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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
Hnm! finally i don discover somebody wey wise pass God. I cut cap for you.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by imagrg(m): 10:47pm On May 30, 2020
Nothing good; nothing bad. Thinking makes it so.....William Shakespeare

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Crochet: 10:47pm On May 30, 2020

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:48pm On May 30, 2020
Emmacolinho:
I wish a friend of mine can read this
you people need work on your mind. What has happened to God's children ??

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bestcreamreview: 10:49pm On May 30, 2020
Okay let us put the Bible aside for now, everything has advantages and disadvantages, both abstinence and premarital sex have advantages and disadvantages. Some people wait till marriage and at the end of the day, it turns out to be the best decision they have ever made, while for some, it turns out to be a regrettable decision. Also, waiting till marriage does not guarantee happiness, I know of a lady who was a virgin until marriage, her husband was a serial cheat who eventually infected her with HIV, imagine keeping yourself till marriage only to end up with HIV, meanwhile there are girls with body counts above 20 who don't have HIV. Premarital sex also has numerous disadvantages; unwanted pregnancies, abortions, unnecessary worries, STDs, false rape allegations after a bad breakup, regular use of contraceptives which can have a negative effect on reproductive health, higher risk of suffering severe heartbreak (because some guys would do everything to get into a girl's pants only to dump her afterwards, someone who is celibate won't fall for such), the list goes on and on, infact in my opinion, the disadvantages of premarital sex outweigh the benefits, some engage in premarital sex and end up regretting it for the rest of their lives while some may engage in it for years and still end up with zero problems and a happy marriage. In my opinion, neither abstinence nor regular premarital sex can guarantee marital happiness but abstinence remains the best because its advantages outweighs its disadvantages.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by 01Decent(m): 10:49pm On May 30, 2020
Indeed, That's the greatest scam of the century.
I can't buy something I'll use for a lifetime without testing ��

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by expert555: 10:50pm On May 30, 2020
Avoidsexxx:
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Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.

Were you there? hypocrite, nonsense people you people seems to know the Bible more than the people that wrote it or the missionaries that brought It to your knowledge. Scammers, you people are now known all-over the world. It’s a huge multi billion big business empire Scamming one another.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Mayeldah(m): 10:50pm On May 30, 2020
It looks like scam to you because 'No sex before Marriage' is actially for true believers and not for fakes. If you know that you are not born again or your partner is not either, please do your testing if you wish to avoid being scammed.

On another note, there is noting wrong with staying out of sex before marriage, it is not only a Christian thing. our fore fathers and mothers got married without meeting their partner before. Some had a good marriage while some didn't. If those of old could keep themselves pure until marriage then you can. The only difference between then and now is that people had good conscience then, there were no fakes then. People were truthful.

But all in all, No sex before marriage doesn't guarantee a good marriage neither do testing before marriage guarantee a good one either. marriage works when the two people involved loves themselves, are loyal to each other, respects each other and puts in efforts to make the marriage work.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by SweetyMarvel00(m): 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
This is grossly misleading... God! Are you sure you ain't a Muslim?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mkoabiola: 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
Biggest scam
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
habsydiamond:
i will only say one thing.. no sex without marriage is like buying okrika for market without testing if it fits you. if e no size when u get home what will u do other than to discard it. thats what ends most no sex b4 marriage... divorce ni oo
Damaged mindset. Satan why are you doing this to God's people.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by adomuwiner(m): 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
Akeredolu has abandoned Ijoka road projects

he contractor handling okeobere to Idanre road have moved their equipment from the site due to non payment of contract fund, similarly, the the construction work from from Nepa round about to Ijoka has been stopped .
According to Breeze FM in Ijoka, Ijoka road is in bad shape. Some of the residents of the area have abandoned their home to let room in the town due to the bad road.
Akeredolu is playing politics with the road.
Nobody knows the sin of Ijoka people why he abandoned their road and concentrate on oda road
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by wiseoneking: 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
Go and sit down, you are writing RUBBISH. It is not a force to be a practical Christian. Millions of people dates for several years with sex and still divorce as a result of sexual issues. What you just wrote is "anti Christ" in nature and I pray you are not a real Christian but a full unbeliever because a true child of God cannot write such stupid suggestion to people. You are personally free to have a million time sex with whosoever but the Truth of God's Word standed sure. Dont be an instrument in the hand of the devil in desiminating falsehood. Stop now.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mkoabiola: 10:51pm On May 30, 2020
I must taste wetin i wan buy bf i pay....

If u no de sell for me...i waka

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by OKTolu: 10:53pm On May 30, 2020
No sex before na scam since time immemorial

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:53pm On May 30, 2020
Avoidsexxx:
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Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.

Sure...

By your logic, that's the same reason he created sex in other animals.

For "unification"...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Uniquekriss(m): 10:54pm On May 30, 2020
Most senseless post ever.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Natilolo(m): 10:54pm On May 30, 2020
The OP is just looking for an easy way out. Your only point about Mary and Joseph is so weak. God who instituted marriage instituted it under His terms and Conditions. Jacob, Isaac and other patriarchs in the bible who are worthy of emulating knew their wives the night of their wedding.

Ask God for your wife/ husband and He will give you your better half. He is a perfect God and he will give you your perfect match. He can do it. The Virginia will not be too big nor too small, likewise the penis. He knows your size and will match it well.

