All women are gossips,including your very self.You 've already made the mistake from the onset by sitting eating,drinking n gossiping with them.(we dey co- operate for the compound o),what you did to others is now giuen to you in the same measure. You have to relocate from that area n learn to mind your business in your new abode.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

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Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

Read through and couldn't help but laugh at how you are looking for suggestions on how to deal with a gossip. Seem you have soo much spare time or a lot of energy to want to deal with a gossip 'legally'.

Abeg free the woman joor and ignore her going forward.

TripleOh7:
Get a lawyer friend to write to her on his letterhead to desist or face legal consequences.

That should keep her shut.

Shouldn't cost you anything.

Wisdom of the elders! This is the best comment I have seen so far on this thread.

Speech is silver, silence is golden.






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chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

abeg make una solve una problem don't drag us into it your tongue also is a missile that is why God give such neighbor.

No let them see you finish, dem go finish your biscuit and sweet.

Just ignore her...

If it gets too much, call the police...I trust Nigerian police, dem go use her chop

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really can understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

Boss check your pm let's discuss business

ignore her bro

Ignore to stupor. Had same issue some years back

IDFWU:
Some times I wonder if people on this forum read threads with their phones upside down
OP was explicit enough that even a child in the primary stages of learning can grasp every detail of his story, yet some of y’all are calling him gossip, that he wasn’t minding his business initially.

Really
Crazy!!! just crazy
Now I’m just too angered to say give an advice to the lad @chatinent b/c y’all

*EDITED
What the heck are y’all saying? I had to go back and read that all over again to be sure I didn’t miss any detail. Seriously a lot of daft people with phones out here.

Spits

Too many frustrated sickos on NL who think they know anything. That's why I don't bring my personal issues here. The site is notoriously the most toxic place on the Internet.!

This life is not hard.

You don't have to mind them

Based on my intellectual capacity and my vast knowledge, tactically and tentatively, right from the beginning of time especially in the light of ecclesiastes evolution i have come to a concrete definite and profound conclusion that, infact let me reserve my comment thank you..

prekumohtim:


You are not fair at all. Can I tell you that you are more worse than the woman? The reason is that, you just brought her issue before 20,000 readers. The woman only gossipped you to about 2-3 people but you have done worse. Possibly, 30k people may ready this and meanwhile you don't want anybody to gossip you

The difference is that this is a faceless problem solving forum, while the gossip's platform is a neighbourhood character destroying environment.

So, which is better?

chatinent:

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

De minimis non curat lex

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The law doesn't concern itself with trifles

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I sent you a PM bro

coputa:
you are not funny,i am suprised,your kinds liked your senseless post.she want your advice and not your display of foolishness

You're very stupid! It is your father that is senseless!

.

daben1:


Is this the new way of writing on nairaland?

COVID-19 ... new ways of doing things.... is this the first time seeing the new social distance/isolation paragraphs?

@ topic .... some people are like that.... there is nothing legal you can do about this case.... not illegal to gossip.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

Cut ties, ignore her and mind your. Just live as she doesn't exist in that yard. Don't even say a word to her, not even greeting. You'll be fine.

I know you have set goals u want to achieve, let them bother you more. She is very insignificant to bother u.

You just spoke my mind. Silence cannot be misquoted!

Kobicove:


Most instances where people misquote you starts from something you said.

You are also a gossip yourself.

If you keep your mouth shut and mind your own business you make it impossible for other people to misquote you!

Mind ya business, clear off, owe nobody except good morning, good afternoon and good evening.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

If you were not giving her face, she won't have the nerve to come and tell you nonsense.

Since they have demystified her. Just ignore her and avoid her. If you don't want it to seem like you are quarreling.

Just owe her greeting from afar and nothing more.

Quality20:
file a case of defamation of character in a court of law against her as soon as possible and make a claim of #5 million

House wife shit #5 million give you. If they had such amount, would they be living there?

What is happening to op is what Ishilove would call "See finish".

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really can understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

Show him one of those opportunities. He will be grateful for that

Ladylite:


Get a job and move out of that haunted house

Sabi persin

Get a job that will keep you off that house or compound during the day and soon enough leave and relocate if you can't take their shitty gossip

Look for another house biko

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

Trust me when I say it doesn't worth it all just ignore and move on, I have heard of similar experience whereby the woman's neighbor was laughing at her seriously for not having a male child after 3 girls today God has blessed the woman with a bouncing baby boy and above all her husband bought a Jeep for her those stupid neighbors are now saying double congratulations oh����, my point is life na jeje the best revenge is to pepper them with more success periodt.

chatinent:

I don't even talk to these women! You don't know me.. I really don't even have time for the men, let alone the women. I'm that reserved.
I don't even talk to these women! You don't know me.. I really don't even have time for the men, let alone the women. I'm that reserved.

I know some people are like that, whether you talk to them or not,they will still talk at your back but what surprises me is how you take know what they are saying. It's either you're in talk with them or their friend and you never can tell if it's their friend (your friend) is the problem.