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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by dasparrow: 3:58pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle: Why have you always attracted abusive women into your life? Were you raised by a narcissist mother and/or father? I ask this because when one grows up in an abusive home as a child, you tend to subconsciously attract abusive people into your life as an adult because that is your normal. It is what you are accustomed to. People raised by narcissist parents also tend to be people pleasers and when you are a people pleaser, people will use you as part of their own hustle as you have mentioned. You will have to learn to set boundaries with people. As for your marital issue, I doubt things are going to get better between you and your wife. Both of you may have to go your separate ways and just co-parent peacefully. Raising children in a toxic home where both of you argue all the time and cops have to keep coming to the house is not healthy for your kids. Your kids might grow up and choose not to have anything to do with marriage because they saw how awful you and your wife's marriage was. Anyways, all the best. 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by fastseo: 4:00pm On May 23, 2020 |
IMASTEX:Not fake. He probably have a username that is his identity. I my self has brought up issues here that relates to woman with a new account cos I don't want to mess my account up. You too would do the same someday if u have an embarrassing issue 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by KLand(m): 4:00pm On May 23, 2020 |
You sounded like a nice guy and I hope you are. I wanted to offer some pieces of advice. But once I read your update stating that you have filed for divorce already, I decided to reserve my comments. I wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by golddust6000(m): 4:03pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle:as long as you hold permanent residence how would her action bring all of you to Nigeria? See let me tell you about Nigerian women: no matter how you tell them what you have gone through to make the family happy they will surely mess up overseas. I have permanent residence in Europe, I have every right to bring my wife here, but if I see how they behave here brother I dey fear like say I dey next to African lion. Well I never see Igbo women behave like this since I have been in abroad. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by doeeyed: 4:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: That's why he has to be 2-3 steps ahead. Before she tries to kill him or set a contract on his head.. Person wey don dey get replacement from SM.. Cry more than wolf... Accuse her of making threats on you...... To the cops ,immigration, work, rewrite your will, appoint trustworthy executors.... Her hands must not touch anything Person wey neva get full paper dey crase more than "omonile" She neva see somtin!! Think say all that mumu TV she dey watch na the real deal. . 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by johnstin(m): 4:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
My brother Linlingentle, I will be very honest with you, this case is spiritual and you can only emerge victoriously, if and only if you approach the situation spiritually. The final plan of the enemy is to make you commit suicide or kill your wife, or both. Actions to be taken: 1. Sincerely give you life to Jesus Christ of you have not already done so. 2. Steer clear of any sin. 3. Never retaliate when she attacks you. 4. Become a prayer warrior and disarm any evil spirit inhabiting and operating through your wife on a daily basis. 5. Be kind to her in spite of anything she does. 6. Pray that GOD should give you the grace to endure. Expected Result: You wife will either change or run away from you. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SamNaijaboy: 4:05pm On May 23, 2020 |
Actually you are wrong. They are more respectful and cultured-on average. There is that mutual respect. At least that has been my experience. Maybe was just rolling with middle class and upper class only. But was always the same person in the relationships. I just think marrying in USA and West for a man is crappy. safarigirl: |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by safarigirl(f): 4:07pm On May 23, 2020 |
SamNaijaboy: Most respectful and cultured on average, are the Asians, not white women. You must have never seen them in their element, very entitled bunch. 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Expresswriter: 4:09pm On May 23, 2020 |
Confirm from your lawyers if it's right to record discussions you have with her so that going forward if you have to meet with her -- always record all your conversations. If possible, keep a spy camera in all your rooms. Activate them any day she's "allowed" into your house. You need sufficient evidence to keep yourself clean. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by wman(m): 4:09pm On May 23, 2020 |
IMASTEX: Those topics are plenty on the family section. They hardly moved them to the frontpage until now. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by etrange: 4:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
DarkJeddi: Well, maybe. At least, you got my point. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by BestTruth101(m): 4:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
etrange:Best Truth |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by akaahs(m): 4:11pm On May 23, 2020 |
Sankabson:Didn't you read the part that said she's been influenced by her family and friends? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by ggood: 4:11pm On May 23, 2020 |
your very stu.pid Eberechiru: 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by jullikay: 4:11pm On May 23, 2020 |
I thank God for you. I can relate well, when it comes to relationship abroad, especially with African women. I am experiencing something very similar to this now, the difference is that my wife and children have been living abroad before joining them. I left a good banking job in Nigeria, I think I will share my story later. My advice to you is that please don't look back, go ahead with the divorce. African women have destroyed a lot of men because the laws favour them abroad. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Martinez39s(m): 4:11pm On May 23, 2020 |
lekki1444:If you are married and you have 4 inches while your handsome, well-built gateman has a 9 inch, wide, hard anaconda.... your wife will surely get attack by your gateman's predator while you are away at work if she is aware of his predator's existence. Dey no tell person. NB: pun intended 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by MrPresident1: 4:14pm On May 23, 2020 |
