After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? - Romance (2)

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Petyprincess(f): 7:29pm On May 28, 2020

Liliantalks:
nope , ur child deserves a sibling from you

Lol

it isn't that easy o

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:38pm On May 28, 2020

Petyprincess:
Personally i will settle for one nd will prefer a female child!

Lazy Lazy

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Nobody: 7:41pm On May 28, 2020

Petyprincess:
Of course not! If the person I'm dating will be the one i will settle with in future then i ain't got no problem trust me
Having many kids are a whole lot of responsibility, many married women are looking old nd unattractive because their husbands turned them to baby factory! After one kid na to take my ass back to gym nd get back my shape instead of getting pregnant every year

what if he/she dies?

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Petyprincess(f): 7:44pm On May 28, 2020

MrNipplesLover:
Lazy Lazy

Abeg let me be lazy o, you see as my waist small which stomach i wan use dey born every year?

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Ifebaby16(m): 7:46pm On May 28, 2020

Naturally, I love kids. I'd prefer to have 8 or 9 after marriage when the economy stabilize.

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by rosy1992(f): 7:47pm On May 28, 2020

1 or 2

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:49pm On May 28, 2020

Petyprincess:
Abeg let me be lazy o, you see as my waist small which stomach i wan use dey born every year?

na fear u dey fear joor, no be small waist matter.

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:50pm On May 28, 2020

Ifebaby16:
Naturally, I love kids. I'd prefer to have 8 or 9 after marriage when the economy stabilize.

are you from the north?

I hail u, bro.

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Kenejames(f): 7:52pm On May 28, 2020

3 is enough for me

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 8:11pm On May 28, 2020

Ifebaby16:
Naturally, I love kids. I'd prefer to have 8 or 9 after marriage when the economy stabilize.

na u go train them B4?

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 8:12pm On May 28, 2020

Kenejames:
3 is enough for me

You guys are not explaining the reasons for your number choices

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by opera1(m): 9:06pm On May 28, 2020

MadeINchenzen2:
why?

Looking at the economic situation of Nigeria, 3 is OK by me. They are not foods that can be eaten.

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:07pm On May 28, 2020

opera1:
Looking at the economic situation of Nigeria, 3 is OK by me. They are not foods that can be eaten.

lol. u cracked me with the last line. grin

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Kenejames(f): 8:12pm On Jun 15, 2020

MadeINchenzen2:
You guys are not explaining the reasons for your number choices

I don't need too many stress...

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Mandela27: 9:04pm On Jun 15, 2020

I want two set of twins(1boy and 1girl each)then a single girl to make them 5 .

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by vickydankal(f): 10:28pm On Jun 15, 2020

Before marriage I and hubby agreed for 3 children and we already have 2, and this man has ask me to close border which I did for close to 4 years now. And even saying if the last is a girl the border would have been closed indefinitely. His reasons no more children until he finishes his building, new car and sure that business is far better than it is. I protested and protested but commander in chief says border closure is indefinite.

You may want 5, 8 and 13 children when married, when you start with one and your new baby poo like 4 times daily sometimes 5, finishes a tin of milk a week, outgrows clothing in 4 months, Golden moan, etc not to talk of the mummy’s feeding for 6 months to a year and start talking about school fees, different meal every morning to school not to talk of juice and school fees that may rank close to 100k a term. If you calculate them you may reconsider having fewer children.

Better to have few and give them quality education, environment, feeding etc than having many and turn them to almajiri

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Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Olude193: 10:55pm On Jun 15, 2020

Two o

One is the best sef... But to be in safer hands. Two

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Olude193: 10:56pm On Jun 15, 2020

Mandela27:
I want two set of twins(1boy and 1girl each)then a single girl to make them 5 .

God will help your loins ministry

I hope you have money to take care of them

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Mandela27: 6:05am On Jun 16, 2020

Olude193:
God will help your loins ministry

I hope you have money to take care of them

Amen JAH will provide the bread

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Prinnce1: 7:31am On Jun 16, 2020

5, three boys ....two girls. Have only a brother who is not in Nigeria so I have to make more babies to cover-up the lapses

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Mandela27: 8:13am On Jun 16, 2020

Having only one child is not a good choice,the home will be boring asf..no kids to run around and ur only child will always be bored as per u cant involve him/her in all ur discussions..I want a big family abeg and a very happy home

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Sommycherish: 9:57am On Jun 16, 2020

five.....4 boy and 1 girl and the girl must look like me o lol

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by DragnetisaKuk(f): 11:02am On Jun 16, 2020

2

Same gender or one of each. If possible twins and that's all. Better to give the best of life based in what you can afford without breaking a sweat.

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 22, 2020

MadeINchenzen2:
I have been pondering cos I think 10 will be a fair number of kids to have.

I ve heard some say 4, while some said 2... what do you think, how about you?

Dont tell me it depends on your cashflow or how much you have in your bank account or how capable you are physically or mentally to handle the task of raising them.

hmm

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by lyndaway(f): 3:04pm On Jun 22, 2020

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by lykwhoishe: 3:24pm On Jun 22, 2020

1 for me, 1 for her, the wife. That makes two. But like I said personally one.

Re: After Marriage, Wat's the Numba Of Kids That's Seen As Appropriate & Okay? by opera1(m): 3:38pm On Jun 22, 2020

lyndaway:
4

WHY?

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