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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:39pm On May 23, 2020 |
ChewingStick: How?? Clear me bro!! For this work Nobody knows all We learn erryday |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Expresswriter: 12:44pm On May 23, 2020 |
You're the one hurting yourself. What do you expect when you live in the past? She's moved on. Not you. You're still having her picture in your laptop! Haven't you heard of burning or destroying mementos from past relationships? You don't want to get healed and move on. You're feeling guilty. And you think that by winning her back the guilt will go away. Wrong approach. The average American is careful with Nigerian guys. They know our Naija story wella. That's why she said you keep asking her for stuff and that's why she concluded you're trying to use her. That wasn't a time to hit back by telling her to go "Bleep her sand" as you said. What is wrong with "sand" as a gift? It's not about the substance, it's about the care laced to the act of gifting! But you missed this. Rather you tried defending your self in order to pump your ego. What better way than to tell her to go "Bleep her sand!" Now she has gone to "Bleep her sand" -- so why call her back? You're just complicating things for yourself, young man. Let me stop here. I have more to say but I have other things to do now. You're supposed to be paying for this advice sef. But that's not a problem. Money isn't my concern. I have it in abundance. I just wish you won't make this type of mistake next time. Leave your past if you must move on. Not every relationship can be remedied. No man moves forward by looking backward 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 12:45pm On May 23, 2020 |
tunize: Can you make the same mistake twice? na mistake I use comot Nigerian leg but same mistake no go happen fr marriage mai I no lie you I no dey approach dem cuz where otta guys see beauty I see rot I'm almost writing a book sef on how/why Nigerian guys have to stop helping these girls and let's build ourselves (I mean guys to guys) if guys can give these monies they pay to prostitutes or providing for girls needs to guys who are business minded 9ja girls would have a rethink and get sense my hopes are Nigerian guys read this and learn 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:46pm On May 23, 2020 |
xendra: Are you a girl or a boy? If you're a girl In fact I'm paying for your movie ticket,plus a chicken pizza after the lockdown because of this comment If you're a guy then you must be a real nigga And its because of you Guy's I posted this because real recognise real Omo naija girls dey very boring and annoying mehn,,,not one of them dey creative its either Yankee women or i'm single for life |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tunize(m): 12:48pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup:But u don f*ck Nigeria before abi? because u nor be virgin |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:52pm On May 23, 2020 |
Expresswriter: You gat some valid points but to be honest Woman you're dating for two year's wan carry sand as souvenir you go dey happy collect am abi? Let's tell ourselves the truth bro |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:02pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup: One bottle with one tap of arizona for your head bro You must be a real gee to know that these poor European women are loyal asf I get one for Venezuela,she encourages me When I'm depressed, no money for now but her son is working in Spain and soon she go migrate I get solid hope say through her I go enter Spain chill for Ibiza I wish to travel to Ibiza in my life time I get another contact single mother in Indonesia young beautiful loyal girl nurse but she no get money to make thing's worst naira get value pass Indonesia rupiah She wants me to travel down their and come live with her |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup: Correct guy no forget to lunch your book here after you Don write am |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:08pm On May 23, 2020 |
Happyfela: I been wan send her Ankara clothe wey my tailor for run last December through FedEx |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Nobody: 1:19pm On May 23, 2020 |
xendra:I saw what you did there.. The money when e wan hustle from the woman na still naija girls go chop ham. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Nobody: 1:53pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky:mtcheeeeew. So she doesn't pay for her internet? |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 2:00pm On May 23, 2020 |
[s] xendra:[/s] |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Dfynboi: 2:18pm On May 23, 2020 |
guy ur jackpot is slipping away and u re dr watching,u beta waka for am...if u knw u knw |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 2:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky: You see those US/canada ladies I dey always tell guys wey wan settle with them mai dem run oo cuz those days of American yung lady coming down to take a guy, spons him bla bla no dey again those girls don tear eyes now If you really do like the Venezuelan lady stick to her most of them dey dey very loyal just like this my Serbia girl mehn she's too emotional I can't even try breaking her heart Guyy like I was in a restaurant with a new girl like that then this guy entered with his white girl mehnn I saw their little daughter and I wished I had the talent of kidnapping cuz the Lil girl was damn pretty asf with tha naturally curly hair. As we comot that restaurant ion know how/why the 9ja babe just start irritating me for no reason I was remembering those times she'll ask me to sub fr her e.t.c anyways we don't talk again 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by AhlexOfficial(m): 2:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky: Indonesia Dem poor for that side o... Naija go even better pass them 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 2:28pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky: Slimranky: I'll not forget but you gotta be amongst the nigga to bring about the change See now you don dey reason movie ticket plus chicken pizza for a girl but now it's a guy ur giving him nothing. we gotta change that bro, guys should be given chicken pizza fr sensible comment or given money to watch movies to |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by FanOfMyself: 2:29pm On May 23, 2020 |
