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MrBrownJay1:
the brotha is ALREADY in the desert duh!!!

Ok, then why arguing

MrBrownJay1:
a bad wife is a bad wife (whether my sista or even my mother).... you are again being a CLUELESS RELIGIOUS HYPOCRITE... here is the answer to your above question:

Proverbs 21:19
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.

Proverbs 12:4
A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.

Best thing I've read today. Thanks for showing me this.

Beedude:
Hypocrisy and Over sabi are our greatest undoing as NIGERIANS. Even White that brought the religion aren't as gullible as we are.
Will u advice ur daughter or sister stay with a wife beater? Divorce isn't evil. Its better to be divorced than to be mad , disabled or dead all in the name of religion

Yea, if my sister maybe by mistake marry a wife beater, i will personally advice her to endure the marriage not to divorce ... Why puting asunder what the lord has join 2gether

Juliusmomoh:
Should u do what is wrong just because other did it ?.... That pastor chris did it does mean it is right... Check u bible we can't do anything against what is noted down in the scripture

Court wedding (Registry) is more recognised in the world right now and it support DIVORCE. Take away ur religious point of view and be reasonable for once. U can't continue to suffer all becos the bible says this and that. If the missionaries who brought religion to us aren't this crazy about it, why should we be a bigot and refuse to be open minded in our dealing.

Juliusmomoh:
Ok, then why arguing

who is arguing with you?! i am just using your own bible verses to discredit what you are foolishly posting... dont be upset (with me) because your holybook is against what is happening to the OP.

Juliusmomoh:
Yea, if my sister maybe by mistake marry a wife beater, i will personally advice her to endure the marriage not to divorce ... Why puting asunder what the lord has join 2gether

Issokay. More grease to ur elbow

Beedude:
Court wedding (Registry) is more recognised in the world right now and it support DIVORCE. Take away ur religious point of view and be reasonable for once. U can't continue to suffer all becos the bible says this and that. If the missionaries who brought religion to us aren't this crazy about it, why should we be a bigot and refuse to be open minded in our dealing.

U sound childish, what does court wedding has to do with the scripture ? U can't see any matured born again christain doing court wedding... For u as a christain going for court wedding, then something is wrong somewhere. And no matter what is wrong if the woman is not commiting fornication, no need to put her away . PEACE

Beedude:
Issokay. More grease to ur elbow

U are welcome

MrBrownJay1:
who is arguing with you?! i am just using your own bible verses to discredit what you are foolishly posting... dont be upset (with me) because your holybook is against what is happening to the OP.

Hmm baby mentality

Juliusmomoh:
Well, do u know who u just insult ?... When i was alive i know the inplication of what u just speak... Expect me tonight... Seriously

lol...welcome dude

Juliusmomoh:
U sound childish, what does court wedding has to do with the scripture ? U can't see any matured born again christain doing court wedding... For u as a christain going for court wedding, then something is wrong somewhere. And no matter what is wrong if the woman is not commiting fornication, no need to put her away . PEACE

Holier than thou mentality. England that brough Christianity didn't condem DIVORCE. Is it that they dont obey GOD or the bible ?
Divorce has saved so many lives from toxic relationship.
Suffering and Smiling mentality is ur own term for Christianity but i wont accept it.

It is better to Divorce and live than to stay in a toxic relationship and die all becos the bible forbids it.

mrbenjame:
All of the above

It is likely your wife is seeing another Man.

I guess you ommited where it all started from.

what did you do wrong, how did it start?

sweetlo:
It is likely your wife is seeing another Man.

I guess you ommited where it all started from.

what did you do wrong, how did it start?

Oh. Lols. Sorry I think I was misunderstood. That question was an open question. I’m not married yet. It was intended for just men ( singles and married) sorry for the misinformation

Beedude:
Holier than thou mentality. England that brough Christianity didn't condem DIVORCE. Is it that they dont obey GOD or the bible ?
Divorce has saved so many lives from toxic relationship.
Suffering and Smiling mentality is ur own term for Christianity but i wont accept it.

It is better to Divorce and live than to stay in a toxic relationship and die all becos the bible forbids it.

Bye

mrbenjame:
This is a direct question. What will you do when your spouse starves you in all aspects for months for no tangible reason? Even when you try to think if you offended her in anyway to deserve such treatment.

By starving emotionally I mean something of this nature:

-Like she no longer gives you the attention you used to have
-she doesn’t allow you touch her
-She doesn’t like going out with you, she keeps her matters private
-she spends more time with work or kids, only greets you in the morning and at night
-She doesn’t ask you about your day at work
-She doesn’t allow you touch her phone
-She doesn’t like seeing you smile with another woman.

I’m this type of marriage, if you’re in such shoe, what will you do as the man?

Your sincere opinion. No matter your opinions No shades please.

If a woman can do this in marriage. For a man, what's the essence of marriage?

After Jesus said it is finished, Apostle Paul was the next to confess that he has finished.

Singleness really pays. With wisdom you can have what married people have. However, I God favours you, you could marry the right person.
Otherwise, marriage is for simps.