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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:01am On May 30, 2020
habsydiamond:
i will only say one thing.. no sex without marriage is like buying okrika for market without testing if it fits you. if e no size when u get home what will u do other than to discard it. thats what ends most no sex b4 marriage... divorce ni oo
It's not to be compared with such, those are materials things and marriage is a non tangible livable, long term concept.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Blackmann001: 10:45am On May 30, 2020
..its not a bad idea so long as the lady involved is a virgin....av been in about 3.No- sex relationships... And all lasted over minimum 2years......

Don't tink they ran away cuz dey didn't..I was too far from getting married..and they got straight to marriage. They are the best..

Currently with a very wonderful No-sex till marriage lady. Also a virgin and am enjoying it !

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:07am On May 30, 2020
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Jheimz: 11:23am On May 30, 2020
Lols.
its not a scam. even this morning i stumbled on post where a lady was giving her real life experience about this subject. people still practice it.

you may also wish to read her story here: https://trueloveandrelationships..com/2020/05/tears-of-virgin-pledge-to-virtue.html

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Yomit71(m): 11:25am On May 30, 2020
we can't say op is wrong for his
recommendations because many ladies have spoiled their veejay, imagine putting a 7inch dick in a lady and she's chewing gum while you are at it, that means you're just wasting your time on top her, you can never satisfy her sexual need.

But since God want it to be between married people, then according to the word of God,

WE OUGHT TO OBEY GOD RATHER THAN MAN.

Am guilty of this too though, may God forgive me

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Mywd: 11:50am On May 30, 2020
I dont even know what this OP is saying... So if u sex a girl and she is not your type,,, you will now go to anoda one and try and if they are not compatible,, you continue to sex+disvirgin upandan all in the name of looking for a partner..... What a meaningless thread..... Even the OP knows it is a sin.... He is guilty of it... OP wise UP..

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Rich4god(m): 12:20pm On May 30, 2020
Even the OP knows that what he is doing is wrong, he is just trying to justify himself and make other people trend his part. If you have studied human behaviour on sex, you will discover that the first person you had sex with, you always have feelings for the person when ever you see him or her.

If you wait till marriage before sex and your partner seems to be lacking in it, since it's your first sex it will be assumed to you that that's how sex is. And your mind won't be craving for more. But too bad, these days sex stories and porn have filled every where that even virgins already know and have expectations from their future partner.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Kobicove(m): 10:12pm On May 30, 2020
Would you buy a car without testing the engine? grin

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by PricyTech: 10:12pm On May 30, 2020
Op is pained

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 30, 2020
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by janettee(f): 10:14pm On May 30, 2020
Nothing wrong with your topic except you are justifying it with a fictional book.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by SweetCunt97(f): 10:14pm On May 30, 2020
And they'll say if you wanna marry, lock your legs... Confusion.


On a realistic note, it's good to know if you both are sexually compatible, know if he can actually make you cum.. No one wanna spend d rest of their lives in sexual frustration.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by bayotwice(f): 10:14pm On May 30, 2020
angry
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by PureGoldh(m): 10:14pm On May 30, 2020
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind first
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by KingAzari: 10:16pm On May 30, 2020
I agree. I can understand if she's a virgin. But a girl wey don dey chop pr1ck before come jam you and say "No sex until marriage", please run. It's a trap and you gonna regret it and be miserable for the rest of your married life. You may discover sexual incompatibilities and some things about her body like too much hair on ass, nipples or chest that you may not like if you are the type that don't fancy women with lots of body hair. You may also find out that she is terrible at giving head or doesn't give head at all. It's a disastrous scam.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by NaijadrivaCars: 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
What does the bible say concerning this matter is the best.
No sex before marriage is it! But how many fit keep am like that

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by kingoftech: 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
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Arrange people a guy a girl to fvck behind the room, the door will open then you pack in.

Goodluck

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by kingxsamz(m): 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
Well, that rule is only meant for the Christian folks.
We don't live by stupid rules.
Sex before or after marriage doesn't guarantee a healthy marriage.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Sonnobax15(m): 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
undecided Whether scam or not,my everyday prayer always goes to GOD like this.

"BABA GOD,ABEG NO LET ME MARRY EMPTY VESSEL(AN ALREADY USED LADY BY YAHOO BOYS OR WOMBLESS) FOR HOUSE IN FORM OF A WIFE"

And i always end up by sighing,with a loud "amen"..

atleast an "amen" that'd be loud enough to be heard by GOD...make he kukuma secure my future wife with heavenly made bulletproof.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by PHijo(m): 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

You shouldn't quote scriptures wrongly to suit your purpose! Those with discerning spirit will know those that are compatible with them.

Some get those they think are compatible with them sexually, yet such relationships end. Premarital sex does not guarantee fulfillment.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mofedamijo(m): 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
Nobody is forcing you Sir. I have been to several countries in Southern Africa, if you know what HIV/AIDS and STD is doing to them, you will appreciate sex after marriage. Same in parts of U.S.A. Its increasing among African-Americans. Protection right?? and if it burst or slips??

Some STDS will make some people almost run into psycho......
How many people will you need to sample before you find your spec You might find a good sex compatibility, what if his/her temperament can kill?? You find another one, his/her social life is super boring, then you will know its not all about sex........egungun be careful......

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Kenn55: 10:17pm On May 30, 2020
I hate it when people justify sin.

Even though i am a sinner, i will never justify it. I can never be proud of sin.

We need only the grace of God to overcome it.

OP stop misleading people or are you an Antichrist?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by pippimp(m): 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
Masterclass32:
Sex is meant for married couples. Any sexual gratification outside of marriage is sin.

Lol. Na small pikin de do you. There are some people who are freaks. They can't be helped. And there are some who are docile and conventional. The worst thing that can ever happen is to pair these two kinds of people together in matrimony. That union will fail. Now the question is, how do you know which one you fall under if you don't try and find out?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Chatflick(m): 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
You obviously have been brainwashed. Just pray you make heaven.

PS: You just wrote the most stupid and childish article I've ever read in my entire life. Tuah!

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mu2sa2: 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
Op says Joseph dated mary. How old was mary at the time?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by dahmie2013: 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
This is the problem I have with Nigerian youths, white ppl are making discoveries left & right, all we talk about is sex. Don't we get tired of the subject. Na wa...

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Geenosko: 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
What a twisted and perverse generation sad

Please if you want to go and have sex before marriage, please carry on but don't guilt trip people who decide to wait.


Carry your wahala dey go.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by kingoftech: 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MasterJayJay: 10:18pm On May 30, 2020
Tallesty1:
What the poster is saying in essence is that all the married people who had sex before marriage are all happy in their marriage while those who waited till after marriage either divorce before their first anniversary or live unhappily in the marriage till they die.
Well Hollywood stats paints a different picture.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Harllaby: 10:19pm On May 30, 2020
Remember your cause and bear the consequences

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