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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by kachistone: 3:57am On May 31, 2020 |
Hmmmm. OP no sex before marriage is a walk of FAITH and it is the appropriate thing to do.
One thing you must know is that God instituted marriage and He permitted sex for married people only.
One thing that proponents of sex before marriage should realise is that such mentality is worldly and foolish in the eyes of God.
My question is that can't the guy or lady develop a sexual problem during the marriage and lose that sexual prowess that made you marry him or her?
No sex before marriage is Godly and important OP. 3 Likes |
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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Avoidsexxx(m): 4:00am On May 31, 2020 |
Xavfra:
Are you the one who made it a sin....
So if it's not wrong in my culture, does it mean I'm a sinner....smh CAPITAL NO! who am i to make it a sin..i am, all of us are priviledged to know what a sin is. It's there for u to accept it or keep decieving and being decieved. i don't understand u guys sometimes... Can u prove who ur parents are? U only have to accept or rejects them u can never proves clearly and truthly that they are ur parents (not even With DNA theory). life is all about choice.., Right and wrong and because of Grace we are always faced with the right option.(HEAVENS EXPO) It's like ur teacher who teaches u before ur exam what will come out in ur exams not what will not come out. The only way to pass the exam is to believe ur teacher and study what he taught and then takes the exam. Also in order to fail u will rejects(being careless and reckless) what he taught and either takes the exam by writing what he did not teach you or u refuse the exam,which in either way u will shamefully FAIL( U Will have only urself to blame). |
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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by illicit(m): 4:09am On May 31, 2020 |
I personally know a virgin, very rude, unromantic and saucy....
Meanwhile she thinks her being a virgin supersedes those values....
Nonsense 5 Likes |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mamajaz(f): 4:11am On May 31, 2020 |
peropoliet:
thanks a lot even if jesus come and preach to youth about fornication they wont listen Foolish youths sir. In our days as youths, we feared "committing this great wickedness ( sexual immorality) and sinning against God. It is a thing of joy to be a youth who remains unpolluted in this muddy world. The uncouth youths of nowadays keep testing their vessels everywhere till they welcome evils on into their lives. Sexual purity gives strength, boldness, grace and even attracts favour with God and mankind to whoever embraces it. 3 Likes |
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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by onegb(m): 4:29am On May 31, 2020 |
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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by drehdinho(m): 4:34am On May 31, 2020 |
As funny as this line may sound, but it's the pure truth.
I met a lady some years back. We started dating. We loved each other like bread and butter.
We had so many things in common. At the heat of the relationship strong feeling and all, she announced to me one day that she wouldn't want to have sex before marriage. That the decison was her resolution from childhood. That she would really want me to respect it.
I simply told her no problem.
We proceeded with the relationship. And everything appeared to be going on smoothly until one day.
Note: I'm a very romantic guy. It's inborn. Lol.
We found each other in the private ( in my room) as usual. We were gisting and all. So, I told her to tell me why she disliked sex.
Her reaction at that moment was a big pointer to the fact that something was wrong with her.
So, I told her I want to still do it. I was able to convince her.
We got to Anfield and she started responding. Okay. As I was about to enter the promise land, she picked a strange panicking shout, more of a shouting that came out of so much pain.
Immediately, all the excitement and curiosity i had gone flat (negative 1000). Lol.
That was when she started crying, explaining to me she's only covering up her deficiency with the "no sex before marriage" line.
She couldn't of course take it, not even the soft version, let alone the hard one.
I felt so much pitty for her. But the relationship ended up hitting the rock...
Take home: not everyone, particularly ladies that chews the line so easily in their mouth " no sex before marriage" is actually normal. There may be more to it just like the one in my story.
A popular axiom says," would the mother put a lump of honey in her baby's mouth, and the babe splits it away?" 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 4:38am On May 31, 2020 |
Avoidsexxx:
CAPITAL NO!
who am i to make it a sin..i am, all of us are priviledged to know what a sin is. It's there for u to accept it or keep decieving and being decieved.
i don't understand u guys sometimes... Can u prove who ur parents are? U only have to accept or rejects them u can never proves clearly and truthly that they are ur parents (not even With DNA theory).
life is all about choice.., Right and wrong and because of Grace we are always faced with the right option.(HEAVENS EXPO) It's like ur teacher who teaches u before ur exam what will come out in ur exams not what will not come out. The only way to pass the exam is to believe ur teacher and study what he taught and then takes the exam. Also in order to fail u will rejects(being careless and reckless) what he taught and either takes the exam by writing what he did not teach you or u refuse the exam,which in either way u will shamefully FAIL( U Will have only urself to blame). Total crap....... A man is wrong only by his own justification and not that of the society....... There have been situations where students write just as the were taught by their teacher and dey still failed. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Avoidsexxx(m): 4:42am On May 31, 2020 |
BuddhaPalm:
Sure...
By your logic, that's the same reason he created sex in other animals.
For "unification"... animals do not have spirit(they are not in GOD'S Image) so they don't unify...(in sex u get the total mixture of two to form one, e.g red juice mix with yellow juice forms one colour juice - orange. i.e why they 1+1=1) hope u are learning...right, it is better to learn NB: I say the truth with facts, i do no logic. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Etuagievin(m): 4:43am On May 31, 2020 |
I know the write-up will appeal to a majority because of their natural urge to have sex . Its a choice you need to make . The Bible only give you advise, its left for you to take it or leave it. A lot of gains go with abstainence during courtship. You can down-play the gains if you so wish. But what i do know is that we can't be wiser than God who made the law. Rebrand sin if u want , it doesn't stop it from being what it is. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by 1stola: 4:44am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. You're a hypocrite and God hate hypocrites. People like you will always want to marry a virgin but the girls you've slept with, WHO SHOULD MARRY THEM? SO, you don't mind that you're sisters are tossed around by many guys before they finally settles for one unfortunate ignorant mumu who wouldn't know that they're whọres? |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Etuagievin(m): 4:48am On May 31, 2020 |
mamajaz:
Foolish youths sir. In our days as youths, we feared "committing this great wickedness ( sexual immorality) and sinning against God. It is a thing of joy to be a youth who remains unpolluted in this muddy world.
