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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:39pm On May 23
ChewingStick:
smiles... you've played some wrong cards.

How??
Clear me bro!!
For this work
Nobody knows all
We learn erryday
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Expresswriter: 12:44pm On May 23
You're the one hurting yourself.

What do you expect when you live in the past? She's moved on. Not you. You're still having her picture in your laptop! Haven't you heard of burning or destroying mementos from past relationships? You don't want to get healed and move on.

You're feeling guilty. And you think that by winning her back the guilt will go away. Wrong approach.

The average American is careful with Nigerian guys. They know our Naija story wella. That's why she said you keep asking her for stuff and that's why she concluded you're trying to use her. That wasn't a time to hit back by telling her to go "Bleep her sand" as you said.

What is wrong with "sand" as a gift?
It's not about the substance, it's about the care laced to the act of gifting! But you missed this. Rather you tried defending your self in order to pump your ego. What better way than to tell her to go "Bleep her sand!"

Now she has gone to "Bleep her sand" -- so why call her back? You're just complicating things for yourself, young man.

Let me stop here. I have more to say but I have other things to do now. You're supposed to be paying for this advice sef. But that's not a problem. Money isn't my concern. I have it in abundance. I just wish you won't make this type of mistake next time.

Leave your past if you must move on. Not every relationship can be remedied. No man moves forward by looking backward

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 12:45pm On May 23
tunize:

The funny tin be sey na inside same Nigeria woman leg u pass come out and will be even funnier because weda u like am or not na still the same Nigeria girl u go marry and go still born for you. calm down our women are special.

Can you make the same mistake twice? grin grin

na mistake I use comot Nigerian leg but same mistake no go happen fr marriage mai I no lie you I no dey approach dem cuz where otta guys see beauty I see rot

I'm almost writing a book sef on how/why Nigerian guys have to stop helping these girls and let's build ourselves (I mean guys to guys) if guys can give these monies they pay to prostitutes or providing for girls needs to guys who are business minded 9ja girls would have a rethink and get sense

my hopes are Nigerian guys read this and learn undecided

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:46pm On May 23
xendra:
guy, white women are gold, you must never stop trying or give up on your love for her, she will come around. if you dare leave her you will be stuck with all these "annoying" "dependent naija girls o cheesy

Are you a girl or a boy?

If you're a girl
In fact I'm paying for your movie ticket,plus a chicken pizza after the lockdown
because of this comment

If you're a guy then you must be a real nigga
And its because of you Guy's I posted this because real recognise real
Omo naija girls dey very boring and annoying mehn,,,not one of them dey creative its either
Yankee women or i'm single for life
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tunize(m): 12:48pm On May 23
tyup:


Can you make the same mistake twice? grin grin

na mistake I use comot Nigerian leg but same mistake no go happen fr marriage mai I no lie you I no dey approach dem cuz where otta guys see beauty I see rot

I'm almost writing a book sef on how/why Nigerian guys have to stop helping these girls and let's build ourselves (I mean guys to guys) if guys can give these monies they pay to prostitutes or providing for girls needs to guys who are business minded 9ja girls would have a rethink and get sense

my hopes are Nigerian guys read this and learn undecided
But u don f*ck Nigeria before abi? because u nor be virgin
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:52pm On May 23
Expresswriter:
You're the one hurting yourself.

What do you expect when you live in the past? She's moved on. Not you. You're still having her picture in your laptop! Haven't you heard of burning or destroying mementos from past relationships? You don't want to get healed and move on.

You're feeling guilty. And you think that by winning her back the guilt will go away. Wrong approach.

The average American is careful with Nigerian guys. They know our Naija story wella. That's why she said you keep asking her for stuff and that's why she concluded you're trying to use her. That wasn't a time to hit back by telling her to go "Bleep her sand" as you said.

What is wrong with "sand" as a gift?
It's not about the substance, it's about the care laced to the act of gifting! But you missed this. Rather you tried defending your self in order to pump your ego. What better way than to tell her to go "Bleep her sand!"

Now she has gone to "Bleep her sand" -- so why call her back? You're just complicating things for yourself, young man.

Let me stop here. I have more to say but I have other things to do now. You're supposed to be paying for this advice sef. But that's not a problem. Money isn't my concern. I have it in abundance. I just wish you won't make this type of mistake next time.

Leave your past if you must move on. Not every relationship can be remedied. No man moves forward by looking backward

You gat some valid points but to be honest
Woman you're dating for two year's wan carry sand as souvenir you go dey happy collect am abi?

