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Re: If Marriage Were by jawalis(m): 8:21pm On May 22, 2020
Stacyomolola:
Ouchh, be a little tender on her
I mean no harm neither do i intend to be hash. Just my mind
Re: If Marriage Were by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:25pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
did I mention that I dated them? I'm talking about those that came forward for marriage. It's you that won't get married, not me.
so men came forward for marriage but never dated you?! again, before anyone remotely thinks of marrying you, they have to get to know you through dating etc (unless your religion frowns upon it, therefore blame your religion)...
- so if nobody wants to date/get to know you, then who should be blamed (if not YOU) ?
- if men came forward for marriage and you (or your family) turned them down, then who should be blamed (if not YOU )?
Re: If Marriage Were by Nyamve1: 8:28pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
I'm tired of hearing this crappy question "When are you getting married?" Really? Like I'll marry myself. I'm 32 years old, If I were a man I would have married because I have the financial strength and capacity for it but since I have to wait for one man to take the bold step, I shall keep waiting. I can't kill myself.
Traceey Traceey Traceey, hw many times did i call u? If i marry my wife i will change her name to Traceey
Re: If Marriage Were by Amarabae(f): 8:29pm On May 22, 2020
your prayers will be answered.
Re: If Marriage Were by PoliticallyInco: 8:31pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
I'm tired of hearing this crappy question "When are you getting married?" Really? Like I'll marry myself. I'm 32 years old, If I were a man I would have married because I have the financial strength and capacity for it but since I have to wait for one man to take the bold step, I shall keep waiting. I can't kill myself.
Oh well. Two must first agree.

People must recognize this. You can't force yourself. Even if you were Alakija you won't kidnap a man. Although men would rush your way sha and profess fake love.


Anyway. It isn't a race. Marriage isn't an achievement either.

If you know the type of man you would like, he will come to you. I recommend you follow Bob Proctor on this. Try it and don't worry your self jare. It will happen when it will happen.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knKyfYvGPZM
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 8:37pm On May 22, 2020
Update;

Most people on nairaland are sick. To hell with your fucking opinions. I gave a lady here my phone number to call me and she started accusing me of being a guy. Why are you all calling me a guy? Stupid set of people. I will never bring my issues here again. You've all got nothing but bitterness to offer
Re: If Marriage Were by Joystark(f): 9:16pm On May 22, 2020
They go soon scam person for this thread. grin
Re: If Marriage Were by ibkonekt(m):
32 years old....you should be looking to marry a 54 year old man. most guys btw 30 to 40 wont look your way. what were you doing in your early 20's....probably sleeping around in the guise of strong and powerful....a woman's ovaries and eggs have started to die around this again by 40 to 50 all eggs are dried up...then there is no way to conceive naturally except from one hospital to another
Re: If Marriage Were by Yungsym(m): 9:37pm On May 22, 2020
Maybe u are just too pickee.....since loads are already coming your way u can't tell u no one interest u among them
Re: If Marriage Were by mrblessed(m): 9:41pm On May 22, 2020
Who says you can't "buy" a man when you possess strong financial wherewithal and has shown readiness to put your mouth where your money is? Are men that expensive? I don't think so. At your age and class you are supposed to have gotten yourself at least a dozen men. Maybe you have paid little attention to one of this feminist theories and have unwittingly unsettle not a few for publicly declaring that men are scarce.

I am conflicted: so happy and yet, so, so worried about you. I am elated because the arena you treaded in is one that has the potential to solve your problem. So people many who worshipped in this sanctuary have had a hard time recounting their testimonies. I equally feel upset because, knowing how unsparing my brothers are in sending private message to any monicker with feminine feature, I am not sure you can handle the deluge of messages that would certainly torpedo your account. In any case, you are, for sure, on your way of "buying" yourself a man.
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 22, 2020
ibkonekt:
32 years old....you should be looking to marry a 54 year old man. most guys btw 30 to 40 wont look your way. what were you doing in your early 20's....probably sleeping around in the guise of strong and powerful
you re very stupid and and an idiot. Hopeless fool. When I have men in their 20s and early 30s licking my feet. Idiot
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 22, 2020
ibkonekt:
32 years old....you should be looking to marry a 54 year old man. most guys btw 30 to 40 wont look your way. what were you doing in your early 20's....probably sleeping around in the guise of strong and powerful
your mother and sisters are the ones sleeping around. Bastard!
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 10:02pm On May 22, 2020
ibkonekt:
32 years old....you should be looking to marry a 54 year old man. most guys btw 30 to 40 wont look your way. what were you doing in your early 20's....probably sleeping around in the guise of strong and powerful just like my sisters
nitwit
Re: If Marriage Were by AfroKnight: 10:04pm On May 22, 2020
Lol. Shebi they say men are cheap. grin

32 is a dicey age. You think you shouldn’t risk any meaningless relationship but keep rejecting until another year goes by. You want to get it right once and for all. But life is not like that anymore. You will have to be even more open minded now, since you actually want to be married.

Good luck on your mission. Send us the wedding IV.
Re: If Marriage Were by Numero9: 10:20pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
.Update;

Most people on nairaland are sick. To hell with your fucking opinions. I gave a lady here my phone number to call me and she started accusing me of being a guy. Why are you all calling me a guy? Stupid set of people. I will never bring my issues here again. You've all got nothing but bitterness to offer
This is the reason men dont want you for marriage.

