.

denvers:

Relationship expert...
How many break up or marraige you don dey sef, you seen to be everywhere romance.
Tell us what u really want, some might have it

denvers:
Abuja babes 1,2,3,4

God bless you. I have seen it. Its pretty liars. Thanks.

It's not stress it's familiarity to be honest.

The women complaining of cooking, washing plates, cleaning the house, and etcetera - didn't they do all this when they were not married?

Asides children, domestic chores weren't an excuse when they were single, so why did it suddenly become a problem when married if not see finish?

Back then no matter how many chores women do at their house/parents house' sex with a man they like is something they always look forward to. Even the excuse of children sounds dumb to those who housed junior ones in their homes and yet found the time to see a man.

It's see finish to me, the consequence of mutual habitation is you lose the sense of wonder and intrigue for that person, especially if you were the one being chased in the relationship.

zexy2030:

That's a lie, sex was never a stress but a stress reliefer, if the husband sabi well how to make her cum, she will do those things with joy because greater joy is coming at night. More so, in marriages women use sex as tool to obtain the man or say their wish for the man to fulfill.
Honestly women love good sex but when it appears to be selfish she avoids it.

You are a man, so you won't understand, even with explanation. Sex makes one to relax, but stress can make it undesirable.

I will save this thread.

When I'm married, I'd come modify.