But the problem with most of us is that we don't want to involve God in the process, and even when we do, it's not wholeheartedly. So, most people end up marry other peoples wife/husband that cannot FIT their SIZE.

I know God can pair small Virgina to small penis and big pennies to big Virginia. There is nothing He can't do. Human wisdom can never work out a good marriage. Only God's wisdom can.

I am married. I never slept with my wife before I married her. But believe me, our tools are perfect for each other. Orgasim is not hard to get when we really mean business.

JUST FOLLOW GOD IN MARRIAGE, HE WILL MAKE THE BEST CHOICE FOR YOU.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:55pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:


You can try and it can work for you. But whereby it doesn't work for you if you function with the "Normal" and your partner does not, then be ready to carry your cross. Prevention they say is better than cure. My point is ensure you go for sex before marriage to be sure of the sexual aspect of your marriage. Every other major ingredients of marriage might be very good and rosy but trust me, if they are but only the sexual aspect is terrible, the wall is already cracked and it must surely fall apart sooner or later.

If you have watched the movie "kingdom of heaven" there was a part before the way when the dying king and his sister the princess wanted a young man to marry the princess so he could become king and they will kill her husband because they knew he will bring war upon them if he is crowned king. The young man refused because he didn't want the princess's husbands blood on his hands. Then the queen told him something very simple "one day you will wish you did a little evil just to ensure a greater good".

What am I trying to say, it is better you test the water before marriage (do a little evil if you call it sin or bad) in other to strive for a life long marriage (to ensure a greater good).
So make we follow you as you know and wise pass God.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:55pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
The devil is using you to achieve his aim to rubbish the sanctity of marriage.
And others who are like minded are cheering you with their comments.
Is not too late,you can be save.
Accept him and be saved.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ibkayee(f): 10:57pm On May 30, 2020
Such a strong reaction from the majority of posters but what's happening in reality seems to say otherwise.

Or maybe the portion of posters here are the ones who are genuinely against sex before marriage and don't engage in it in real life, so they aren't necesarily representative of the behaviour trends of Nigerians as a whole when it comes to fornication...or maybe Nigerians are just really big hypocrites lol it could be either

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Halo22: 10:57pm On May 30, 2020
If the stuff is going to be an issue between couples, I think they should adjust cos it won't make sense for one to turn down a marriage offer cos of sex before marriage. It's more religious than ideal and people have to adjust.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:57pm On May 30, 2020
Stop encouraging fornication you agent of darkness.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by habsydiamond(m): 10:58pm On May 30, 2020
Teachermallam:
Damaged mindset. Satan why are you doing this to God's people.

and u be undamaged mindset abi kantinue oooo

Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:00pm On May 30, 2020
Bestcreamreview:
Okay let us put the Bible aside for now, everything has advantages and disadvantages, both abstinence and premarital sex have advantages and disadvantages. Some people wait till marriage and at the end of the day, it turns out to be the best decision they have ever made, while for some, it turns out to be a regrettable decision. Also, waiting till marriage does not guarantee happiness, I know of a lady who was a virgin until marriage, her husband was a serial cheat who eventually infected her with HIV, imagine keeping yourself till marriage only to end up with HIV, meanwhile there are girls with body counts above 20 who don't have HIV. Premarital sex also has numerous disadvantages; unwanted pregnancies, abortions, unnecessary worries, STDs, false rape allegations after a bad breakup, regular use of contraceptives which can have a negative effect on reproductive health, higher risk of suffering severe heartbreak (because some guys would do everything to get into a girl's pants only to dump her afterwards, someone who is celibate won't fall for such), the list goes on and on, infact in my opinion, the disadvantages of premarital sex outweigh the benefits, some engage in premarital sex and end up regretting it for the rest of their lives while some may engage in it for years and still end up with zero problems and a happy marriage. In my opinion, neither abstinence nor regular premarital sex can guarantee marital happiness but abstinence remains the best because its advantages outweighs its disadvantages.

I just put your words aside and stopped reading immediately you said let's put God's word aside

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by dagreat4(f): 11:01pm On May 30, 2020
get police n court involve.Its not so difficult.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 30, 2020
The op needs a psychiatric evaluation for this nonsense he put up here and the mod too for pushing this rubbish to the main page.
I pity this op.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by KristenT: 11:02pm On May 30, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all

Is the house in Lagos?
What do you mean 'pack'? Is it that they have moved out? If this understanding is correct then just break the lock and replace it for your new tenant.
If however you mean, they just left, presumably to return in a future time then I will advice you to involve the magistrate court so that you are not sued for trespass or even worse, charged with stealing.

If you involved the court in this last scenario, then the court bailiff will be on ground doing the 'recovering' for you.

You can contact me if you need further information though with this email.

Kristentochukwu697@gmail.com
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by FGonline: 11:04pm On May 30, 2020
Masterclass32:
Sex is meant for married couples. Any sexual gratification outside of marriage is sin.
just d way is a sin for u not to have loved that ur neighbor as urselv.
2.is a sin if u steal 4rm ur Workin place

3.is a sin u lie

All have sin

Single or married
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Queenserah26(f): 11:04pm On May 30, 2020
QED
Masterclass32:
Sex is meant for married couples. Any sexual gratification outside of marriage is sin.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Vasgas: 11:04pm On May 30, 2020
Kai
Don't be misled oooo

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