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Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Modified*****

She finally came to my place this morning. Though I did the calling.
She has agreed to change the church and attend mine.
I must say that I wasn't regular with my attendance in church. She also pointed that I have to be steady with going to church too.

Conclusively we are back and better ..
Everyone should know that it takes God to have a peaceful and fulfilling relationship.
I may sound weak but hey! I know why I had to go through this to get her back.
I have equally cheated to the point she caught me pants down. and I really haven't been paying attention.

Guys the alpha male should a time to reflect too. Its saves a lot.

Not easy to leave a habit

Can you please stop disturbing us with this rubbish. Haba it's too early.

Ok next

Bros, just move on with your life. She has made her choice. You even gave her a very soft landing....changing church is very small price to pay for her waywaredness. Seems you are not in her priority list.

Working out her salvation indeed.....

that your girl friend is a hoe

Your Village people are impressed

Op, no need for another thread, simply go and modify the other thread and put this below it with 'modified' on top.

I'm disappointed in you. You went to her place to beg her? You met her crying? Have you ever heard of "emotional manipulation?" That's one of the dangerous gift Satan gifted ladies, probably when they discussed in the garden of Eden. You're being manipulated.

Guy, you need high dose of red pill.

No matter how beautiful a girl is, my relationship with her ends immediately I catch her cheating.

Do you want to destroy your life young? Do you even fear deadly STDs? Your priority for now should be testing yourself for any possible STDs you could have gotten from her. Grab a copy of "The possibility of Sex" by Alan Roger and set yourself free from stupid ladies.

Hmmmmm

This is becoming information overload.

seunlayi:
Op, no need for another thread, simply go and modify the other thread and put this below it with 'modified' on top.

You can't modify a thread that is on the front page

Bro, u are a fuul

This guy no day hear word

So in summary, she dumped you on her own terms despite cheating on you.

Even in the league of sissy men, You are a champion. metchew

You don't need any advice

stop disturbing us with your mumu stories.

sniper is still cheap.

Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

come bros, you dey disturb o. Wetin happen now

changing her church will not stop her from cheating, because this is not the first time she will cheat.
You just don't have sense.

Can't wait for you to come here again to cry. Proper cry

Lifedonor:
You can't modify a thread that is on the front page

Mail you the mod

this op mumu no get rival. she cheated and you still went to her house and met her shedding yeye tears.
las las she still broke up with you, you know why? she can't leave her church because that choir bleeps better than you and she knows you will still come back.
the only thing you are gaining from the relationship is sex which you can get anywhere and anything you want it if you have your money. I will advise you move on, make money and forget that hoe

She knows can have you back anytime she want, by shedding tears. Expect her to come back, when she is tired of riding those dicks.

Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Person wey u suppose just play along with and be fucking while u find another babe. If the Bleep na twice a week before make am 5times a week. Once u find another babe dump the idiot! That’s how to deal with gals like this coz they never change.

In your last thread someone said it will end in tears, and yeah indeed it ended in tears...

Guy you need slap after the whole advice we gave you ,you still went to see her ? There's something wrong with you ,them say fly weh nor dey hear word naim dey follow dead body enter grave .

ladies 18-24 are not always ready for marriage they feel its too early and still loads of suitors till she serves she will keep seeing men. Dump her and get married asap, when she returns from camp she realized u r married then she will know she lost something huge she will regret for the rest of her life. At first u r her ATM.

instinct57vm:
Person wey u suppose just play along with and be fucking while u find another babe. If the Bleep na twice a week before make am 5times a week. Once u find another babe dump the idiot! That’s how to deal with gals like this coz they never change.

Let's be honest with ourselves here brother
When it comes to a woman you so much love it's very hard to play hard on them , that's the fact
Especially when it's a woman you got future plans with

Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Both of you need genuine repentance unto salvation. You are an embarrassment to RCCG.

this guy funny. abeg go and beg her again so that she can continue from were she stopped.

Dreyton36:
Let's be honest with ourselves here brother
When it comes to a woman you so much love it's very hard to play hard on them , that's the fact
Especially when it's a woman you got future plans with

And honestly I agree with you but it is what it is. You have to train yourself to that level, it takes time but very possible. Most importantly, I tell guys women are naturally unreliable, hence do not at any time have one babe. At least TWO! Especially if ure dating all this gals that are still in skol. E get why

mission08:
Bros, just move on with your life. She has made her choice. You even gave her a very soft landing....changing church is very small price to pay for her waywaredness. Seems you are not in her priority list.

Working out her salvation indeed.....

Sounds like working towards her orgasm.