Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really can understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

U will never make heaven I swear,, Savage but the pure truth

Dis story na line by line

Do you have good reputation within and outside your domain?
Do you remotely think your good reputation has been injured by the gossip? You have no case here.
Do you remotely think your good reputation has been injured by an y assumed slanderous talk? You have a case here if your neighbors in question have money.
We can proceed, if you give convincing answers to my questions.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

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Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

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There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

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Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

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So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

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I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

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Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

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How do I deal with this legally, please?

I can relate my dear, just ignore her and pack out if you have the means.

J111333:
If you had minded your business in that your apartment from day one, there won't be this thread today.

It doesn't always work that way. I just realized that if you mind your business, you become everyone's business!

Kobicove:


Most instances where people misquote you starts from something you said.

You are also a gossip yourself.

If you keep your mouth shut and mind your own business you make it impossible for other people to misquote you!

When people accuse you of fraud — not saying it to your face but gossip among themselves. Then you display what you do, and they get more bitter nko? You haven't seen where an introvert's gentleness becomes everyone's business!

Ablyz:
Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours. How do I deal with this legally, please?

1.Understand What Slander Is First and foremost, make sure that you know the definitive difference between slander and gossip that’s simply getting out of hand.
2. Prevent, Rather than Cure never get into any troubles
3. Try to Address the Issue Yourself The steps you’ll take will depend on the seriousness of what’s being said about you and how far and fast it’s spreading, but it’s wise to try tackling the issue yourself first.
4.if she persits,involved the legal authorithies

There are times when you mind your business, and they will still find you come.

MInd your business

Legendguru:
MInd your business

The best thing to do in a prison situation like living together in yards and block of flats. No talking to.

If u really want to avoid problem anywhere u have an apartment be it an estate or face me I face u just avoid friendship with neighbors and be nice from a far.
Op there are so much problem already in Nigeria so just forget and mind ur business.

Aystarz:

Too many frustrated sickos on NL who think they know anything. That's why I don't bring my personal issues here. The site is notoriously the most toxic place on the Internet.!

I thought I was the only one on this.

just learn to ignore and mind your business, better still subcribe to a plan on Airtel Me2U by dailing *432# so you can get enough data and keep yourself busy online.

Bluehill1051:
Even u OP have problem. Which one be all this lines for? Are u stupid?! Who wants ur lines. Do something straight, simple and consise, you're drawing lines. That is why the lady is looking at u as a dundy!

Bros u wicked die

U no get chill at all, cos u for just ignore the lines n contribute ur quota, if at all say u get one o.

drmikeadams:




Ignore her. If u love smoking. Just smoke away ur sorrows

I am fed up of Nairalanders

Coolabbie:
I am fed up of Nairalanders

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girls come and go but my smoke never ever left me for one day

J111333:
If you had minded your business in that your apartment from day one, there won't be this thread today.

mind his business

Is he an alien

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really cant understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

If you wouldnt mind, can you put someone through some workable once.
I'd be happy to hear from you.
Thanks

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area. [/b] i really cant understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020, [b] gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

It ain't our fault bro. That said, show boys the way na

yvelchstores:
For a man, you are very petty. What is your issue now? Don't you know how to ignore people that don't deserve your attention This is bizarre.

You made sense, but for your opening words. So are women allowed to be petty?

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

I used to live with such tenant.. mama blessing, an ukwale woman.. very devilish, she ll smile at you, collect stuffs from u and still back stab u.. she was d main reason I packed out.

I have such people in my neighborhood, you Waka pass they will tend you as a person that raise shoulder and you feel too big to associate with people. I mean this are women selling kuno and zobo drink in flask , and some of them sell fried chin chin old woman for that matter, even greetings don't join me and them. I hate gossips once I noticed you are a gossiper I avoid your way.

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

---

Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

---

There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

---

Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

---

So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

---

I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

---

Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

---

How do I deal with this legally, please?

Envy plays a role. But mind your business and keep your mouth shut

Greensquard:
....

I'm interested in your signature please

hermesprogidy:

You made sense, but for your opening words. So are women allowed to be petty?

no one should be petty. I said that because it's predominantly women that exhibit this trait

yvelchstores:
no one should be petty. I said that because it's predominantly women that exhibit this trait

Are you asserting this from research or archetypal anecdotes? If you ask me, I have met pettier men than women. Just saying.

Greensquard:
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really cant understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

Would like to link up with you also bro....my WhatsApp digit 08126759990
Please

... it backfired and everyone knew who she really was...


You wrote the above, didn't you?!!! So what else are you worried about?!

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Try as much as possible to stay away from the toxic woman or man and make sure you maintain your chastity and integrity

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hermesprogidy:

Are you asserting this from research or archetypal anecdotes? If you ask me, I have met pettier men than women. Just saying.

my bases are on personal experience however is not a benchmark for any conclusions.

&& what is your point again?
Welp, let me see if anyone would understand this write up enough to give you an advice. Ire oo!

[quote author=Quality20 post=90114029]file a case of defamation of character in a court of law against her as soon as possible and make a claim of #5 million[/quote

Is there any evidence needed b4 going to court?