Op, I understand your Hustle because I am in the streets too. In fact I met one black American girl in January who is 25 years and significantly younger than me. I met her on one app like that and like play like play she don dey drop small bar after just two months of constant chatting and video calls. Though her case is unique because she's disabled but I really appreciate and love her for whom she is. This lady has been paying me every 1st of every month starting from march 1st and she will still drop on 1st of june (by the grace of God). She's not necessarily rich and works from home plus monthly stipend from the government due to her condition but she still sends me slip every month. Now back to your question, you may have presented your self wrongly to her at the beginning of the relationship and failed to establish the grounds on which she ought to be moved to be paying you from time to time. You ought to manipulate her and work her emotions to your favour, but first and foremost she MUST really feel something for you. Two years is a long time for you to know if she is serious with you or not, so if you aren't benefitting from her at all, you have to let her go and look for other ones to avoid wasting your resources. You don't have to block her, just stop texting her first and only reply her when she writes you or something like that. You may be surprised as how she will start valuing you more than she currently does. These FOREIGN WOMEN are BORED as fuvk and needs companion from someone who is available but it takes time, patience and crafts to get them to do your bidding 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:02pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky:Bro Na Wetin dey do you be this... Hustle hard and make enough money to travel out to any part of the world and bang any tight white pussy you so desire, diswan no send you again free am... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:06pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup: Bro no reason am As a real gee we go hang out for corner drink some bottles and smoke some weed All those pizza and movie ticket na woman something na |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:07pm On May 23, 2020 |
cassbeat: Thanks bro |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:08pm On May 23, 2020 |
tunize:How him wan take Bleep Nigeria na is he bubu?? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky:yeah man |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:13pm On May 23, 2020 |
AhlexOfficial: Indonesia poor asf Na she use her mouth tell me say our money get value pass their money,so na me go come see her Them dey pay her 3million rupiah to feed and care for her child 3million rupiah na just 79k lol 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:14pm On May 23, 2020 |
cassbeat: Lol so bubu dey fvvk naija like this |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by mrblessed(m): 3:19pm On May 23, 2020 |
Having read your chats between the line, it is clear she is not into you the way you are into her. The fact that you pester for material stuff is another reason for her aloofness towards you. Asking members if you should let her go is bunkum, because you simply can't let her go, you are the one proping up the relationship for futuristic materialistic gains. We know that getting access to America is your endgame, why put forth a nonexistent feeling of love as your reason for holding the short end of the stick in the relationship. I am worried that you comfortable dating a women eight years your senior and someone with an uncommon health challenge. Just imagine if she is Nigerian and without this health problem, a lot of people should have questioned your sanity. Why is it that when it comes to aged white women, young Nigerians become daft and senseless, seeing them as an easy escape from poverty? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
[quote author=FanOfMyself post=89875481]Op, I understand your Hustle because I am in the streets too. In fact I met one black American girl in January who is 25 years and significantly younger than me. I met her on one app like that and like play like play she don dey drop small bar after just two months of constant chatting and video calls. Though her case is unique because she's disabled but I really appreciate and love her for whom she is. This lady has been paying me every 1st of every month starting from march 1st and she will still drop on 1st of june (by the grace of God). She's not necessarily rich and works from home plus monthly stipend from the government due to her condition but she still sends me slip every month. Now back to your question, you may have presented your self wrongly to her at the beginning of the relationship and failed to establish the grounds on which she ought to be moved to be paying you from time to time. You ought to manipulate her and work her emotions to your favour, but first and foremost she MUST really feel something for you. Two years is a long time for you to know if she is serious with you or not, so if you aren't benefitting from her at all, you have to let her go and look for other ones to avoid wasting your resources. You don't have to block her, just stop texting her first and only reply her when she writes you or something like that. You may be surprised as how she will start valuing you more than she currently does. These FOREIGN WOMEN are BORED as fuvk and needs companion from someone who is available but it takes time, patience and crafts to get them to do your bidding [/quote You get my point bro, because we are in these streets together All you said above are basically right No doubt But emotional manipulation works perfectly when the contact no been get any biased mind from the onset Because she can't get pregnant again, she obviously hates having kids and thinks as a Nigerian I really need to have kids to continue my name going,I think she feel's maybe I'm gonna cheat on her tomorrow with a girl that can give birth, I don try clear me say me self no like kids but she dey get biased mind,she even tell me in the past say if I don migrate say I go drop my music career because she no go want make Yankee girls dey throw me their pants and bra on stage Her message was the last in our conversation last night and I ain't gonna reply until maybe after a month. |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:28pm On May 23, 2020 |
Slimranky:Baba dey rape us o |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:30pm On May 23, 2020 |
[quote author=Slimranky post=89877310][/quote]U dey sing?? Come feature me na... I dey rap, sing and write songs |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:30pm On May 23, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: You're right about them been bored and also yes the disabled one's are perfect game I once had a disabled white single mum in USA I was talking with on fb Before my fb IP address cast And I lost her, never had her email or WhatsApp , |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:34pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup: Bro Yankee children especially there daughter's are Smart asf Have you watched this movie my spy You saw what that 9years old girl did to Batista , |
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:40pm On May 23, 2020 |
cassbeat: I'm a singer and song writer bro Still upcoming though I sing afro fusion with a Likkle dancehall/reggae vibe Check out my signature to feel my vibes, I'm hustling so hard and smart so I can sponsor my music career I need to shoot an mtv based standard music video before 2020 expires |
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