Dear Sis!!! Sprinkle Sprinkle

Ablyz:
[b][/b]he’s telling
me he spent all he’s money for
he’s birthday , that if money
cms he will send but right
now he has no money

naija babes and money dey be 5 and 6
ontop birthday matter

Man’ ego it could be that he does not hv money he only just used that as an excuse. You not suppose to break up with him sometimes men I see so when things get better for him he remembers that girl that stood by him when he did not have.

Op, build your own life first, be selfish about you same way that guy is selfish about himself. U don't owe anybody

hope him never sow any seed?

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

With this your english, he should buy u a dictionary first

You had a teaching job and you knew he was unemployed but still requested for some cash on your birthday...
You are wicked.

Get yo a$s off and go get the Mula yoself

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

You are the issue, so fixated on money, not that, that's bad but you got to wake up to the reality of who you dating.

Anyway, let go of him, he will find someone else who can accommodate his 'excesses'.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

You've tried.

Not every relationship will result in marriage.

Lovely topic

But how come most girls believe dating a guy means the guy should become responsible for them financially, please, I need someone to reasonably and mature respond to this

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

He's not your daddy neither his he your mum.
The fact that his your boyfriend doesn't mean you should depend on him for miracle. Build on your values and you ll be valued by him or someone better than him.

Btw, the fact that he has no job currently is enough for you to know he has no money. Perhaps if a jobless boyfriend offers you something substantial as a birthday present you will gladly accept it without wondering how ?!

Work on his originality, challenge him to get a job if you truly loved him.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Women!
Is he your father or husband?
Why so dependent on him.

He fit blow tomorrow o!

Na so Mayoku girlfriend left him after 2 weeks the guy blow.

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Fake girls everywhere this days professing fake love that is built mainly on your money. I bought a piece of land 50x100 the money i was to settle comunity was about 70k. Now this parasite discover that i was having money and told her what the money was meant for and i actually go and settle the comunity. it turns to fight that i have money i don't want to spend on her and this is somebody that in a month if i did not spend money on her i will spend 30k. Guys wise up for this kind of girls, they are ready to eat your future away. In the bible God told man i will give you a helper not a parasite or dependant

OP you dont owe him anything . I will advise you upgrade and focus on yourself, the dude has a low self-esteem.

All these fabricated stories sef.

Go and report him to your father. Tell your father that your boyfriend is stingy.

smh

Stevyne:
Because he no give you Money for birthday He's stingy,
No goals, No focus.


The moment will start taking responsibility for our lives, and hold on to the fact that no one owes you anything.

I hope you read the full story or you are just here to jump into conclusion

Lol. If he said he doesn't have money for birthday, let him be na. Must you celebrate birthday?. You are sounding so entitled, like it is his right to give you money for your birthday celebration.
You are supposed to beg, yes BEG because that money is not yours.


Btw, you said he's jobless where do you expect him to get the money for 2 birthdays in a row?

Finally, why are you dating a jobless man?

Every person that comes into our lifetime has two things to offer us....

Either pains or happiness....

Either way, we end up having experience that brings up a better person from us in the next person we meet....

OP...by now you would have known the kind of man you need and the right attitude to follow the man with....

All the best anyway in ur next love life

Beatswim:
aunty when you are 37 we will be waiting to help u pray for a better man.. Madam money over love... The guy too is tired of your endless Demands.. Please leave him to have some savings

I don’t even demand and he knows it . Financially I am okay, I work and I still got family by my side . So I lack nothing and demand nothing . I really want him to actually save , if he didn’t spend so much on he’s birthday, and told me hes saving for something. Trust me I won’t be bothered

U really made tinz a bit complicated for me to understand first u said he is stingy and second u said he has no work hmm. I will stop here nw

My dear sister, what are the spiritual steps you've been taking since you started the love matter?or you believe on norms? This birthday matter should not be the reason to breakup oo, get some tangible reasons to quit coz a wrong decision taken may cause eternal tears.

Why would any negroe go into a relationship when he hasn't figured his life out yet? I just don't get it.

Op, this pathetic pattern may continue even till marriage

Use your brain. Be smart!

Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would met someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you

It's meet and not met. You have to grow past the entitlement mentality. Don't make your hole your whole! Think sis.

Ordinary birthday..... Hmmmmmmmm

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

You're very stupid and he is not. Why asking him for birthday gift? Is he your father? Must you celebrate your fuckin' birthday. I'm glad he wise enough to know that you're nothing but pieces of garbage who wants just his money. Fakes!

Girl you did a nice thing by breaking up with such irresponsible guy, me I won't allow my sister to date a useless man. For some of guys here throwing tantrum on you should ask themselves a question if their sister were on your shoes will they be happy? Hmmm sincerely speaking, if I were a lady nothing can make me to date a poor man. Yes you heard me well. Every man supposed to have focus in life and financially well to do

lincs25:
Fake girls everywhere this days professing fake love that is built mainly on your money. I bought a piece of land 50x100 the money i was to settle comunity was about 70k. Now this parasite discover that i was having money and told her what the money was meant for and i actually go and settle the comunity. it turns to fight that i have money i don't want to spend on her and this is somebody that in a month if i did not spend money on her i will spend 30k. Guys wise up for this kind of girls, they are ready to eat your future away. In the bible God told man i will give you a helper not a parasite or dependant

the case of ur gf and me are two different situations . For a year now , that guy hasn’t given me anything up to 5k as a total sum. And I don’t even want to start counting Favors.

Positivechick:
I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that .

Who even told u a guy should be the one taking care of a girl because they are dating?