Let's tell ourselves the truth bro
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:02pm On May 23
tyup:


Poor European ladies are the best white ladies you'll ever find cuz they're humble and supportive

I got a Girlfriend like that from Serbia she's not rich but she's everything a man can ask from a lady. I've spent on her but ion regret it cuz she'll do more than that for me if she have


One bottle with one tap of arizona for your head bro
You must be a real gee to know that these poor European women are loyal asf
I get one for Venezuela,she encourages me When I'm depressed, no money for now but her son is working in Spain and soon she go migrate
I get solid hope say through her I go enter Spain chill for Ibiza
I wish to travel to Ibiza in my life time
I get another contact single mother in Indonesia young beautiful loyal girl nurse but she no get money to make thing's worst naira get value pass Indonesia rupiah
She wants me to travel down their and come live with her
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:04pm On May 23
tyup:


Can you make the same mistake twice? grin grin

na mistake I use comot Nigerian leg but same mistake no go happen fr marriage mai I no lie you I no dey approach dem cuz where otta guys see beauty I see rot

I'm almost writing a book sef on how/why Nigerian guys have to stop helping these girls and let's build ourselves (I mean guys to guys) if guys can give these monies they pay to prostitutes or providing for girls needs to guys who are business minded 9ja girls would have a rethink and get sense

my hopes are Nigerian guys read this and learn undecided

Correct guy no forget to lunch your book here after you Don write am
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 1:08pm On May 23
Happyfela:
Send her Flower. This one na Pen pal for now.

I been wan send her Ankara clothe wey my tailor for run last December through FedEx
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Wetabix: 1:19pm On May 23
xendra:
guy, white women are gold, you must never stop trying or give up on your love for her, she will come around. if you dare leave her you will be stuck with all these "annoying" "dependent naija girls o cheesy
grin grin grin I saw what you did there.. The money when e wan hustle from the woman na still naija girls go chop ham.
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by PrettyPrint(f): 1:53pm On May 23
Slimranky:


You think??
You're not a real gee
Do you know
There's every possibility that your thoughts can be mere fallacies,
She never let's me go if not
She would have blocked me long time ago,
Do you know what it means to be on sub every time and call in a video call
There are many other Way's i contribute to her mental state and growth of the relationship
You are wrong again,im not a Yahoo boy
I'm not just into Nigeria girls
I don't have any Nigeria gf I don't want either
Overseas light skin women freak me like mad

mtcheeeeew.


So she doesn't pay for her internet?
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 2:00pm On May 23
xendra:
guy, white women are gold, you must never stop trying or give up on your love for her, she will come around. if you dare leave her you will be stuck with all these "annoying" "dependent naija girls o cheesy
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Dfynboi: 2:18pm On May 23
guy ur jackpot is slipping away and u re dr watching,u beta waka for am...if u knw u knw
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 2:21pm On May 23
Slimranky:



One bottle with one tap of arizona for your head bro
You must be a real gee to know that these poor European women are loyal asf
I get one for Venezuela,she encourages me When I'm depressed, no money for now but her son is working in Spain and soon she go migrate
I get solid hope say through her I go enter Spain chill for Ibiza
I wish to travel to Ibiza in my life time
I get another contact single mother in Indonesia young beautiful loyal girl nurse but she no get money to make thing's worst naira get value pass Indonesia rupiah
She wants me to travel down their and come live with her

You see those US/canada ladies I dey always tell guys wey wan settle with them mai dem run oo cuz those days of American yung lady coming down to take a guy, spons him bla bla no dey again those girls don tear eyes now

If you really do like the Venezuelan lady stick to her most of them dey dey very loyal just like this my Serbia girl mehn she's too emotional I can't even try breaking her heart

Guyy like I was in a restaurant with a new girl like that then this guy entered with his white girl mehnn I saw their little daughter and I wished I had the talent of kidnapping cuz the Lil girl was damn pretty asf with tha naturally curly hair. As we comot that restaurant ion know how/why the 9ja babe just start irritating me for no reason I was remembering those times she'll ask me to sub fr her e.t.c

anyways we don't talk again grin grin

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by AhlexOfficial(m): 2:25pm On May 23
Slimranky:

I get another contact single mother in Indonesia young beautiful loyal girl nurse but she no get money to make thing's worst naira get value pass Indonesia rupiah
She wants me to travel down their and come live with her

Indonesia

Dem poor for that side o... Naija go even better pass them

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 2:28pm On May 23
Slimranky:


Correct guy no forget to lunch your book here after you Don write am

Slimranky:


Are you a girl or a boy?