Take yourself to an experienced Mechanic, let them fix the engine you call heart and your mouth. They have all the tools! Thank yourself latter.
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 22, 2020
Numero9:
This is the reason men dont want you for marriage.

Take yourself to an experienced Mechanic, let them fix the engine you call heart and your mouth. They have all the tools! Thank yourself latter.
shut d Bleep up. Idiot. Mr know all the reason.
Re: If Marriage Were by ogechchukwu: 10:34pm On May 22, 2020
Can I see your pics ..

Let's take it step at a time..
Very serious..

Hence you can't marry yourself..
I want to make a move am a Nigeria guy that stay abroad..

NOT a joke
Re: If Marriage Were by jasent(m): 10:37pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
some of them are not marriageable. Considering factors like education, tribe, looks ...
That's the problem, ur standard is too high.
Re: If Marriage Were by WaywardSon(m): 10:59pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
I'm tired of hearing this crappy question "When are you getting married?" Really? Like I'll marry myself. I'm 32 years old, If I were a man I would have married because I have the financial strength and capacity for it but since I have to wait for one man to take the bold step, I shall keep waiting. I can't kill myself.
hey I'm Nelly can we meet online? WhatsApp perhaps
Re: If Marriage Were by Acme45: 11:11pm On May 22, 2020
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Trayceey:
you re very stupid and and an idiot. Hopeless fool. When I have men in their 20s and early 30s licking my feet. Idiot
and you are still single?
Re: If Marriage Were by ogechchukwu: 11:14pm On May 22, 2020
Will love to hear from you you sound very intelligent.

Send me SMS..
U never know ..

In life anything is possible..

Never say never .



Am naija guy ..

+27635924279

Send me SMS not WhatsApp
Re: If Marriage Were by Acme45: 11:14pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
your mother and sisters are the ones sleeping around. Bastard!
even when you are insulted why not speak politely. A woman need humility to win a man's heart.
Re: If Marriage Were by Noel19: 11:15pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
did I mention that I dated them? I'm talking about those that came forward for marriage. It's you that won't get married, not me.
Some of our problems are attitudinal
God will never come down from heaven to solve our singlehood .He sends people Just that they don't appear wearing angelic wings, don't have brightest educational qualification and may not appear as "Mr. Right.

We can't keep dragging the queue with others asking God for open doors when all we do is frown throughout the week at suitors that come your way with uncouth attitude and behaviour as if they are responsible for all our woes on earth.

If the guys you meet doesn't bring you joy to the extent of unleashing all your venom on your poor innocent suitors, then you might as well have a rethink to rediscover your purpose on earth so as to have a firm hold on your bearing in life to directly be in tune with what brings you joy and fulfillment.


We go to church smiling sweetly at everyone and silently asking God why our suitors refuse to return after their first encounter with with us.


Please Change, Church isn't the only time we are expected to show teeth and be nice towards our fellow humans but every blessed day of the week.


This is just my widows might!
Re: If Marriage Were by Acme45: 11:16pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
shut d Bleep up. Idiot. Mr know all the reason.
is this how you want to get married?
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 11:18pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
I'm tired of hearing this crappy question "When are you getting married?" Really? Like I'll marry myself. I'm 32 years old, If I were a man I would have married because I have the financial strength and capacity for it but since I have to wait for one man to take the bold step, I shall keep waiting. I can't kill myself.
Re: If Marriage Were by Numero9: 11:21pm On May 22, 2020
Trayceey:
shut d Bleep up. Idiot. Mr know all the reason.
You just gave another reason here.

I won't mince words with you. You're 32 (almost 33), your situation is so pathetic and I wouldn't want to add to it.
Re: If Marriage Were by purples25(f): 12:56am On May 23, 2020
Hi Trayceey. Don't lose hope, things will work out ok?
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 1:13am On May 23, 2020
Trayceey:
loads of them have been coming
Then ask one of them to marry you now I don't see the reason why you will come here and disturb us with that angry
Re: If Marriage Were by Reynbowjenie: 1:38am On May 23, 2020
So sorry lipsrsealed
Re: If Marriage Were by Nobody: 6:46am On May 23, 2020
Numero9:
You just gave another reason here.

I won't mince words with you. You're 32 (almost 33), your situation is so pathetic and I wouldn't want to add to it.
you're a fool. Which situation is pathetic? That I'm not yet married? Grow up. At least I'm comfortable in life
Re: If Marriage Were by Impostor: 8:17am On May 23, 2020
Trayceey:
you're a fool. Which situation is pathetic? That I'm not yet married? Grow up. At least I'm comfortable in life
Don't mind Nailaland o, they will drag n drag you.
Re: If Marriage Were by Numero9: 9:24am On May 23, 2020
Trayceey:
you're a fool. Which situation is pathetic? That I'm not yet married? Grow up. At least I'm comfortable in life
If you're are comfortable, you should be happy and not complaining about your lingering predicament to an online forum of strangers. Lol

Deep down you arnt happy (you know), you arnt fulfilled yet (you know it). I've met your type twice and I know how they try to look radiant during the day, but cry at night cuz no MAN!!!

Face your fears. You don't know me please.


Full stop!
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