Nairaland of stupid stories |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by lekki1444: 4:17pm On May 23, 2020 |
Martinez39s: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Mindlog: 4:17pm On May 23, 2020 |
SenecaTheYonger: You just reminded me of one my patients. Soaking up comments like yours is part of my 9 to 5 job, so it has no effect on me. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by kunletexs: 4:18pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle: I like your truthfulness. But your wife eh! Na God go solve her case o. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SamNaijaboy: 4:18pm On May 23, 2020 |
Depends on who you are in yourself. If you are fair to people and respect yourself, there are things you won't take irrespective of if the woman is white or green. Some white women can be so focused on their pleasure. Which means if she likes to drink and shag, she may shag your friend someday when drunk. Of course she will be sent packing and you will hopefully not have married her, so her loss. However you have to really know them before marrying. Know what she is capable of. This is exactly what will happen if she is black so as a real man, you should dispense and act without favor to her race. However you will notice that they compromise a lot, and there is less friction with them than with your Nigerian lady safarigirl: |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by fykes(m): 4:19pm On May 23, 2020 |
Make I hear say I bring woman from Nigeria to abroad... Any woman that wants to live with me abroad should better dey find her own way there now. OGA U F UP SERIOUSLY.... NA D FIRST TIME WOMAN POINT AT ME I DEY DROP ANY PRETENCES TO A RESPONSIBLE MAN. trust me women love a man they can't push around more 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by humilitypays(m): 4:19pm On May 23, 2020 |
dasparrow:stupid question from a potential toxic woman You think all the men married to bad toxic women are bad men I just don't want to read any female comment on this thread at all 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by lekki1444: 4:19pm On May 23, 2020 |
007inc:this is the best advice you can muster up abi ? lmaoooo madness everywhere |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by madgoat(m): 4:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle: Extend it as soon as possible and do it fast. Is it also possible to sell off all your properties, including house and move back to Nigeria for a while. Don't mention it to ur wife until u have landed in Nigeria. She's doing all that rubbish because divorce favours women abroad. She will get half of all u have especially if u have no solid prove of infidelity on her part. You should have come to Nigeria to file for divorce and not do it over there. KEEP US UPDATED 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Hoephase: 4:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
fastseo: You don't want people to dig up your vile posts and use it to attack you at your lowest moment. That is why you should always think twice before commenting on a post or engaging in e-fight where people throw away decorum. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by akaahs(m): 4:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
tyup:Can you provide solutions to him rather than remind him of his mistake? |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Dpundict: 4:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
This is why i am pursuing my relocation single though family is on my 35-and-wifeless tail. It is better to arrive single and whatever happens bear it than to import a revenge seeking woman into a place most of us are dying to be in for as long as life permits. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Originalsly: 4:22pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle: Bro.... Police don't usually give advice. They did.... take it. Keep her out indefinitely ... the minute she steps foot in the house... you will be out... whe4her you do or not. Accusation is enough to get you out. On divorce... it is cheaper to keep them. Do not go thru with it. She will get half of what you own... you may have to support her... the kids you may lose... the expense will run you broke. Do not give her that opportunity. Move on... meep her out of the picture . 1 Like |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Rilwayne001: 4:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
LinLinGentle: I'm happy to read this part after the scary introduction. Obviously she's not been acting on her own, most definitely on the advice from friends and family. Because I wonder what kind of a foolish woman would want to cut me off from my family and disturb my peace of mind to the point of depression? Please for your own sake; your peace of mind and your life; for your children sake, please follow through the process of divorce to make sure she's out of your life, else this kind of being might end up terminating your life for her own good. And once she did, the following day she'd start hosting all sorts of men to your matrimonial bed. Save yourself. |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SenecaTheYonger: 4:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
haha sure buddy. Mindlog: |
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Tedpgrass: 4:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
Luckymama: Ma'am. I hear you But there's a way a woman will handle the situation and not escalate things out of proportion.. A wise woman builds her house not tears it down furiously if I must say as demonstrated in this case... Have we considered the word.. Build... It's not decorate.... not even... repairs...... but builds.. Which shows its an ongoing process, some areas will be nipped and tucked, areas might need replastering or extending Today's woman wants a Prince charming to do her bidding in a ready castle without enduring the process that goes along.. Kolewerkk! I'd advice the op even if female in a similar spirit.. When someone who hasn't worked as hard or as long as you've done...... comes along and in a wild disruptive manner wants to destroy a house that took a decade and half to build, in a day or week : the exit is made available ASAP I've had several colleagues in a similar conundrum..... And it makes for bad viewing observing destroyed potential as well. . |
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