Acidosis:


Lol. Your surname, as in father's name? What happens to your mother's name?

Dande55:

Mother's maiden name.
The whole family, both male and female answers their mother's maiden name.

Dande55:

I prefer my father's name cos it makes more sense to me than my mum's.

Acidosis:


What about your husband's name?

Acidosis:


Mother's maiden name mostly belong to a man. Point is, you will take a man's name, whether father's or your husband's who's also a father to your children.

shebi nah 'if' you see man we go marry you put for house nah
You girls just mention marriage as if getting hitched is that easy in modern times.

Do you seriously think any thinking man wants to
Have some leech at home eating, watching TV and getting fat while he slaves away?

You girls are in for some rude awakening as the years go by
Nah small pikin dey worry you; no worry you go learn.

Minxie:
IF I get married (and that's a giant IF) I'm keeping my surname. No need to explain. Just keeping it

Acidosis:


Well I don't have friends that answers their mother's name and haven't seen names like Josephine Monica or Rebecca Agnes.


But I'm still curious to ask, which of the mother's names do your friends take - maiden name/father's/last name, first name or middle name? Are your friends male or female?

Taking your father's name while ignoring your husband's name because of "gender war" is a recipe for total ma.dness.

Ishilove:

In all these back and forth people seem to forget that we live in patriarchal society where the child belongs to the father as long as the woman's brideprice has been paid. When you legally marry, your father hands you over to another family. You drop your father's name and take up the name of the family you are married to. That is culture. All these senseless wokeness going on in the world now is why everything is spoiling. We have chosen to be wiser than our Creator.

How can anyone 'choose' to take their mother's name? There are spiritual implications attached to marriage which people are ignorant about. Did your mother marry herself? Were there not traditional and symbolic rites performed on her? It is only in societies where succession is matrilineal that this is permissible.

Let people continue their nonsense. I kuku no dey argue somethings. Everything these days is up for debate. It's tiring

Acidosis:


Good input Ishi. Me I don kuku tire. It's time to adopt a "siddon and look" mode.

Ishilove:

I'm way ahead of you on 'siddon lookery'

Naija246:
shebi nah 'if' you see man we go marry you put for house nah
You girls just mention marriage as if getting hitched is that easy in modern times.

Do you seriously think any thinking man wants to
Have some leech at home eating, watching TV and getting fat while he slaves away?

You girls are in for some rude awakening as the years go by
Nah small pikin dey worry you; no worry you go learn.

Arthur2021:
I knew it will be Solomon buchi,I have not seen a manginas in my entire life with so much disgust and hate for men.
This men spend his time online stirring up gender wars and always looking for ways to talk of men.
There is no attack he hasn't talked about launching on men.

LOL, DON'T BE DECEIVED BY THIS HUSTLE. BUCHI DOESN'T HATE MEN, HE'S ONLY TRYING TO SURVIVE. RICH EMOTIONAL WOMEN SEND HIM COIN FOR ALL HIS ACTIVITIES OF CURSING MEN ONLINE. THEY MAY EVEN ARRANGE TO MEET UP AND GET SEXUALLY INVOLVED BECAUSE HIS CONTENT GIVES JOY TO MILLIONS OF MEN-HATING FEMINISTS IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND.
THIS MAN IS RAKING IN BIG BUCKS TO POST SHIT. IF HE INTRODUCES ME AS HIS INTERNET SHIT-POSTING ASSISTANT, I WILL THROW AWAY ALL MY COMMON SENSE AND JOIN HIM CURSING MEN TOO .
YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH YOU CAN CAN CASHOUT ON VULNERABLE WOMEN ONCE THEY'RE EMOTIONAL AND FEELING HURT. YOU CAN EVEN CONVINCE THEM TO BLOW UP THE EARTH AND THEY GO "OKAY". BOOOOM!

CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, DON'T BE DECEIVED BY THIS HUSTLE. BUCHI DOESN'T HATE MEN, HE'S ONLY TRYING TO SURVIVE. RICH EMOTIONAL WOMEN SEND HIM COIN FOR ALL HIS ACTIVITIES OF CURSING MEN ONLINE. THEY MAY EVEN ARRANGE TO MEET UP AND GET SEXUALLY INVOLVED BECAUSE HIS CONTENT GIVES JOY TO MILLIONS OF MEN-HATING FEMINISTS IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND.
THIS MAN IS RAKING IN BIG BUCKS TO POST SHIT. IF HE INTRODUCES ME AS HIS INTERNET SHIT-POSTING ASSISTANT, I WILL THROW AWAY ALL MY COMMON SENSE AND JOIN HIM CURSING MEN TOO .
YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH YOU CAN CAN CASHOUT ON VULNERABLE WOMEN ONCE THEY'RE EMOTIONAL AND FEELING HURT. YOU CAN EVEN CONVINCE THEM TO BLOW UP THE EARTH AND THEY GO "OKAY". BOOOOM!

Ishilove:

In all these back and forth people seem to forget that we live in patriarchal society where the child belongs to the father as long as the woman's brideprice has been paid. When you legally marry, your father hands you over to another family. You drop your father's name and take up the name of the family you are married to. That is culture. All these senseless wokeness going on in the world now is why everything is spoiling. We have chosen to be wiser than our Creator.

How can anyone 'choose' to take their mother's name? There are spiritual implications attached to marriage which people are ignorant about. Did your mother marry herself? Were there not traditional and symbolic rites performed on her? It is only in societies where succession is matrilineal that this is permissible.

Let people continue their nonsense. I kuku no dey argue somethings. Everything these days is up for debate. It's tiring

Omoluabi16:
I loff you!

Arthur2021:
I knew it will be Solomon buchi,I have not seen a manginas in my entire life with so much disgust and hate for men.
This men spend his time online stirring up gender wars and always looking for ways to talk of men.
There is no attack he hasn't talked about launching on men.

With prevailing issues like wife confiscating a late man property from his wife and tormenting widows,female genital mutilation his concern is a harmless surname.

This people will leave core issues to argue over things like packing plates during marriage
It seems their worth is attached to how many arguments they win online.

He even tagged it misogyny-what has never being a biggie to women or harmed them in any way.

Surname is taken by choice,but if a lady isn't hurt or belittled there is no need stirring up argument and gender war

Arthur2021:


I pity any woman that takes his words to heart,after all the motivation and empowerment he gives women,he has openly said it(severally) that he can't marry any lady with stretch marks,non-flat belly,non- perky breasts,dark,and who doesn't earn up to 250k....the ladies unfollow him afterwards

THEY FOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CURSES MEN, AND UNFOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CHANGES DIRECTION.
I THINK I LIKE THE GUY. I LIKE HIS IRREGULAR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN AND I LIKE THAT HE SUFFERS A BRAIN DAMAGE. I'M HIS FAN HENCEFORTH.

CAPSLOCKED:


THEY FOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CURSES MEN, AND UNFOLLOW HIM WHEN HE CHANGES DIRECTION.
I THINK I LIKE THE GUY. I LIKE HIS IRREGULAR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN AND I LIKE THAT HE SUFFERS A BRAIN DAMAGE. I'M HIS FAN HENCEFORTH.

Arthur2021:
lol...he seldom talks if women(1%)...

The day he talked about his spec was when he was advising ladies not to settle for less and don't be ashamed of their choice. He used himself as an example,stating his spec...it didn't go well with some ladies.

But to compensate them the next day post was about calling men animals

CAPSLOCKED:


AT THE MENTION OF ANIMALS, WOMEN CAME RUNNING TO HIS PROFILE FROM NEAR AND WIDE.

THAT GUY'S CASHING OUT BIG TIME. JUST SAY SILLY THINGS AND YOU GET WOMEN TRIPPING. A WOMAN CAN SELL HER CHILD JUST TO SHOW APPRECIATION FOR BUCHI'S ANTI-MEN CRUSADE.
HE'S AN IGBO MAN. WISDOM!

Michelle55:
2020.. A year of different madness