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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by manny4u(m): 12:32pm On May 30, 2020 |
Just ignore her. personally i have made it a duty not to discuss with women in my compound. If i want to discuss anything i insist on seeing their husband alone or i will wait. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Righteousness89(m): 12:32pm On May 30, 2020 |
chatinent: Totally Ignore Her bro! Don't hurt her! Don't slander her! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by nams77: 12:33pm On May 30, 2020 |
Ishilove:It seems you don't know some people. I understand the type of person op is describing. I have two in my compound. If you open compound gate, dem go come outside, if you open door come out from your flat, dem go peep. If person come visit you, dem go carry chair come out. Mind you, this a building with just four flats, yet they behave like people in a slum. I just lock up and ignore den. Op do same. When u get money, u leave the compound 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Gosanzy: 12:35pm On May 30, 2020 |
Quality20: COR....REee..cT !! |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 30, 2020 |
chatinent: You are not fair at all. Can I tell you that you are more worse than the woman? The reason is that, you just brought her issue before 20,000 readers. The woman only gossipped you to about 2-3 people but you have done worse. Possibly, 30k people may ready this and meanwhile you don't want anybody to gossip you |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by lilyheaven: 12:39pm On May 30, 2020 |
Lie down on your bed, inside your room. Visit nairaland, read everything, politics, crime, literature, romance, family, entertainment, jokes , education etc. by the time you are through, it will be night already, you won't even remember food let alone neighbors. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by babtoundey(m): 12:40pm On May 30, 2020 |
Here you are, full grown man, saying somebody's husband is "lazy" and "incompetent". And you want us to believe you're slandered. My brother, you are everything that woman said you are. Your post just validated every bad thing she said about you. The only wrong the woman did is she said it behind your back. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Jo1nation: 12:42pm On May 30, 2020 |
Greensquard:please introduce me to any of those internet biz bro. |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Ishilove: 12:44pm On May 30, 2020 |
nams77:The mind boggles that people can be so jobless 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by nams77: 12:47pm On May 30, 2020 |
Ishilove:It is a sin really.i Just ignore them and move on. U do, dem go talk, u no do, dem go still talk. Make i kukuma do na.lol |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Ishilove: 12:48pm On May 30, 2020 |
J111333:Not my fault you were a back bencher in adult school. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Enwhen(m): 12:49pm On May 30, 2020 |
chatinent: Please stay clear from women/people wives, seems u used to laff with them that's what brought this...just Apologize cos there is no way you can beat such women to that game and STAY CLEAR FROM PEOPLES WIVES |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:51pm On May 30, 2020 |
chatinent:Big grammar Wey no get meaning or correct sef. |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Enwhen(m): 12:51pm On May 30, 2020 |
Quality20: No need , NA THE MATTER WE DEY SETTLE SO 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by apexx201: 12:54pm On May 30, 2020 |
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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by sylve11: 12:56pm On May 30, 2020 |
J111333: nor pass like that. |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Enwhen(m): 12:57pm On May 30, 2020 |
manny4u: No mind am ,he no tell us everything, Na woman wrapper, many stories full NL dey beg who go read Dem, him dey go follow people wives laff, Na e don back fire, he remember NL, anyway Sha, NA THE MATTER WE DEY SETTLE NOW FOR HIM COMPOUND 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:58pm On May 30, 2020 |
Slander or praise, you are who you are. If you can't ignore her, you aren't better than her. Treat all gossip with 'silence' or 'hmmm'; it works like chloroquine. I know it's not easy to ignore slandering but I can assure you it is the best way to frustrate her, and probably, heal her. You may as well check within yourself; sometimes, we fight our reflections thinking it's someone's else. What if you deserve it? That has been my style and... believe me, it is second to none when it comes to self healing. You may not be as good as you think. good luck. |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Frosh5431: 1:05pm On May 30, 2020 |
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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by nannyo(f): 1:06pm On May 30, 2020 |
@ OP, let me speak from a Legal point of view. The scanty information you gave us, does not amount to slander, it's a mere gossip and can't be entertained in the Court of Law because the Court does not engage in trivial matters. Stop engaging with women that are perhaps already frustrated due to the way their husbands are treating them. Don't you have friends and family to gossip with?( if you must). Read, play games, do whatever but leave that woman alone. If you don't contribute in her discussion, she can not exchange roles like you are alleging. Don't forget to visit: lawreach..com and follow the page so as for you to follow up on my latest post. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by keentola(m): 1:06pm On May 30, 2020 |
When I have a little money, I buy books; and if I have any left, I buy food and clothes.”— Erasmus Do You Know hat you can get 5 books for as low as 200 naira? Now That You Know, what is stopping You from contacting me for your Books? I sell ALL kinds of Books. My number is in my Bio. |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by ipobarecriminals: 1:11pm On May 30, 2020 |
U dnt need to trade banters with useless nipping.Ignore her totally chatinent: |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by IDFWU(m): 1:12pm On May 30, 2020 |
Some times I wonder if people on this forum read threads with their phones upside down OP was explicit enough that even a child in the primary stages of learning can grasp every detail of his story, yet some of y’all are calling him gossip, that he wasn’t minding his business initially. Really Crazy!!! just crazy Now I’m just too angered to give an advice to the lad @chatinent b/c y’all *EDITED What the heck are y’all saying? I had to go back and read that all over again to be sure I didn’t miss any detail. Seriously a lot of daft people with phones out here. Spits 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by AmazingELixir: 1:16pm On May 30, 2020 |
OP shit happens when you live in a compound or yard as our ipobians brothers always calls it. Just endure until you gather enough money to pack out for them. . |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by AmazingELixir: 1:23pm On May 30, 2020 |
Bluehill1051: I'm really struggling to see the faintest sign of sense in what you've just posted. No advice, no logic just full blown nonsense 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by oyejideogunjumo: 1:25pm On May 30, 2020 |
Just ignore her and nmind your own business. Greet if necessary but avoid familiarity of any sort. If need arises to discuss about her children education because they are in your school make it purely official |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by coputa(m): 1:26pm On May 30, 2020 |
Bluehill1051:you are not funny,i am suprised,your kinds liked your senseless post.she want your advice and not your display of foolishness 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Danielmegg(m): 1:30pm On May 30, 2020 |
Jus take d case 2 supreme high court |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by yvelchstores(f): 1:35pm On May 30, 2020 |
For a man, you are very petty. What is your issue now? Don't you know how to ignore people that don't deserve your attention This is bizarre. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by clow(m): 1:37pm On May 30, 2020 |
chatinent: From your write up I picked the following and I’m gonna be blunt; the words you use to describe them is a reflection of the kind of person you are. Look at the words and phrases you used to categorize them,but you have an issue when words are said about you. I think you need to work on yourself because low key you also gossip. As for the women try as much as possible to avoid them and make your conversation formal;Good Morning,Afternoon or Evening as the case may be and move, leave no space for what Nigerians call famzing. My 2cents. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by oshorstan(m): 1:38pm On May 30, 2020 |
Sue her |
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