Na you cuz am now, if you didn't give them face from the start, all these won't happen. I don't relate with neighbors apart from muttering greetings, if they like make Dem call am pride, their problem!

Ignore them




Make them feel they don't exist

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Na see finish cause am I learnt mine the hard way I don't have any relationship whatsoever with my neighbors na who know man dey kill am

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Please can you state few ways one can make money with smartphone?

My advice is save enough money and leave that face me I slap u apartment..

You'll thank me later.

Simply ignore her bro .. you are a man.

Give him/her gap


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The Op sef sounds like a trouble maker...

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

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Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

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There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

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Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

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So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

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I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

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Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

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How do I deal with this legally, please?

Don't ever engage a neighbors wife that isn't working.
They are gossips. Stay off them.

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours. How do I deal with this legally, please?

Ablyz:
1.Understand What Slander Is First and foremost, make sure that you know the definitive difference between slander and gossip that’s simply getting out of hand.
2. Prevent, Rather than Cure never get into any troubles
3. Try to Address the Issue Yourself The steps you’ll take will depend on the seriousness of what’s being said about you and how far and fast it’s spreading, but it’s wise to try tackling the issue yourself first.
4.if she persits,involved the legal authorithie7

Nice writing style
Avoid and ignore jobless neighbours, they are only filling their time...keep them off your radar.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

You must be part of their crew. Moving forward mind your biz. Let the connection not go beyond exchanging pleasantries.
You are a man bros.....man up.

Baba just leave her and mind your business, time heals, don't ever say sh!t to her or any other woman in that area, respect your self and don't sit talking unproductively with anyone, let the highest talk be hi, hello

Soon enough you will gain back your respect, .
And that same woman will come running back to you with plea of forgiveness as she don't know what on your mind, taking from experience

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really can understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

how far I like link you up, my details is here

Use VAR

What is wrong with the era of males today?
Your problem is that you talk too much. Can't you stay away from females who love to gossip? I hope you don't go to their house to eat food?

If they keep getting on your every nerve even while you want to be on your own in that house, then move out.

I can never stay in a place filled with olofofo males and females.

chatinent:

You should be wise. Be wise, I'm not you.

How Far Jude?So you still de crash for that house

Get a lawyer friend to write to her on his letterhead to desist or face legal consequences.

That should keep her shut.

Shouldn't cost you anything.

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Just ignore them...

Follow peace with all men. Meaning tolerate one another and mind your business. All better still, walk away since you are not the owner of the house by looking for another apartment to stay .

Get all your documented evidence to nairaland page as a proof...You no get work man like you dey talk slandering..

Your story very diplomatic indeed! Amongst five people involved, only you became the saint. Corona virus must be a bastard.

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Bros, the best revenge to people like is to completely and totally ignore them.

They feel energized and believes they are inflicting serious damages on you, if you join issues with them. However, if you ignore them, they feel worthless, powerless and will start doubting if they even exist.

Don’t get into gutter with her, as you stated...she already have PhD in stuff like this, so you can’t match her in the gutter, you will just get yourself muddled-up in ways you will later regret. She loves the gutter and pray you get in there with her.