If you're a girl
In fact I'm paying for your movie ticket,plus a chicken pizza after the lockdown
because of this comment


If you're a guy then you must be a real nigga
And its because of you Guy's I posted this because real recognise real
Omo naija girls dey very boring and annoying mehn,,,not one of them dey creative its either
Yankee women or i'm single for life

I'll not forget but you gotta be amongst the nigga to bring about the change

See now you don dey reason movie ticket plus chicken pizza for a girl but now it's a guy ur giving him nothing. we gotta change that bro, guys should be given chicken pizza fr sensible comment or given money to watch movies to grin grin
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by FanOfMyself: 2:29pm On May 23
Op, I understand your Hustle because I am in the streets too. In fact I met one black American girl in January who is 25 years and significantly younger than me. I met her on one app like that and like play like play she don dey drop small bar after just two months of constant chatting and video calls. Though her case is unique because she's disabled but I really appreciate and love her for whom she is. This lady has been paying me every 1st of every month starting from march 1st and she will still drop on 1st of june (by the grace of God). She's not necessarily rich and works from home plus monthly stipend from the government due to her condition but she still sends me slip every month.

Now back to your question, you may have presented your self wrongly to her at the beginning of the relationship and failed to establish the grounds on which she ought to be moved to be paying you from time to time.
You ought to manipulate her and work her emotions to your favour, but first and foremost she MUST really feel something for you. Two years is a long time for you to know if she is serious with you or not, so if you aren't benefitting from her at all, you have to let her go and look for other ones to avoid wasting your resources. You don't have to block her, just stop texting her first and only reply her when she writes you or something like that. You may be surprised as how she will start valuing you more than she currently does. These FOREIGN WOMEN are BORED as fuvk and needs companion from someone who is available but it takes time, patience and crafts to get them to do your bidding cool

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:02pm On May 23
Slimranky:


Bro na USA she dey
That's why I'm stuck like this
One mind dey tell me to bone her but
When I see the picture of her fresh white clitoris
I go reason am
If I nor bang that tight white pussy
Wetin I gain
Bro Na Wetin dey do you be this... Hustle hard and make enough money to travel out to any part of the world and bang any tight white pussy you so desire, diswan no send you again free am...

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:06pm On May 23
tyup:




I'll not forget but you gotta be amongst the nigga to bring about the change

See now you don dey reason movie ticket plus chicken pizza for a girl but now it's a guy ur giving him nothing. we gotta change that bro, guys should be given chicken pizza fr sensible comment or given money to watch movies to grin grin

Bro no reason am
As a real gee we go hang out for corner drink some bottles and smoke some weed
All those pizza and movie ticket na woman something na
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:07pm On May 23
cassbeat:
Bro Na Wetin dey do you be this... Hustle hard and make enough money to travel out to any part of the world and bang any tight white pussy you so desire, diswan no send you again free am...

Thanks bro
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:08pm On May 23
tunize:

But u don f*ck Nigeria before abi? because u nor be virgin
How him wan take Bleep Nigeria na is he bubu??

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:10pm On May 23
Slimranky:


Thanks bro
yeah man
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:13pm On May 23
AhlexOfficial:


Indonesia

Dem poor for that side o... Naija go even better pass them

Indonesia poor asf
Na she use her mouth tell me say our money get value pass their money,so na me go come see her
Them dey pay her 3million rupiah to feed and care for her child
3million rupiah na just 79k lol

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:14pm On May 23
cassbeat:
How him wan take Bleep Nigeria na is he bubu??

Lol so bubu dey fvvk naija like this
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by mrblessed(m): 3:19pm On May 23
Having read your chats between the line, it is clear she is not into you the way you are into her. The fact that you pester for material stuff is another reason for her aloofness towards you. Asking members if you should let her go is bunkum, because you simply can't let her go, you are the one proping up the relationship for futuristic materialistic gains. We know that getting access to America is your endgame, why put forth a nonexistent feeling of love as your reason for holding the short end of the stick in the relationship.

I am worried that you comfortable dating a women eight years your senior and someone with an uncommon health challenge. Just imagine if she is Nigerian and without this health problem, a lot of people should have questioned your sanity. Why is it that when it comes to aged white women, young Nigerians become daft and senseless, seeing them as an easy escape from poverty?

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:25pm On May 23
[quote author=FanOfMyself post=89875481]Op, I understand your Hustle because I am in the streets too. In fact I met one black American girl in January who is 25 years and significantly younger than me. I met her on one app like that and like play like play she don dey drop small bar after just two months of constant chatting and video calls. Though her case is unique because she's disabled but I really appreciate and love her for whom she is. This lady has been paying me every 1st of every month starting from march 1st and she will still drop on 1st of june (by the grace of God). She's not necessarily rich and works from home plus monthly stipend from the government due to her condition but she still sends me slip every month.