The uncouth youths of nowadays keep testing their vessels everywhere till they welcome evils on into their lives.
Sexual purity gives strength, boldness, grace and even attracts favour with God and mankind to whoever embraces it. . Don't mind the foolish OP and his supporters. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by nijanigga: 4:49am On May 31, 2020 |
We`are`still`mixing`religion`with`culture`with`time`marriage`will`become`obsolete.If`you`disagree`ask`yourself`how`many`singles`do`we`have`today`
who``are`ripe`for`marriage`but`it's`not`happening`and`this`is`just`beginning.`Most`today's`youngsters1see`wedding`as`their`best`achievements,`giving`weddings`all`kinds`of`titles.` |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Amarachieze(m): 5:11am On May 31, 2020 |
This teaching is morally and culturally deficient. It is Even against our culture and tradition talkmore of Christian religion
What if pregnancy occurs before the bride price? And at the end the marriage fails?
I think you over rated the role of Sex in Marriage. Simply advocate for the abolition of marriage to suit our generation's inordinate passion and promiscuity. 1 Like |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Kuginzi: 5:27am On May 31, 2020 |
Sex before marriage is Fornication 1 Like |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by banio: 5:35am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba.
Just let your parents know you are dating, then you can have it. But if you do it without your parents knowledge, then it's fornication.
That's what me thinks 1 Like |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by lookingfly: 5:36am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. where you get it all wrong is that marriage is not all about sex. Sex is just a part of it. I don't think sex can be an issue and even leading to divorce when that marriage was build on something strong. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by EngrEgghead: 5:39am On May 31, 2020 |
VickyRotex:
Mr. English Dictionary, welldone! So what is the definition of fornication?
I stopped reading at this point: "Many will say its fornication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible"
Like are you for real? please scholar, what's the "true" meaning of fornication in the bible?
The fact that we go against some set rules/moral standards (and I'm talking in general here) doesn't justify our acts, neither does it change what is right.
It's even funny how you reference the other people living in the time of Mary. And so what? Because they engaged in pre-marital sex automatically means its not a sin? It's like saying because "sinners" existed in the time of Jesus and some even became His disciples, so believers should also keep sinning that Grace may abound.
I'm so happy you're ranting. you know why? its because you're being convicted for something you've done or planning to do. You just dont know it. There are different phases in conviction, so dont worry, you're getting there.
And it's so funny you say African mentality? really? is that what you were told?  because a lot of foreign churches actually preach marriage and purity. maybe you should make more research on that and expand your knowledge.
I understand if I'm having this conversation with an atheist, but if as a "believer" like you claimed you are, you dont see fornication in the bible the way it is clearly defined, then I dont know what to say to you.
And please don't bring up the "let he who is without sin" card. There's a difference between admitting/acknowledging one's sin vs being ignorant about it and defending it at all cost.
Btw, please dont quote me. Cos even if you do, I wont be responding to any quote on this thread.
Selah! Thanks for the great piece of advice you have just given that ignorant op. It hurts to see how some people will just come online to lead some people astray. All these are clearly stated in the good book, yet some people because of their ignorance or hard heartedness, they tend to do otherwise. Imagine the FTC guy here wishing his friend is reading op's opinion. 1st thessa. 4:3 says " this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from sexual immorality". 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Heineken(m): 5:48am On May 31, 2020 |
Op you're wrong. Sex before marriage no make sense at all. But everywhere don spoil these days. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by zedman1(m): 5:49am On May 31, 2020 |
I'd have liked this post if there was no religious undertone attached to it. The way we de take play with God these days sef, if we don't believe in God then we simply should state it, if we want to do wrong like we always like to do, let's go on doing wrong but trying to justify our wrongs by bringing God into the picture isn't just right. Abi God don change? 1 Like |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by SavageMaster: 5:54am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. Op sounds like someone who dropped out of Seminary and decided to keep twisting Scriptures to get back at his invisible "enemies". No need to argue with him. He is only looking for validation for his warped thoughts and ideas. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MartinsD12(m): 6:00am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. Senseless write up, you are making sex before marriage seem like a normal thing, you are encouraging it, a sin it's a sin, fornication is when a guy sleep with a girl who he is not married to period that justify sin and make it seem like it's normal, sex it's its not even the major criteria for a successful marriage so if you thinking you fornicate before marriage that will make her stay you are definitely a kid. |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by olatechnician(m): 6:06am On May 31, 2020 |
habsydiamond:
i will only say one thing.. no sex without marriage is like buying okrika for market without testing if it fits you. if e no size when u get home what will u do other than to discard it. thats what ends most no sex b4 marriage... divorce ni oo na to go amend am na |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by femi4: 6:09am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. AntiChrist! Where is it written the Bible: Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by INCREDIBLE007(m): 6:12am On May 31, 2020 |
Na end time we dey so
many are called but few chosen.
nor be every person wey dey go church go make heaven.
at this times, build yourself strong in the word of God and in the power of his might. it is either you stick to the word of God or vice versa
.No dull am o, Hell is real |
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| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by oshorstan(f): 6:21am On May 31, 2020 |
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.
The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.
Haba. God doesn't Understand....... |
| Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Psalmspsalms: 6:21am On May 31, 2020 |
Xavfra:
Please quote where it was said
Galatian 6:1
1st Corinthians 6 vs 18-19 1 Like |