Now back to your question, you may have presented your self wrongly to her at the beginning of the relationship and failed to establish the grounds on which she ought to be moved to be paying you from time to time.
You ought to manipulate her and work her emotions to your favour, but first and foremost she MUST really feel something for you. Two years is a long time for you to know if she is serious with you or not, so if you aren't benefitting from her at all, you have to let her go and look for other ones to avoid wasting your resources. You don't have to block her, just stop texting her first and only reply her when she writes you or something like that. You may be surprised as how she will start valuing you more than she currently does. These FOREIGN WOMEN are BORED as fuvk and needs companion from someone who is available but it takes time, patience and crafts to get them to do your bidding cool[/quote


You get my point bro, because we are in these streets together
All you said above are basically right
No doubt
But emotional manipulation works perfectly when the contact no been get any biased mind from the onset
Because she can't get pregnant again, she obviously hates having kids and thinks as a Nigerian I really need to have kids to continue my name going,I think she feel's maybe I'm gonna cheat on her tomorrow with a girl that can give birth, I don try clear me say me self no like kids but she dey get biased mind,she even tell me in the past say if I don migrate say I go drop my music career because she no go want make Yankee girls dey throw me their pants and bra on stage

Her message was the last in our conversation last night and I ain't gonna reply until maybe after a month.
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:28pm On May 23
Slimranky:


Lol so bubu dey fvvk naija like this
Baba dey rape us o
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by cassbeat(m): 3:30pm On May 23
[quote author=Slimranky post=89877310][/quote]U dey sing?? Come feature me na... I dey rap, sing and write songs
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:30pm On May 23
FanOfMyself:
Op, I understand your Hustle because I am in the streets too. In fact I met one black American girl in January who is 25 years and significantly younger than me. I met her on one app like that and like play like play she don dey drop small bar after just two months of constant chatting and video calls. Though her case is unique because she's disabled but I really appreciate and love her for whom she is. This lady has been paying me every 1st of every month starting from march 1st and she will still drop on 1st of june (by the grace of God). She's not necessarily rich and works from home plus monthly stipend from the government due to her condition but she still sends me slip every month.

Now back to your question, you may have presented your self wrongly to her at the beginning of the relationship and failed to establish the grounds on which she ought to be moved to be paying you from time to time.
You ought to manipulate her and work her emotions to your favour, but first and foremost she MUST really feel something for you. Two years is a long time for you to know if she is serious with you or not, so if you aren't benefitting from her at all, you have to let her go and look for other ones to avoid wasting your resources. You don't have to block her, just stop texting her first and only reply her when she writes you or something like that. You may be surprised as how she will start valuing you more than she currently does. These FOREIGN WOMEN are BORED as fuvk and needs companion from someone who is available but it takes time, patience and crafts to get them to do your bidding cool

You're right about them been bored and also yes the disabled one's are perfect game
I once had a disabled white single mum in USA I was talking with on fb
Before my fb IP address cast
And I lost her, never had her email or WhatsApp



,
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:34pm On May 23
tyup:


You see those US/canada ladies I dey always tell guys wey wan settle with them mai dem run oo cuz those days of American yung lady coming down to take a guy, spons him bla bla no dey again those girls don tear eyes now

If you really do like the Venezuelan lady stick to her most of them dey dey very loyal just like this my Serbia girl mehn she's too emotional I can't even try breaking her heart

Guyy like I was in a restaurant with a new girl like that then this guy entered with his white girl mehnn I saw their little daughter and I wished I had the talent of kidnapping cuz the Lil girl was damn pretty asf with tha naturally curly hair. As we comot that restaurant ion know how/why the 9ja babe just start irritating me for no reason I was remembering those times she'll ask me to sub fr her e.t.c

anyways we don't talk again grin grin

Bro Yankee children especially there daughter's are Smart asf

Have you watched this movie my spy

You saw what that 9years old girl did to Batista ,
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 3:40pm On May 23
cassbeat:
U dey sing?? Come feature me na... I dey rap, sing and write songs

I'm a singer and song writer bro Still upcoming though
I sing afro fusion with a Likkle dancehall/reggae vibe

Check out my signature to feel my vibes, I'm hustling so hard and smart so I can sponsor my music career I need to shoot an mtv based standard music video before 2020 expires

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